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Posted: 10 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan



Anu the part in red is like a saying in India where it implies that you have to work hard to earn whatever you are ..life doesn't give things easy ( In India FIL s give SIL's lavish wedding gifts 😉)

About Ishita not having any GF it was probably because she's so close to Vandita and Mihika probably she never needed one outside of family...rest was compensated by Mani and later Bala...yes I would also love Ishita to have a friend to hang out occasionally.( well she's a soap bahu ..so they hardly have time to explore self-serving stuff rather goes over board trying to be the perfect woman😉)

I'm all for Shagun- Suraj...they will be lost in trying to decipher what the other side is implying😆 and he has money...and that would be the best revenge against Ashok. #Project GoodRiddance

lol ...for me I love Ravan Kumar's occasional sensitive(feminine) side...not the majboor baap phase though.🤢



Is that what the red meant? I thought Malhotra's FIL had given him the company thats why he got so upset. 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veeann



Is that what the red meant? I thought Malhotra's FIL had given him the company thats why he got so upset. 🤣



@Vee: I totally get you about your investment in this character. There are a few men I love from books (Darcy, Thornton etc) and there was 1 character I was obsessed with from a US soap when I was in high school... and now RKB. My first Desi TV crush. And all the men are have the same character description in the end... I don't know what it is that draws me... or what it says about me 😆

And I thought the same thing about that line yesterday, that's what it means here but I can appreciate that things may have different connotations in India...Either way though RKB' s insult works😉

But hey if Malhotra is not married, that makes things easier for Shagun... and if he is i hope it's to someone unlike Ishita and more like and older version of Shagun who will make Shagun's life h*** as she enjoys the lap of sugar daddy luxury.😛

But TBH I am more partial to #Project GoodRiddance (thanks G!😊). Practically Suraj hasn't has a track since the Ishu's licence debate, he is kinda pissed about ASMI and how Ashok has changed and though he can't stand Shagun he has had instances of bring nice to her (when he dropped her off @ Adhi's school the day Mihir punched him) and he does seem more of a strategist then anything as well.

Maybe he's her one true love , you know, the old 'hate to love' track.. like ISHRA except with more patterned vests and less saree material. 🤣

I think it'd be a fun track that can give them all a good presence and get the viewers to like Shagun again ... but we'll see what the CVs come up with.

@G: I love his sensitivity too, being in love and being around Ishu & Ru generally does seem to bring that out in him... I just hope they don't take it too far again- as they have in the past. There is a possibility for this situation to go that way, I hope though that the CVs pul back from that and give us the strong, uber confident , s**y RKB we all fell in love with who will take down Mr. Malhotra & Ashok and only share some insecurity about what's going on with Ishita. Considering we've already seen both Bala & Appah go through financial issues I suppose it was time for a Bhalla to do so and why not Raman... already his track is shown different then theirs in the support from his spouse , hopefully the trend continues.😊

Actually I am quite curious as to what Mihir reaction will be to the situation... the family's is pretty predictable i think but Mihir's could be quite interesting if done right...😃 The idea of him carving out his own identity in the corporate world and figure out who he is outside of Raman is intriguing...

@Payal: Your post is so beautiful I am jealous... how do you find such words?😆 Seriouly well thought, I've missed your posts the last while and I am so so glad you're back . 🤗 Perfectly timed for your Adhi's return to the Bhalla fold ... 😊

Totally agree with you on Shagun's feelings for Adhi, I believed she loved him previously, certainly not Ru but Adhi for sure... the way she is being portrayed now just makes you question that. Which makes her a simply selfish woman with no redeeming quality... kinda boring and uninteresting with no complexity... I thought the CVs were smarter then that.😕


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Posted: 10 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: Veeann



I know he'll come out of it, but you know I ❤️ RKB so much, that dil dukhta hai to see him in trouble like this. I dont know how I got so invested in a fictional character, but there it is. 😆 Ya, I hope they dont make him into a bechaara, like he used to be when Shagun was in his life - but I dont think they will. Love all the analysis everyone's done on the scene today - that was such a beautiful visual of love and support and togetherness. I am not married, but I guess that's what marriage is all about, ya (when its done right that is. I have done a lot of Family Court work and I do know what marriage looks like when its not done right!!!)



Oh girl! I totally understand you - I've been into a lot of TV shows (Desi, American, & British), but never has one character resonated with me as much as RKB & Ishita. I'm definitely a bit more biased to Raman, but my heart goes out to both of these characters regularly.

This Raman leaves his job track has so many options - he could become depressed & Biwi is the sole breadwinner, he could start a new job but on the bottom of the totem pole & potentially feel inferior to Biwi, he could start a new venture with Biwi fully on board, or my favorite, the shrewd businessman, RKB, reemerges! All of the options I can think of are pretty real to life, and I've seen them play out differently with couples I know!

In terms of marriage done right, I love how they've shown the progression of Ishita & Raman's marriage. They've done such a good job of incorporating realistic challenges and the couple's approach. Yea there are OTT moments but as a whole, they are more realistic than any other Desi TV couple I've seen! Like I could see a conversation like today between my parents, and that's really unique for Desi TV!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today's episodes seem to have brought out the best in everyone's writing! Gan, Anu, Payal, Shalz, Kri, Wings-of-Fire, Batameez Dil (can't remeber your name at the moment for the life of me - sorry!) & everyone else - I've loved reading your posts and totally echo what each of you has said!

@Anu - now that the countdown to the anniversary is over, can I join #Team Shagun-Suraj?

@Payal - I love the lyrics you incorporated into your post!

this thread is the #best study break!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Payal-



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"They sat on a park bench, held hands, and told each other their stories hour after hour. They were not lonely anymore. They had found and been found by their 100% perfect other. What a wonderful thing it is to find and be found by your 100% perfect other. It's a miracle, a cosmic miracle."
" Haruki Murakami

This is the quote that came to mind while watching today's episode. As Ishita spoke of her bond with her husband, and RKB sought out his wife in a moment of uncertainty, I couldn't help but be content at the fact that despite all odds, and quite unexpectedly, by some divine intervention, these two found each other. I'm with you P...It's combination of Devi Maiya and Murugan joint intervention that brought these two apparent unlikely individuals together and they complement each other perfectly. It took them a some bad hurdles to cross but they were destined to be together.

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That 1st edit is magical, Gan. You know I'm a sucker for your B&W edits 😳
The quote is pure perfection. Just random thoughts from me today. I loved the episode so much...it reminded me of the episodes surrounding Mihir-Mihika's engagement. you know how much I dig your random thoughts 😊

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Raman's support of Mihir then echoed in his stepping aside for his friend-brother today, vowing not to come in the way of his success. I love this relationship they share. Both would give and do anything for each other. Such friendships...relationships, are very rare. A relationship in which you are truly invested in someone without asking for anything in return. Its no secret that Mihir wouldn't have accepted the job had he known it was taken from Raman and given to him...as for RKB, he's been known to make sacrifices for the ones he loves...I'd like to believe it's more than just a sacrifice in this case though. RKB knows Mihir deserves this, and is capable, what it could mean for his little brother's career. He once gave up his presidency for Ishita. Mihir is no less. He'd hand the company over without a second thought if need-be. That's just the stuff he's made of. The stuff of a man you can't help but respect. Love these two in their poignant moments. A little brother overjoyed at the success only his older brother could have made possible...and an older brother stepping aside to allow his little brother to shine, all the while standing as a strong pillar of support. Love It. @underline for me that is Raman's strongest characteristic..his fierce loyalty towards his loved ones..he would do anything for their happiness. And today was no exception. Also Mihir and Raman's relationship is as unique as Ishita and Ruhi's relationship in real life perspective...first one tied by unconditional trust, the latter by unconditional love. Unconditional is the key element in both equations.

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Is it just me or is Ishita unbelievably beautiful when she speaks of her love for & relationship with her husband? I know some may have thought her monologue to be a little on the 'lecture' side today, but for me, every bit of it was a beautiful realization. It reminded me of the time she was talking to Mihika on the balcony when she was first beginning to realize that just maybe she's in love with her husband. How beautiful the journey between then and now has been. Then, the idea of his being her husband - apart from her daughter's papa - was almost a foreign thought. Now, he's her husband first, and Ruhi's papa after. How true what she said - that you don't know what you've been missing until that very thing comes into your life and shakes up your perceived balance and contentedness. We can't appreciate the beauty of something if we've never experienced it. Never in her wildest dreams would she have imagined this life...this level of contentedness as she has found with him. She still spoke of Ruhi as being the missing link in her life, but Ruhi gave her something she never dreamt of, never bargained for - this relationship she now shares with a man who exceeded all her expectations. I love the certainty with which she speaks of the strength of their bond - one which has been cultivated in the purest of ways...through their growing support and understanding of one another over all these weeks, months. There once was a time when she wasn't sure if she'd ever be able to make a place for herself in his heart...but today, she's completely confident in the same...she's finally realized her ability to love and be loved...and I think it's beautiful. *sigh* you made me all mushy with this...yes to me also it never felt it was a lecture...she's sharing her own life experience with Rinki...and the way she talked about Raman ...there was some ethereal quality about it...

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RKB surely is a different man, isn't he? The RKB of a few months ago would never have burdened someone else with his worries. He's always been the one to shoulder the burden on his own...not knowing what it's like to have someone there who would actually want to share the burden with you. Of late however, he's realized what it's like to have a companion who will gladly help you carry the weight of life. The RKB of a few months ago would have spent sleepless nights over this and then "handled" it on his own; he would have tried to fix the problem before his family realized that there was a problem at all. This RKB however, actually sought out his wife today...seeking her reassuring guidance and support. I've said it before, I know, but how wonderful it must be for him to finally have someone to turn to in moments like this. There's a quote: There must be those among who we can sit down and weep, and still be counted as warriors. I think this is what Ishita is for RKB. He can fall apart before her - completely unravel, and she'll still be his pillar, a source of encouragement who, through her faith in him, will restore his faith in himself. Payal you just wowed me there. 👏

I know I sound like a broken record when I say that the level of understanding that these two share baffles me, but it does. Loved the conversation...her ability to read right through him, his inability to hide his insecurities from her, and then realizing he doesn't need to, because she'll stand with him no matter the storm they face.

The moment he sought her hand...that comforting, reassuring touch. I can't even...your quote above says it all.

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ADI...mere jigar ka tukda. ❤️

I know I've previously claimed that Shagun does in fact love her son, but her actions of late are making me question the same. My heart goes out to this little boy who's mom is too self-centered to care for him.

I am so thankful for this track, and everything leading up to it (yes, even the unrealistic nonsense at times) because my Adi will finally get he love and family he's been missing out on all these years. Loved the moment between Adi and his Chachu today. My heart goes out to Romi as it does to Adi - they've both been influenced by and fallen victim to Shagun's misdeeds. At such a time, if Adi and his Chachu can find a bit of solace in each other, then why not? I look forward to seeing what's to come with Adi...I'm so hopeful that things will finally change for the better for this misguided child. Going by his change in demeanor in yesterday's episode, I think it's safe to say that with Ishita's influence, things will turn around sooner than later. Finally. I still remember your Post about Adi and we're so glad when Adi entered the Bhalla house because it gave hope that this boy was finnaly getting a chance to turn his world around...and then God knows why the CVs turned his into a conniving tween playing adult mind games ...but I'm glad eventually we're at that place where I feel Adi is facing the darkest part of night before dawn breaks for him. And I do hope that Raman also plays an active role in getting him there...He's an amazing Papa and maybe all those futile efforts by him to get close to his son is somehow forcing me to wish that the CVs do give him a chance wrt Adi too.

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Sorry for the rant. It has been a while...I got carried away. 😳

Love,
P



You forgot our rule about 'Sorry' 😡

Wonderful post! Hope you're feeling better.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishy13

Today's episodes seem to have brought out the best in everyone's writing! Gan, Anu, Payal, Shalz, Kri, Wings-of-Fire, Batameez Dil (can't remeber your name at the moment for the life of me - sorry!) & everyone else - I've loved reading your posts and totally echo what each of you has said!

@Anu - now that the countdown to the anniversary is over, can I join #Team Shagun-Suraj?

@Payal - I love the lyrics you incorporated into your post!

this thread is the #best study break!



Krishy we (you included) are all folks who need couple of minutes of heart touching moment to go all gushy...and today we got an episode of emotions of all kinds...so people just wrote from their hearts...I get to more "summary mode" though...as episodes like these where multiple scenes are so touching I get overwhelmed expression wise.

Payal is another Doc when it comes to songs and feels..She's been busy because she's started a job...otherwise between her and Doc we used to get beautiful songs posted here.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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the scene between raman n ishita reminded me so much of our daily life... how at times our spouses try to hide n yet cant seem to hide the worries n tensions.. i was praying to yhm gods.. tht raman shares his problem with ishita n not hide it.. like I always say this to my husband.. if you decide to hide things from me not to give me tension...remember you r breaking ur deal of sharing ur life with me... i feel husband wife relationship shud be like a Sponge... you soak away all worries of your spouse by just being there. That is marriage...n the scene like tht in tellyworld is rare..infact i dont think i have seen something like this ever in hindi serials...
u can understand the scene touched me very deeply...yes that scene touched a chord in everyone, especially ones who are married or in relationship. A simple way to show how deep an understanding between a couple can be. They didnt need a lot of words to share or support...subtlety at its best.

scene between rinki n ishita... bhabi nanad bonding at its best... yes rinki doesnt want to marry...n i completely understand her predictament... but ishita is not forcing her to marry..she is just asking her to meet the guy..coz u never know when u meet the guy you wanna share ur life with... ( i rejected my husband's pic twice before falling in love with the person he is...)

the first scene between raman n mihir i missed... so will have to see it to comment on it... but i m so proud of raman tht he didnt feel inferior or jealous of the situation..n went ahead to supprt his lil bro... tht makes him a true Human being...

Shagun...no comment... but there r woman like this in real life...

Adi.. aaj kal mujhe yeh acha lag raha hain... i m finding him as real 11 yr old boy... 😳 i think his acting has also improved... I wrote in a thread that was dedicated to appreciating Gautam that probably as a 12 yr old he can relate to this Adi more than the one he was portraying..so we see the honesty in portrayal.

if we get to see such realistic drama (ofcourse drama to hoga hi...) in yhm... i dont mind even if it is out of top 5 in trp war... coz no offense to any show.. if you have to have OTT drama n not so good actor to be at top 1... hum last hi sahi...

If you see this serial...n compare with any seriall...ekta or nonekta... u will be amazed as how close to real life it is... yesterday only... kya sujjha..i was reading synopsis of a very old kekta serial... n i was wondering...wow man..killing each other..plastic surgery was the order of the day... n they were on top... so rehene do yaaro... hum akele hi jee lenge...

i felt connected to the epi...n yes thats y a long rant...

I m verbose like ishita...n we talk a lot... yeh u can say we lecture...but hum dil ke ache aur sache hain..

n again Gan..thanks for the thread...lovely collages... n a place where we can all freely keep our opinion...was not regular for few days... missed ur posts a lot...



Darun Shalini.👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

That Moment ...Screen Freezed ❤️

"I can overcome all my fears if you just have faith in me. I can face all my problems if you just stay by my side. I can gather the shattered pieces of my life with one hand if you are holding the other. I can live with my flaws if you just love me the way I am. I can give you my body, heart and soul if I am loved to the core. Oh! my beloved Soul mate we can conquer the world if we are together forever."

Beautiful Moment..I loved the way u gave this Moments a Black-white Touch so Looks gives like its Golden Moment..A moment which going to stay...Loved it.. the way it end ws Ut Most get a teary smile on face...It had assurance a promise to stay together in every thick & thin time...

It ws Heart-Touching moment... sigh

I loved the Part when Raman ws Like whom to talk...the 1st person came in mind ws Ishita...he knew she might understand...He ws waiting when Ishita gets some times from family he talks to her...but when he tries to talk taking his friend as reference...(tht time reminds of Bala-Raman advice he asked bala how to approach Ishu..that time bala didnt said to him but understood he talked of himself & Ishu) like hesitant of how will she react...sharing this..him not still not knowing how to open up fully...he had surpressed from sharing anything with anyone...

Loved Ishu's pat reply to Chod Do Raman...

Raman- main apni nahi baat kar raha...

Ishu- Raman Chod Do...

loved the spontaneity of the moment...that's what made it so special..She had a conviction in her body language that put Raman at ease and made him open himself up.

What a Beauty of this ws Without even making him say its about him...yet Un-said words of Raman understood by Ishu...

Ishu-where ur heart doesnt allow to work...there is no Point in working...Her making him realize his potential...that work with dignity...with self-respect..work where his heart lies with...where his work is respected...

Loved u mentioning that dialogue of Raman " Waqt jaise bhi ho woh badalta zaroor hai"

There ws time when only thing mattered to Raman ws earning Money...shagun leaving made him money churning machine...he had work..with No human feeling left in him...only thing mattered to him ws become big & have fat bank balance...but with times changing...him valuing relationships more...but at same time him want to work with dignity..with his potential is respected...

Ishu extending him she is standing beside him...managing the home...but she wanting him to work with Respect...what A Beauty of Relationship.. him extending hand towards her assuring him with holding hand..s...what more needed a person only matters Life partner standing by side in every way in which ever time of Life it is...

I had this song going in my mind for this Moment...❤️

Ek pyaar kaa naghamaa hai, maujon ki ravaani hai
Zindagi aur kuchh bhi nahin, teri meri kahaani hai...
Kuchh paakar khonaa hai, kuchh khokar paanaa hai
Jeevan ka matalab to, aanaa aur jaanaa hai
Do pal ke jeevan se, ek umr churaani hai
Zindagi aur kuchh bhi nahin, teri meri kahaani hai...

Tanvi I Love that song and is so apt for our couple's state

I liking this change Cv's r coming in Adi's char & his side..i liked him understanding & differentiating the things...I liked how Adi couldnt let himself enter into Bhalla house & Ask his father about the fees...the person he always rejected..his father cant do anything for him..disrespected him...he couldnt go there ask him for money...Loved what you said here...I would also add that this is again his RKB genes holding him back as he told Shagun that Raman has already given money for his school fees and he couldn't bring himself to ask again as he knew Raman would never say no to him. His own conscience, his sense of right and wrong , held him back

I liked Adi-Romi scene it ws sweet to watch...That was a pleasant surprise scene for me...I was expecting another Ishita Adi scene and got instead this beautiful Chahu-Adi moment...also a little glimpse of how dear Adi was to all the Bhallas before Shagun snatched him away from them for 6 years.


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Originally posted by: luvabhiya9

beautiful pic dear..
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lovely collage gan..agree wid each nd evry point of urs..beautiful scene of ishra..wen raman xpaining..i thought asusual ishu will not understand..but dat one answer dat ishu gave him..chodd dho raman..highlight of d epi..so much of understanding dey hav..
some people always complaint dat raman always understands ishita..nd ishu never try to understand him..i hope dey wil get their answers..
ishitas lecture to rinky was a long one..but i loved it bcoz it was near to reality..in every house it goes on.
mihir raman family scene was good..don't knw wen mihir wil come to knw abt it..wat wil he do..raman-mihir share such a great bond..i hope cvs wil not ruin it..
things r becoming more clear to adi..he is cmng close to his family...
i love dese simple nd realistic episodes rather dan trp gaining sautan dramas..
precap was intrestng..



I so agree with the @bold

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