SS16 'Only for everything' on 148 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Ashu

I have NO CLUE how we manage to have the BEST discussions around here. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU

In the words of Zadie Smith

THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION AND TIME
ITS PRICELESS

This topic has seen the coming together of some of the smartest and discerning individuals with some of the most thought provoking piercing arguments on EVERY issue there is

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

Already five gone in celebrations...

This milestone deserves a tiny update doesn't it? Nisha. 😕

Of course not, only YOU are allowed to wear your sparkling cynicism as your badge of brilliance!!!"

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Hahahaha..

SR you must g to work now 😆

CONGRATS on the 16 th Nisha...Thanks aTon for weaving this wonderful tale!!

Originally posted by: Seriousreader

Don't feel like it...want motivation in form of a small update from the writer madam!😳

15 minutes 6 pages!!!!this is crazy...update milega kya???

Originally posted by: EnVee

Masaledar discussions.

For me, R&B raising the whole self-worth issue is because he is seeing II raising it every now and then. In the car she bought for her dad. In not wanting to buy any thing with his money and such. So his reaction is a reaction to the overall and not just with Manny's incident. He is attacking, I would say, the root of all problems.

Also, he is now showing signs of impatience? frustration? because this self-worth issue is getting out of his individual clutches to his family members. Not so nice a feeling.

In not supporting II or accusing her, he may be insulting II or hurting her feelings. But I would think it is also his saturation with II's 'insult' if I may call so of not wanting to taking any of his money or considering herself part of his home. He is also responsible for this, but right now, he is reacting to the overall and not just to Manny. I think Manny issue for him is just one small thing.

VERY WELL WRITTEN

All those that think R&B did not do "enough" think about this, IF he had told what Manny thought of her wont it confirm her doubts? He is having an impossibly hard time trying to come to terms with her unforgiving rigid principles.

Telling her what Manny thinks of her, telling her Manny even has the slightest suspicion about her will send her running, like Hershey says

She will leave him for good.
He tried to tone down her disappointment by saying she is "imagining" Manny's insult. Being honest will result in a lost wife
He did what he could to KEEP his wife

things may get worse... or better who knows... who thinks about 20 years ahead etc

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Manager ko bulaon ??

Motivation apne aap aajayega 😃

Originally posted by: TheSunShine

I don't think if someone questions your self respect anyone is going to plot and plan so that they loose nothing at the end. Manny accused her/her friends of stealth basically of them being from middle class and not having enough money and resorting to burglary to get what(laptop she/they don't have and she answere her by sending a new laptop that she has enough money to buy one herself. I don't see this as trading self respect with money.