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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

There are some subtle scenes that shows how unique IshRa is. I loved that Ishita didn't go for his hand and hold it rather, she waited for him to want to hold and when he did, she forwarded her hand for him to hold! It might seem a very simple scene but to me, it was Ishita assuring him, that, 'It's nothing! You don't need my supporting hand. Nothing's changed, you're still in charge'. And that for me, makes all the differences in the world. It's nice to have someone hold your hand reassuringly when things are bad, but I think it's nicer when someone makes you feel that things aren't bad at all!

Beautiful collages and update as usual!



that's a beautiful interpretation of the scene...Can I add this to the main post? I really loved this!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: umeirah02

Since these past few days, I've been coming on the forum only to read your INSIGHTS!!

Your collages are so deep; each capture narrates a story..!!

Thank you 😳 😳

P.S.Is it YHM which has so much of depth or is it you who has this phenomenal ability (don't even know if I make sense!!) 😆


Truthfully I think YHM has subtle depth on its own, but when you have people like Gan, Doc, Anu, & so on to help peel away at the episode...it makes everything way more meaningful (and tolerable even during the most OTT of drama)! In my opinion, the posts in this thread take an already beautiful show to a new level! ❤️

I stopped rewatching a majority of the episodes during the Mani track, but since I've started to interact with people on this thread - I can't help but rewatch episodes!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gan well said..loved the update n collages are excellent.. Turn of events was worth watching..this is how YHM remains unique..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan



that's a beautiful interpretation of the scene...Can I add this to the main post? I really loved this!



Sure!
Edited by Wings-of-Fire - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautiful collage Gan. Today's episode was awesome in terms of relationship, starting from Raman to Mihir, Ishita to Rinki, Raman to Ishita and Adi to Romi. Loved Raman and Mihir scene. It was small but impact! Poor Raman lost the project and is quiet because of Mihir. Loved Ishita and Rinki's talk about marriage. How Ishita made her understood marriage is a beautiful phrase and her freedom will not go by it. Thats actually true, I have seen many girls completing their studies after their marriage. Loved Raman Ishita scene too. Aww, thank you cvs for giving us such a beautiful IshRa scene, actually this week IshRa scenes have been really good and realistic! Today scene was also a typical husband wife scene. Husband sharing his problem with his wife and Ishu understanding it. Loved the way, she said he should leave the job as it's about his self respect. Awww, today Ishita was so realistic just like 11 pm slot wali! Adi and Romi scene was also good. Both are left alone in their family! I'm happy cvs are focusing on Adi relationship with other Bhalla family members too. Yesterday, it was Ishu and today Romi. I wish to get Raman and Adi scenes too. I just hope we get this kind of episodes. Sensible and Realistic but the thing which is making me scared is TRPs have fallen and hope we don't get kitchen politics again!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awesome quote and collages

the picture which ishitha extended her support to raman is heart touching
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishy13


Yes, we had to see Shagun for a few minutes, but I can tolerate today's Shagun. She's not just being vile and vampy, but we are seeing the "deeper" layers of her character. Her value on social standing and desire for flashy material possessions was highlighted. I still hold that she loves Adi in her own weird way, but she's trapped in her own desires to chase material wealth. Exactly Shagun has always been shown as someone who values a person's worth based on their bank balance and position in the society. All she ever wanted when she was with Ashok was to be Mrs. Khanna...and the minute she lost it..it became about trying to get back with being Mrs. Bhalla by hook or by crook. And material things have been her go to thing to establish her commitment in any situation be it giving lavish party to Ruhi during custody trial, showering Adi with everything materialistic or trying to buy Ishita with diamond set when she thought Raman was bribing Ishita by buying her wedding trousseau. This Shagun is the Shagun we've always seen...she's cringe-worthy... but tolerable on screen and I for one dont mind her now-adays as she provides a nice balance to the story..rather than the story turning into all about her melodrama.

The two scenes that spoke volumes to me today were: (1) Romi-Adi bonding & (2) Raman seeking out Ishita to share his burdens.

Romi-Adi bonding: I had mentioned this yesterday briefly, but I love that they paralleled the story of these two wayward Bhallas boys. They truly are two sides of the same coin. Both went down a path of misdeeds because they received more indulgence than discipline. However, Romi, as evidence by his talks today, had more exposure to the goodness that is inherent in the Bhalla family, and as an adult, he has more perspective now his actions. Adi, on the other hand, has only been exposed to lies about the Bhallas and now carries the burden of protecting his mother. As a child, Adi does not have a clear world view to help him sort things out. So who better than Romi to share Adi's burden and who better than Adi to help Romi find some perspective? Wonderful perspective...yes that would redeem Romi in more ways than one.

Raman seeking out Ishita: Gone are the days of the licence track where both Raman and Ishita did things for each other, but did not tell each other about them until the end. When stress hits Raman's life - who does he reach out to? His rock - his biwi. We often hear Raman comment on how different Shagun & Ishita are, but it makes sense for him to do so, these women are as different as chalk & cheese. Had this problem risen with Shagun in his life, the advice he would have gotten would have been dramatically different. For a man to become unemployed, a large part of his identity is ripped from him. Traditionally, men are the breadwinners, and for Raman this role has even more depth. His first wife left him because he couldn't be a "sufficient" breadwinner, but Ishita restored Raman's dignity and worth as head of the family in her one action of encouraging Raman to leave his job for his self-respect and to seek his happiness! perfectly put.👏


Two kostins for the day - if Raman quits/gets fired...where will they live? Also, will the MD still keep Appa employed? good kostins but to expect realistic answers the CVs have to turn uncharacteristically logical. But like RKB always says Umeed pe duniya kayam. we can always hope they will give us answer to such logical questions.



Thanks Krishy! Wonderful post! My comments in blue
Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire



Thanks! Let me know if you feel the same way after re-watching!


I did watch the epi again... n your take really made the scene more beautiful...thanks a lot for tht interpretation...👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

I liking this change Cv's r coming in Adi's char & his side..i liked him understanding & differentiating the things...I liked how Adi couldnt let himself enter into Bhalla house & Ask his father about the fees...the person he always rejected..his father cant do anything for him..disrespected him...he couldnt go there ask him for money...


I just love what you noticed and wrote here!

Isn't it so ironic that the boy who spent 6 years of his life shunning his father for being unable to provide material goods like new video games is unable to approach his father for money for something important like school? Adding to the irony, now Raman may be back in a similar position of financial instability like when Adi and Shagun first left him.

Outside of Ishita - who knows about Raman's troubles? As of the precap, only Adi, the very child who prided material goods but finds himself in a situation of instability.

Now Raman's worries could potentially magnify because he may again find himself unable to provide enough for his kids. He knows not to be worried about Ruhi during this time, but the son, whose attention and love, he's sought for years is a different story still.

Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago

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