Ruhi hai toh hum hai...Subbu was RIGHT then.!!!

Ruhi hai toh hum hai...what a silly dialog..!!! What does that mean? If god forbids Ruhi dies, then Ishita will call off their marriage. What will she do when Ruhi will leave the house after her marriage, Ishita will divorce Raman? Huh!

CVs should check this kind of stupid dialogs. They want to show a concerned mother but in the process they are depicting a self centered detached wife.

Edited (to all who are opposing)

Well, all of you are saying the same thing Ruhi is everything to her. Without Ruhi, Raman ceases to exist for her. That is very disappointing! And I am sure this is not the case for Raman, she will still love Ishita if there is no Ruhi.

I wonder if she would have said same things to Subbu! No married woman tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child! It's completely news to me! Ishita in a way justified Subbu's stance-- you need a child to love your spouse!

Why blame Ishita for saying it ...till today if someone stood by her it was her daughter. .one cannot deny that this marriage happened because of Ruhi and for Ruhi ...she might have said that in anger,frustration but I don't blame her for it...I would be dissapointed if she had forgiven Raman fir being careless about their daughter

Originally posted by: yyy

Why blame Ishita for saying it ...till today if someone stood by her it was her daughter. .one cannot deny that this marriage happened because of Ruhi and for Ruhi ...she might have said that in anger,frustration but I don't blame her for it...I would be dissapointed if she had forgiven Raman fir being careless about their daughter

Why was this post not made when Raman claimed that he will take their relationship forward after Adi is back ...

So you are saying that since Ruhi stood by her, she can say anything for her! Then what's the love she has for Raman, is it a fake then? Just for Ruhi? LOL . Why are you forgetting that Ruhi is Raman's daughter too, he is equally in pain. Well, not only you, even Ishita forgot that Ruhi is Raman's daughter! Raman wasn't careless for Ruhi, that's some preposterous accusation! You can say he was careless for Adi's custody, Ruhi wasn't in the picture.

Next level-Adi connection, do read that:
My view:RKB to take their relation to next level,he needs Adi with him
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4329878

Originally posted by: RaimaV

Ruhi hai toh hum hai...what a silly dialog..!!! What does that mean? If god forbids Ruhi dies, then Ishita will call off their marriage. What will she do when Ruhi will leave the house after her marriage, Ishita will divorce Raman? Huh!

CVs should check this kind of stupid dialogs. They want to show a concerned mother but in the process they are depicting a self centered detached wife.

its not so silly at all...i dont find any wrong whatever she told cz actually ruhi is thie base of this relationship.She is RIGHT. A man and a woman, who was not ready to see each other face but now they are in love. Why - How n Who is responsible for this...ANS is RUHI. Its not so simple like u r thinking...sorry if i hurt u but the real base is ruhi so i felt nothing wrong in it 😊

Originally posted by: RaimaV

Ruhi hai toh hum hai...what a silly dialog..!!! What does that mean? If god forbids Ruhi dies, then Ishita will call off their marriage. What will she do when Ruhi will leave the house after her marriage, Ishita will divorce Raman? Huh!

CVs should check this kind of stupid dialogs. They want to show a concerned mother but in the process they are depicting a self centered detached wife.

Agree to your post... N ppl who are defending Ishita we are not here weighing mistakes from Raman side amd Ishita's side... All we are saying the whole forum bashed for saying that Ishita ruined his life... Accordingly what she said ruhi hain toh hum hain.. Iur relationship is after ruhi dialogue was equally ridiculous... he gave her his daughter n also saved Ishita's mother from death.

Originally posted by: RaimaV

So you are saying that since Ruhi stood by her, she can say anything for her! Then what's the love she has for Raman, is it a fake then? Just for Ruhi? LOL . Why are you forgetting that Ruhi is Raman's daughter too, he is equally in pain. Well, not only you, even Ishita forgot that Ruhi is Raman's daughter! Raman wasn't careless for Ruhi, that's some preposterous accusation! You can say he was careless for Adi's custody, Ruhi wasn't in the picture.

Next level-Adi connection, do read that:
My view:RKB to take their relation to next level,he needs Adi with him
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4329878

Originally posted by: isha01

its not so silly at all...i dont find any wrong whatever she told cz actually ruhi is thie base of this relationship.She is RIGHT. A man and a woman, who was not ready to see each other face but now they are in love. Why - How n Who is responsible for this...ANS is RUHI. Its not so simple like u r thinking...sorry if i hurt u but the real base is ruhi so i felt nothing wrong in it 😊

Agree ruhi is the base but that doesn't mean there is no value for raman in her life without ruhi... but i don't take her words seriously coz u speak so many things when in anger or in pain... But i really make it a point to show this to Raman bashers n haters.. Coz even jagatmata's can speak some blunders in pain

Originally posted by: sunitas123

what are you saying? ishita married Raman for Ruhi then fell in love with Raman. She blurted all that in anger just like Raman said last week tumne meri zindagi barbaad kar di.

Why go by what Ishita says? The Bhallas and Raman are okay so long as she does what they want, else they are nasty to her. She is really angry coz this could have been avoided and it was a huge shock. She was constantly warning Raman but he did not give a damn. This need not have happened at all! Accidents or natural deaths cant be averted. But for a mother her daughter is always first and with ishita she did not even know Raman, she fell for Ruhi- Ruhi is her first love.

Raman has also said mean things and made her do so many sorries etc just for Adi! So he says you are most important but for him Adi comes first too...

Originally posted by: isha01

its not so silly at all...i dont find any wrong whatever she told cz actually ruhi is thie base of this relationship.She is RIGHT. A man and a woman, who was not ready to see each other face but now they are in love. Why - How n Who is responsible for this...ANS is RUHI. Its not so simple like u r thinking...sorry if i hurt u but the real base is ruhi so i felt nothing wrong in it 😊

Originally posted by: poornimar

I beg to differ as when we look at that scene and listen to the dialogues, we can see the desperation Ishita had. She got the best husband who makes her complete because of Ruhi. It all started with Ruhi so she does not want to lose that first and meaningful link. It was a desperate mother trying to make her husband who has paternal love for ruhi but doesn't realise how lonely /ishita was before Ruhi came into her life.

Raman had his whole family, Ishita was shunned by most of the world before Ruhi came inot her life so ...

Well, all of you are saying the same thing Ruhi is everything to her. Without Ruhi, Raman ceases to exist for her. That is very disappointing! And I am sure this is not the case for Raman, she will still love Ishita if there is no Ruhi.

I wonder if she would have said same things to Subbu! No married woman tells her husband that their relationship exists because of their child! It's completely news to me! Ishita in a way justified Subbu's stance-- you need a child to love your spouse!