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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: krishy13


I just love what you noticed and wrote here!

Isn't it so ironic that the boy who spent 6 years of his life shunning his father for being unable to provide material goods like new video games is unable to approach his father for money for something important like school? Adding to the irony, now Raman may be back in a similar position of financial instability like when Adi and Shagun first left him.

Outside of Ishita - who knows about Raman's troubles? As of the precap, only Adi, the very child who prided material goods but finds himself in a situation of instability.

Now Raman's worries could potentially magnify because he may again find himself unable to provide enough for his kids. He knows not to be worried about Ruhi during this time, but the son, whose attention and love, he's sought for years is a different story still.


Thanks Krishy...im ws interested to see this kind of way for Adi...he is 13 yr old child this much understanding a child does keep...the approach now cv's r taking towards Adi makes it more dimension...gives a flow what until now is shown...

Yes its Quite Ironic i feel ..like Raman is Going bk from where he started when Shagun Left him...the Difference i see is Now Ishita standing beside him...I somewhere think cv's deliberately bought this...I glad they bought to showcase something that Money is something but Not everything...some smallest of happiness lies there which people r forgetting in rush of earning money...
i think this can maybe show...Adi also when he left his father due non-provision on materialistic pleasures...maybe this make Adi also realise more than things what mattered ws his father being there...

i so hope cv's keep it realistic Like theyr keep rather showing them..they even have no saving & turn into ott drama...
i hope they showcase him raman standing up even more higher state rather broken-down...

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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
Nice post Gan as always ...

Song for the pic you posted

Pal Pal Dil Ke Paas Tum Rehti ho
Jeevan Meethi Pyas Ye Kehti Ho ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43
Gan - You out did yourself ... the first pic was fantastic...

& Its so lovely to read everyone's insights...

We as a audience ,while watching anything identify with a person most of the time and watch the show thru that lens...In the daily serials its mostly the heroine...

I guess, that is the reason Ishita is shown resolving many issues...It makes it easy for the audience to connect with the show...

But YHM have mostly shown different perspectives giving equal importance to many relations of the family...but sometimes Ishita gets to do that more...no issues with that...

Yes even Simmi could have talked with Rinki...but what Simmi explains may be different than what Ishita has to say...& Rinki admires Ishita so the chances of her getting convinced by Ishita are more...

Raman couldn't share the problem with any one else except Ishita...may be with Mihir but his boss robbed him of that chance...
& He not only wanted a shoulder to lean on but he also wanted some one to guide him...who better than his most sensible wife...

& In the final scene I personally would have felt more happy if Raman had seen Adi being lonely...may be we would get that in the future...& Iam so glad that atleast they showed Romi & Adi bonding...

@WingsOfFire - You explained the scene so beautifully, Thank you...

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Posted: 10 years ago
#44
Superb post n collages Gan😳
Lovely episode. I loved the varied relations shown. I could totally relate to Ishu n Rinky scene,she explained her very nicely n it was a very natural conversation.the scene where Adi is sent away by his stupid mom to go to his father for money 😡 Bloody balloon head. But that small moment when Adi leaves Iyyer house n is in a dilemma to go to Bhallas was a very nice one. poor boy I feel horrible for him. Adi n Romi scene too was a very nice one. Romi somehow connected to him on a diff level, n he obviously already loves his nephew.
Ishra scene was outstanding 😳 "Chod do Raman, resign Karlo" the way DT said this was awsome. Tht scene showed d confidence a wife had in her husband n his capabilities 😳. The kind of support he would need was right thr for him,tht assurance,confidence,love all of it.
I want Raman to bounce back soon n stronger n be there for Romi once the truth is out. I don't want this to go the typical ek way with Ishita doing all the things n Raman soon suffering again. Hope the cvs handle this nicely cz it's an interesting track.
Shaggy😡 plzzz can she just get lost already,I mean it's enough yaa😡 Though we know from olvs she's gonna irritate further😕
#PuttarLookedHotInBlack😳 #iWantIshraToTakeSrep2now hoping for sum ishra romance😳 I wish the cvs see ur post today Gan,they will love it😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45
Lovely analysis but this was too funny

Originally posted by: RomComFan

Shagun girl listen to what you friends are telling you.

#Time to find a sugar daddy #Set your targets at Suraj#If not him how about Raman's MD #he meets all your requirements too #Think about it#Secure your future #Your present isn't going to get any better #Ishu won't bankroll your sarees #Unless you want to take some of hers #No barely covering the essentials blouses in her collection though

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Originally posted by: RomComFan

Petty thought of the day:

How come Shagun has female friends and Ishita doesn't?

#Not fair #Ishu needs a friend #Ishu needs a female BFF#Not on that'll be after RKB #Ishu needs her 'person' #Find a friend for Ishu CVs #Don't need to look far #I nominate Simmi #They balance each other out #Plus it helps my Simmi-Abhi cause 😳


I agree.. even the Canada wala rishta's someone is a friend of Shagun! I'd love to see Ishita and Simmi become BFF.. (I also loved the Vandu - Simmi talk when Simmi breaks down).

But maybe Ishita is happy with just hubby as BFF - thinking of her telling Mihika about Raman's 'feminine' qualities:)
Edited by sky-if - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi Gan, beautiful collages and even more imp, how do you get those apt quotes day after day? You are awesome.
With so much going on and RKB jobless, viewers need to forget Ishra C&C for months now!

Shagun though seems totally obsessed with herself and her fake sense of happiness. I dont think she has ever been happy evn when she got all the money from Ashok! And I cant still fathom on what basis she intends to throw Ishita out and get back into Bhalla house and Raman's life?

As per the OLVs , Shagun is again threating Ishita that she will throw her out of Bhalla house! Maybe she is not aware that Raman has lost his job!

Adi has seen Shagun splurging money on herself and him and she had bought his happiness by giving him everything that money could buy. But today she has again denied him his fees for her so called fake pride and happiness. Adi is beginning to realize that family and love matters much more than money though money is reqd for essentials like fees. While they were with Ashok, the servants took care of his basic needs. Here the Iyers and Bhallas are looking out for him, while his mom is busy partying.

Adi will realize the importance of money now, he will understand that they have spent so much on things they hardly needed and now he needs to literally go begging to the man he used to hate for so long for his fees! Raman's losing his job will instill a better sense of responsibility in Adi and in Romi too once he gets to know!

And what has shagun done with 5 lacs? She did not return it to Romi? Was it the fees for faking for the fake doctor? till last month she was spending tons everyday on RKB's credit card!


I have not understood how she keeps spending endlessly on herself but cribs about Adi's fees!
And Raman shifting from owning Bhalla group to being a CEO in I dont even know the name of his company...

But one thing I love is Ishra's bond...everyday their romance and understanding keeps growing. They just need to be in the same frame and look at each other- ufff...

Thanks Gan for your thread... is Aru coming up with any gifs today?








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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sky-if

Lovely analysis but this was too funny

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I agree.. even the Canada wala rishta's someone is a friend of Shagun! I'd love to see Ishita and Simmi become BFF.. (I also loved the Vandu - Simmi talk when Simmi breaks down).


But maybe Ishita is happy with just hubby as BFF - thinking of her telling Mihika about Raman's 'feminine' qualities:)





Seriously right? I can't believe that woman was more concerned about paying for her sarees then her supposed 'light of my life' son's school fees...UGH! 🤢There's no way Ishu is going to keep Shagun's thirst for shopping satisfied and no way Raman will fight back on this I think ... he can't justify that on top of everything else he has to deal with. When the financial decisions are being made as a couple now, Ishita should get a say in where her money is spent.

I am so team SHARAJ(imagine ASMI-SHARAJ encounters... ) but I can definitely see the potential in the MD... thought of that @ the GB scene when Shagun almost had a heart attack @ RKB's resignation... Only thing is that RKB mentioned yesterday that his (RKB's ) FIL didn't gift him the company, he had to earn his position.. implying that the company was MD's gift..

#MD is probably married #Is that really a deterrent for Shagun #Somehow i don't think so #He just has to bankroll her #Hope she gets everything in writing this time 😆

Either way, whether she gets with Suraj or Mr.Malhotra this will spoon to a nice track for her, turn her back to a vamp we can actually watch and get her out of the ISHRA inner circle...😛

#It's a win for everyone #Especially the viewers #Maybe not the guy though😉

It's so weird to me that Ishita doesn't have any female friends outside of her family. And Shagun does, Raman does, Romi and even Toshi does... so why not Ishita? So odd. I don't know any women like that.

#Who does Ishu b**** about her family to #She needs an outlet

I mean as far as we know she only has Mani...🤢 and I know some girls like being friends with guys more, but they still have that one friend... and I understand about being BFFs with your spouse but you still need your girl friends.

Simmi I think is perfect within the family because she needs someone too, a good friend. But , like you, I think Simmi/Vandhu work better because of the age/kids angle... plus will Ishu really be able to be open about any frustrations about the Bhalla family with Simmi?

I would honestly love if Ishita got a friend outside of her family: just a nice , strong female who is just there for her and has absolutely no designs on stealing her husband or ruining her life as this track usually goes... But if not I can do with Simmi. She just needs a friend. A 'person', as per Greys Anatomy. She deserves one.

PS.: RKB's feminine tendencies...


Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


... is Aru coming up with any gifs today?




I hope she does...it was such a beautiful scene//she'll make us sigh .
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: RomComFan


Seriously right? I can't believe that woman was more concerned about paying for her sarees then her supposed 'light of my life' son's school fees...UGH! 🤢There's no way Ishu is going to keep Shagun's thirst for shopping satisfied and no way Raman will fight back on this I think ... he can't justify that on top of everything else he has to deal with. When the financial decisions are being made as a couple now, Ishita should get a say in where her money is spent.


I am so team SHARAJ(imagine ASMI-SHARAJ encounters... ) but I can definitely see the potential in the MD... thought of that @ the GB scene when Shagun almost had a heart attack @ RKB's resignation... Only thing is that RKB mentioned yesterday that his (RKB's ) FIL didn't gift him the company, he had to earn his position.. implying that the company was MD's gift..

#MD is probably married #Is that really a deterrent for Shagun #Somehow i don't think so #He just has to bankroll her #Hope she gets everything in writing this time 😆

Either way, whether she gets with Suraj or Mr.Malhotra this will spoon to a nice track for her, turn her back to a vamp we can actually watch and get her out of the ISHRA inner circle...😛

#It's a win for everyone #Especially the viewers #Maybe not the guy though😉

It's so weird to me that Ishita doesn't have any female friends outside of her family. And Shagun does, Raman does, Romi and even Toshi does... so why not Ishita? So odd. I don't know any women like that.

#Who does Ishu b**** about her family to #She needs an outlet

I mean as far as we know she only has Mani...🤢 and I know some girls like being friends with guys more, but they still have that one friend... and I understand about being BFFs with your spouse but you still need your girl friends.

Simmi I think is perfect within the family because she needs someone too, a good friend. But , like you, I think Simmi/Vandhu work better because of the age/kids angle... plus will Ishu really be able to be open about any frustrations about the Bhalla family with Simmi?

I would honestly love if Ishita got a friend outside of her family: just a nice , strong female who is just there for her and has absolutely no designs on stealing her husband or ruining her life as this track usually goes... But if not I can do with Simmi. She just needs a friend. A 'person', as per Greys Anatomy. She deserves one.

PS.: RKB's feminine tendencies...




Anu the part in red is like a saying in India where it implies that you have to work hard to earn whatever you are ..life doesn't give things easy ( In India FIL s give SIL's lavish wedding gifts 😉)

About Ishita not having any GF it was probably because she's so close to Vandita and Mihika probably she never needed one outside of family...rest was compensated by Mani and later Bala...yes I would also love Ishita to have a friend to hang out occasionally.( well she's a soap bahu ..so they hardly have time to explore self-serving stuff rather goes over board trying to be the perfect woman😉)

I'm all for Shagun- Suraj...they will be lost in trying to decipher what the other side is implying😆 and he has money...and that would be the best revenge against Ashok. #Project GoodRiddance

lol ...for me I love Ravan Kumar's occasional sensitive(feminine) side...not the majboor baap phase though.🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan



Vee 🤗he'll come out of this mess stronger and more importantly...he's not going to be doing this alone. I just hope the CVS dont turn him into a bechara and Ishita as the all sacrificing bharatiya naari..I would love for a realistic approach of a couple dealing with one partner's job loss and facing the trouble waters together as a unit.



I know he'll come out of it, but you know I ❤️ RKB so much, that dil dukhta hai to see him in trouble like this. I dont know how I got so invested in a fictional character, but there it is. 😆 Ya, I hope they dont make him into a bechaara, like he used to be when Shagun was in his life - but I dont think they will. Love all the analysis everyone's done on the scene today - that was such a beautiful visual of love and support and togetherness. I am not married, but I guess that's what marriage is all about, ya (when its done right that is. I have done a lot of Family Court work and I do know what marriage looks like when its not done right!!!)

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