Ruhi hai toh hum hai...Subbu was RIGHT then.!!!

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appuss

@appuss

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

I didnt find anything wrong with that. Ruhi is the soul of their relation and will remain so ...and I dont think it will change even if ishra have a kid of their own.

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Adi

@enigma6

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: RaimaV
Ruhi hai toh hum hai...what a silly dialog..!!! What does that mean? If god forbids Ruhi dies, then Ishita will call off their marriage. What will she do when Ruhi will leave the house after her marriage, Ishita will divorce Raman? Huh!

CVs should check this kind of stupid dialogs. They want to show a concerned mother but in the process they are depicting a self centered detached wife.

Check the statistics on losing a child leading to a broken marriage. Its actually more common that people think. Yes, marriage is between two individuals in love, usually before the kids come in the picture. However, once they are here, they are the epicenter of their parents' existence. More often than not, when a child dies, specially when there are no other kids, the parents drift apart. The marriage either ends or even though they stay married, its only in papers. The stats say so and I have seen that happen in real life. The loss of a child IS the biggest loss a married couple can face.

In this case, the marriage between Ishita nd Raman happened because of Ruhi. Ruhi is the factor that brought them together. So Ishita's dialogues are not really OTT.

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RaimaV

@RaimaV

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: enigma6

Check the statistics on losing a child leading to a broken marriage. Its actually more common that people think. Yes, marriage is between two individuals in love, usually before the kids come in the picture. However, once they are here, they are the epicenter of their parents' existence. More often than not, when a child dies, specially when there are no other kids, the parents drift apart. The marriage either ends or even though they stay married, its only in papers. The stats say so and I have seen that happen in real life. The loss of a child IS the biggest loss a married couple can face.
In this case, the marriage between Ishita nd Raman happened because of Ruhi. Ruhi is the factor that brought them together. So Ishita's dialogues are not really OTT.

I googled that and found it's negligible, you can check it too. And considering Indian society, it's very rare. 😳

Even we consider what are you saying is right, then Subbu was right too, no? No married woman tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child! shita in a way justified Subbu's stance-- you need a child to love your spouse!

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ZigBee

@ZigBee

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: RaimaV

Well, all of you are saying the same thing Ruhi is everything to her. Without Ruhi, Raman ceases to exist for her. That is very disappointing! And I am sure this is not the case for Raman, she will still love Ishita if there is no Ruhi.

I wonder if she would have said same things to Subbu! No married woman tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child! It's completely news to me! Ishita in a way justified Subbu's stance-- you need a child to love your spouse!

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ishita143raman

@ishita143raman

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Yaar ye to sayad uska fear bol raha tha kyuki usko pata hain ki shaadi ruhi ke liye hui hain aur vo raman Par aur uski family pe trust nahi kar pa rahi hain hab dekho GKC aur adi adi karna

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krish77

@krish77

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

seriously!!! i agree with your dialogue 'ruhi hai tho hum hai', bcoz the way the track is moving ahead potrays the same.

once subbu told children are the only for a relation to withstand... and now ishu showing it practically by eloping ruhi🤢

subbu has told it and ishu showing it practically.

some are bashing ishu, some are bashing raman... but i would like bash d dialogue writer😡 .

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RaimaV

@RaimaV

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: krish77
seriously!!! i agree with your dialogue 'ruhi hai tho hum hai', bcoz the way the track is moving ahead potrays the same.
once subbu told children are the only for a relation to withstand... and now ishu showing it practically by eloping ruhi🤢
subbu has told it and ishu showing it practically.

some are bashing ishu, some are bashing raman... but i would like bash d dialogue writer😡 .

Exactly, Ishita's dialogue was cringe-worthy and in a way proved Subbu's point.
Yes, I also blame CVs for that.

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meera

@mira

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

honestly when it comes to any mother, her child is more important to her than husband...not to say she will sacrifice one for another but no mother will ever count anyones feelings more than her child...sorry but thats how women are. And in this case the number of times Raman sidelined ishitha's self respect and ruhi's love when it comes to adi, i dont see any reason why ishita can be blamed for her conviction that ruhi is her sole love. I understand your frustration to know that Raman means much less for Ishita ...but this is just not another romantic story about a girl meet guy and things go all lovey dovey...this whole story is about how ruhi brings raman and ishita together.

I dont understand this bias... just the otherday raman accused ishita for rinki's failed marriage...how on earth is one woman resp for it?? he is her brother ...wasnt it his duty to checkout the guys family and status? and all those ridiculus dialogues about runing his life and crap abbout marriage of convinience... well ishita at least is write when she says he made a big mistake... in his hurry to get his son he forgot the fact that shagun is ...well shagun!!!

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Pooja2311

@Pooja2311

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: RaimaV

I wonder if she would have said same things to Subbu! No married woman tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child! It's completely news to me! Ishita in a way justified Subbu's stance-- you need a child to love your spouse!

Wow! That's an interesting angle. I guess CVs didn't understand the repercussion of giving Ishita that OTT dialogue. A child is never needed for love or a successful marriage. But you are right Ishita's dialogue does raise the question that whether Subbu was right after all or more precisely, for the blind love for Ruhi, Ishita is also thinking like him or not!

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isha01

@isha01

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: RaimaV

I wonder if she would have said same things to Subbu! No married woman tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child! It's completely news to me! Ishita in a way justified Subbu's stance-- you need a child to love your spouse!

most of the woman become a mother after marriage of her own child n her husband is the biological father of the baby...BUT ishita became a mother of a child who had parents (who never care for ruhi). FInally ishita is a mother first then a wife...so again m not finding a logic in ur "no married..." line for ishita !!

You cant mix it up with subbu's case...thats totally different !!!

Edited by isha01 - 10 years ago