Suggestion for Subbu *Updated* - Page 4

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Ishita's past is also complicated. The woman was rejected not only by her long-term fiancee who she had thought was her soul mate but by several others because of her inability to bear a child. And then the repeated taunts, digs she has endured as a 'baanj'. That's bound to cause a a lot of insecurity...and YHM has never addressed that. I was expecting Subbu track would delve into that ...but now that doesn't seem to be the case..instead it's return of a stalkerish ex🤢

Sorry to butt in but these insecurities are not the issues which can't be healed WITHOUT Subbu's presence. Ishita's rejection has two facets- one as a woman and the other one as a mother. When Ruhi came to her life and she became her Ishima, the "mother" Ishita started to get healed. Over 1.5 years Ruhi has created enough bonding with her to make Ishita get out of her this insecurity. The woman Ishita got healed when she started to fall for Raman and when her husband started to reciprocate her love. As people say love is the best healer, I'm sure Ruhi and Raman's combined love is enough for her to get out of her insecurities.

And, her inabity to conceive or the "baanj" thing is also adressed, in a daily soapish way though. Last year's Ruhi and Raman's clarification to Subbu's mom and the whole world or this year's Vandu's goad-bharai incident time re-clarification from her loved ones indicate that .

At this point, Ishita's insecurity will only resurface once IshRa consummate their marriage. No matter how many times we try to deny it, a woman will always try to have her own biological child, specially when there is a way.

I was waiting for a simple Subbu track though. Where Subbu will realize that Ishita has moved on and finally found her soulmate, sort of a closure from both the ends. Other than that, Subbu's got nothing to do with Ishita now. Ishita's insecurities ,if those still exist, it's in Raman's hand to resolve.
I don't think anyone other than him can solve it now.

Originally posted by: arunabhi

Back to comment on your post after a long time. I am excited about posting but not about the content I am planning to post. About the episode - All I can say is I am freaking angry 😡 with both Puttar and Biwi. Puttar called her a stranger and said "Dada Ho Jao"and here she is giving him lift on humanity grounds and sharing nok jhok session with him like a jerk. On the other hand Puttar calls her a "Langdi Madarasan" and expect her to get back. All I can say is Bad Puttar Bad Biwi and me very upset 😭

Coming to Subbu... That guy he is really annoying and I got reminded of Vodafone Ad pugs. Not a big fan of pets and dogs are a big big no for me (P.S: Sorry if this statement offended anyone). Subbu to Ishitha: Wherever you go I will follow 😳.
He had to actually tell her we were Jodi matchers.. I mean really ??? Your wife and kid passed away like months back. Get a life.

Rinki .. I have no words for you and Bhalla family 👏👏.. Not a big surprise. I have never felt so frustrated. Anyways nothing is going to change, I am going to be happy about the confession which is going to come up soon ☺️ . Gan, I can't wait for your drool worthy collages that day 😳

@bold that's my reaction too. Yesterday I was pissed, so skipped making a post ...but today my annoyance overflowed...

Dont worry I'm allergic to anything with fur ...not a pet person at all...so you're not alone. The Dubbu is getting on my nerves..as I hate people who nag and he's really nagging as frankly Ishita has been telling him to back off...but he is over reaching frankly.

Confession..IDK...I know with DiVan it would be droolworthy...but the confession charm is kinda lost on me as yesterday happened. But I know I'll forget everything and start gushing when they air it. 😆 I know I have no self control when it comes to IshRa

True whatever u said !! but just wanted to add I though wasnt quite liking the way ishita kept saying about Raman in front of subbu (wouldnt have minded if it was someone else) And even ishita didn't involve Raman in this plan. We I will let it go because of Raman's behaviour yesterday.

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Gan so nice to see you, even if you make guest appearances !🤗.

Unfortunately, I am not ably to wrap my head around yhm ! The show seems to jump from one end to the other at such a rapid pace, that I am feeling dizzy ! As for Subbu ? The same way that Shaggy is omnipresent, omnipotent, omniscient... Subbu is now in the running for those titles !

Was just wondering whether Ishita has really made it apparent to Subbu that he is not wanted around or is she giving silent signals to subbu to save her, the abla nari and jagat mata from the psycho that is her husband !

I am conphuzed !

Becks 🤗 @bold and the emoticon is as perfect as they can be to describe the YHM viewership...YHM CVs are doing a number with our logical brain...and telling us something which we refuse to acknowledge 😉

As far as I'm concerned, Ishita's been pretty clear as far as her spontaneous reactions to subbu is concerned...but it's a different situation when it comes to her husband. I think she's again trying to prove to Raman that she can fix a situation which he's blaming her for and taking any route that she deems as feasible...which in this case was taking help from her clearly over reaching ex. Sorry if I dont make sense as i'm also in the zone of conphuzion😕

Originally posted by: elene93

Raman's past is complicated with an ex-wife and two children. What is Ishita's past? That she dated a guy for years! If that is the case, half of the married couple in the world should be facing this non-sense. What I'm trying to say that there's no single thing of Ishita's past remains now that can haunt Ishita and Raman. Unless CVs are thinking to make Subbu a dysfunctional stalker.

Originally posted by: ek-paheli

Sorry to butt in but these insecurities are not the issues which can't be healed WITHOUT Subbu's presence. Ishita's rejection has two facets- one as a woman and the other one as a mother. When Ruhi came to her life and she became her Ishima, the "mother" Ishita started to get healed. Over 1.5 years Ruhi has created enough bonding with her to make Ishita get out of her this insecurity. The woman Ishita got healed when she started to fall for Raman and when her husband started to reciprocate her love. As people say love is the best healer, I'm sure Ruhi and Raman's combined love is enough for her to get out of her insecurities.

And, her inabity to conceive or the "baanj" thing is also adressed, in a daily soapish way though. Last year's Ruhi and Raman's clarification to Subbu's mom and the whole world or this year's Vandu's goad-bharai incident time re-clarification from her loved ones indicate that .

At this point, Ishita's insecurity will only resurface once IshRa consummate their marriage. No matter how many times we try to deny it, a woman will always try to have her own biological child, specially when there is a way.

I was waiting for a simple Subbu track though. Where Subbu will realize that Ishita has moved on and finally found her soulmate, sort of a closure from both the ends. Other than that, Subbu's got nothing to do with Ishita now. Ishita's insecurities ,if those still exist, it's in Raman's hand to resolve.
I don't think anyone other than him can solve it now.

Thanks for the elaboration that I wanted to say in few words!

Originally posted by: ek-paheli

Sorry to butt in but these insecurities are not the issues which can't be healed WITHOUT Subbu's presence. Ishita's rejection has two facets- one as a woman and the other one as a mother. When Ruhi came to her life and she became her Ishima, the "mother" Ishita started to get healed. Over 1.5 years Ruhi has created enough bonding with her to make Ishita get out of her this insecurity. The woman Ishita got healed when she started to fall for Raman and when her husband started to reciprocate her love. As people say love is the best healer, I'm sure Ruhi and Raman's combined love is enough for her to get out of her insecurities.

And, her inabity to conceive or the "baanj" thing is also adressed, in a daily soapish way though. Last year's Ruhi and Raman's clarification to Subbu's mom and the whole world or this year's Vandu's goad-bharai incident time re-clarification from her loved ones indicate that .

At this point, Ishita's insecurity will only resurface once IshRa consummate their marriage. No matter how many times we try to deny it, a woman will always try to have her own biological child, specially when there is a way.

I was waiting for a simple Subbu track though. Where Subbu will realize that Ishita has moved on and finally found her soulmate, sort of a closure from both the ends. Other than that, Subbu's got nothing to do with Ishita now. Ishita's insecurities ,if those still exist, it's in Raman's hand to resolve.
I don't think anyone other than him can solve it now.

Thanks for your comment...very well put. BTW you're not Aaani right? 😊

While I agree with you that Raman is the one who'll resolve Ishita's insecurity, I dont think YHM did address the depth of Ishita's scars as well as they have Raman's past scars. I had expected Subbu's presence to bring forth those past memories...which she seems to have buried deep in the recess of herself. I still feel Ishita as a woman still somehow feels incomplete as she can't conceive and that feeling comes from those crass rejections in her past...and her whole tearing up the the report that Raman brought which might have given her a chance to conceive also stemmed from that insecurity. Sometimes people steer away from situations that they deem they might fail..Ishita buries all her true feelings about her physical 'deficiency' by not talking about it. I had expected Subbu's presence to bring forth that...as how much we move on, a 12 year relationship that ended the way it did is bound to open up some bad memories...ones that made her feel she's not a complete woman. And that's when Raman's role as her husband, lover starts. That was my expectation.

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Sorry Gan, I hope I am not treading on any toes whilst responding to this comment. Also, this is not a Raman V/S Ishita post. I love both equally and am always Team IshRa.

Raman, definitely has a very complicated past. The woman, who he loved very very much, walked out on their marriage with their six year old son leaving behind an infant , barely 6 months old and a shy, geeky, nerdy man who was unable to fulfill her material desires and wants. She spewed so much vitriol and venom that the 6 year old child was brainwashed into believing that his father was a monster. He was so scarred that he changed from a sweet loving young man into this embittered, angry man unable to even look at his daughter because she reminded him of his unfaithful wife !

Now coming to Ishita, what is her past ? Nothing... It is a bed of roses ! The man she was in love with from the time that she was 15, the man she thought she would spend the rest of her life with, the man who she thought was her life and pillar of strength rejected her on the day of their engagement, because of circumstances beyond her control and out of her hands. what is her past ? It is a bed of roses !

She had to listen to the woman who would have been her mother in law, continuously taunt her for her medical condition in public.. what is her past ? Just a bed of roses !

Being continuously rejected by a variety of suitors, due to her medical condition and taking it all in her stride without faltering and keeping a smile and an outwardly calm demeanor so that her parents don't realise how much she hurts ! What is her past ? It is a bed of roses !

Finally, she meets a man who knows her medical condition and agrees to marry her, but on the day of engagement takes a step back due to her stand for her family.. what is her past ? Nothing but a bed of roses !

Raman and Ishita are both victims of their loved ones as well as the circumstances ! It is very easy to discount one characters' pain and emphasize others because we love one character more than the other !

Both of them have lived through tremendous trauma... And both deserve peace and happiness in their lives !

#iloveputtarandbiwi

#teamishraforever !

gan, I missed u so much... I have nothing to say abt the epi... i made a post myself...n now m very tired .. i ddnt rant properly but yet i m so tired... thts yhm ka epi today...