Ruhi hai toh hum hai...Subbu was RIGHT then.!!! - Page 3

I see this statement as correct, because of Ruhi they both got married and I think this is what the CVs meant. Of course now Ishita is angry and devastated, not thinking rationally at all, she will be extra possessive of her child, any mother would be in this state, believe me I've seen people in situations like this where they had to be taken to hospital and Child custody can destroy families. Saying all this does not mean she doesn't have feelings for Raman.

Originally posted by: isha01

most of the woman become a mother after marriage of her own child n her husband is the biological father of the baby...BUT ishita became a mother of a child who had parents (who never care for ruhi). FInally ishita is a mother first then a wife...so again m not finding a logic for ishita !!

You cant mix it up with subbu's case...thats totally different !!!

Originally posted by: momb24

I see this statement as correct, because of Ruhi they both got married and I think this is what the CVs meant. Of course now Ishita is angry and devastated, not thinking rationally at all, she will be extra possessive of her child, any mother would be in this state, believe me I've seen people in situations like this where they had to be taken to hospital and Child custody can destroy families. Saying all this does not mean she doesn't have feelings for Raman.

Originally posted by: sunitas123

She said it in anger. Raman said tumne meri zindagi barbaad kar di just last week for no fault of hers. Here he is at fault and Ishita has been warning him umpteen no of times. So Raman here made a huge mistake - that too coming from a CEO is difficult to believe. Even I said soon as Shagun took the paper, she will change the contract...its simple logic when it comes to Shagun.

Raman says u r most imp, but next min he makes her do lousy things for Adi. She still did it all, coz she loves Raman. In fact Ishita's love is unconditional, not just for Ruhi but for all- that is her inherent nature. jsut coz she blurted out something in anger does not mean she will do it, right now she does not even know how she will live forget about loving Raman etc...

if Ishita did not love Raman why would she ever think of bringing Shagun into Bhalla house? If she only loved Ruhi, why wud she bother about Shagun and Adi? she has always wanted everything for Raman... she is in fact too selfless...

Originally posted by: --Megha--

I think she meant that if Ruhi is not there with us then I will not be the same Ishita. I will be a broken individual n it will indirectly affect their relationship too.

I am not going into the territory of who loves whom more?

We can't equate parents love to spouse's love. n its true that when Parents lose one of their kids (coz of some tragedy - death,kidnapping or lost) then it does affect parent's marital relationship. It will not be the same it was earlier.

The reason we feel that Raman loves Ishita more is coz CV's use him as a puppet for romantic scenes n rarely show a scene of Raman as a "dad". How many Ruman scenes we have seen compared to Ishru scenes? Does this mean that Raman does not love his children? 😕 Nope he does but Cvs don't show this story through Raman's pov of losing his children. (Even when he was neglecting Ruhi - they showed him caring for her when he picked lice from her hair or took her to dentist n even when he was missing Ruhi when she was taken away from him during Custody case 1). He avoided getting attached to her in 6 years as she reminded him of Shagun n i think he didnt wanted to get attached to her thinking she too might leave him like Adi did. But he still loved her always. He was equally scared for her when she had dog bite.

Even if I consider that Ishita was rejecting Raman n choosing Ruhi over him- I don't feel its wrong coz she being a mother has all rights to do that. Maybe today she sounded like Subbu but what she meant is right. If something happens to Ruhi obviously it will create a dent in Ishra relationship n it will not b like that Raman will not care - he too wud be devastated, he actually is now too (only thing is CVs r not showing it from father's perspective).

Y Subbu was wrong - he unceremoniously dumped Ishita like a hot potato (maybe he did it for his own selfish reasons but if he truly "loved" her he should have adopted a child if it really mattered him so much).

I think Ishita running away with RUhi is her biggest mistake till date as it shows that she doesnt trust Bhalla's n Raman (within her character as she was shown as someone who takes her decisions herself n never waits to discuss it with the whole family). So lets see where this will lead her. 😳

Originally posted by: --Megha--

^^^^but its human to make mistakes?

I wud take this Ishita any day over the Sautan soup feeding Ishita.

Raman too makes mistakes we forgive that character so y not Ishita? 😊

Originally posted by: ankitasen

Yeah...as a viewer, we will definitely prefer that. But it does more harm to her characterization than to feeding some soup to her sauten. And, some mistakes are irreversible. I'm sure Ruhi will eventually be back to her but her this decision could cost her Ruhi in the real world. That means for the love of Ruhi, Ishita might end up feeding soup to both Shagun and Ruhi. 😆