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Posted: 10 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Word word word👏

reposting part of my rant in another post today
Did not like ruhi dialogues at all today...poor kid has become a voice piece for her bechaari ishima. ..so would a family stand mute if their 6 yr old sermonised them on right and wrong?...they should be seriously concerned...both about their dumbness and the over maturity if their kid...she is growing way too fast...and worst still..seems to judge everyone including her father...everyone except her ishimaa...isn't this as toxic as the blind love adi has for shagun. ..as on date i see no diff whatsoever😕

Honestly the ishRu bond was special because it completed both ruhi and ishita in diff ways...ruhi to regain her childhood and win her father's affection...And ishita to gain motherhood...
i so so loved ishita iyer when she used to lecture raman and the bhallas on how they needed to provide the right atmosphere for ruhis upbringing...and retain her innocence. ..because that's a fact ...and children from broken homes do tend to mature faster and most often are disillusioned about adult relationships...
ishita was supposed to be that shield and barrier protecting ruhi from her father's messed up past and the bhallas complicated lives...but now it's that same ishimaa..for whom ruhi seems to be a confidante and shoulder to cry on😕..a 6 yr old consoling a 28 yr old woman. .really?
yes mom's and daughters can be friends...but there is an age for that transition to happen...6yrs is certainly not the age...

Yes..one could argue that 6 yr Olds are exposed to a lot nowadays. .through telly n stuff happening around. ..but then since this story was also about a little motherless girl who craved a sanctuary And her father's affection...if i don't see either..and instead see her becoming her new mothers advocate...it's just unfathomable🥱


Excellent rant PB. someone made a comment in another post (I think it was Jaya)... looking at some Ruhi-Ishita scenes, it looks like 2 adult friends talking and not a mother & 6-year old. The CVs went overboard with Ruhi's character, I have no other way to put this
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Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

Bang on Post lucky !!! Thanks ZD
First of all,
I hated dialogue of "my Ishima will come would be only right muhurat" oh really, even I don't speak such statements being adult . Is Ishima is god? I missed this dialogue and went and watched it again. I cannot really think of any way to justify this line from a 6-year old.

Wait , I don't agree with if some one says "she has seen worst situation of parents being child of divorced couple " and "all are calling her daadi maa for reasons" that do not justify her behavior today

what affections she is getting ? what will do when she will get adult ? she is more risky than adi being just 6 year old child even if she fights for right. this is an interesting point. I should have touched upon it. Just because Ruhi is right (everything she said was bang-on right, except for the fact that a 6 year old said it) doesnt mean we should tolerate a child growing up too rapidly.

in past episode her Ishita was lecturing adi that bado k bich nahi bolte, what she was doing today ? really ? is this effect of Ishima s lectures? better she stays away from Ishita !! the simple answer I have for this is, the CVs dug a hole too deep with the last couple of track. They had made every character so extreme that it took an innocent person like Ruhi to knock some sense. and that was the only way to salvage the track. and I am pretty sure the TRPs will go up because of Ruhi. All I can say is, just because Ruhanika is such an excellent actor, doesnt mean they have to make Ruhi act like an adult

so called sane people Vandu, Mihir were silent just to glorify ruhi and ishita bonding ? Yes, but Vandu lecturing anyone would be too real & simplistic. wouldn't fetch TRPs 😡

Ruhi was so scared when shagun was going to slap her. how come she got so much aggression today ?

Ishita was teaching her to respect shagun mama. Ru beta, did you forget to respect your shagun mama ? too much insult ruhi did today being kid.
I am amused since when she started to hate shagun ? 😲 after getting slap she was still with shagun for one night . why she is hating her so much overnight ? I din see even her interaction with shagun since shagun has stepped in bhalla house. 😕

Yes, Why she separated all 3? despite giving symbolism i really din like it esp the girl who is living in crowded family. how can she break blood relations ? aisa to uske dada ne bhi nahi kiya when raman was blind for shagun and left to talk with him but never abandoned him.

again some one please inform judge, what kinda behavior now ruhi is doing !!

last but not the least as usual my evergreen rant:

where was she when her ishma was playing anniversary game ? like I said, i think they wanted to use Ruhi for this kind of outburst, that is why they didnt include her in those scenes. which just makes Ruhi's view clouded by one-sided judgement of the Bhallas, without any knowledge that her Ishima also participated in something similar.

today she was hurt when papa was giving ishima s haq to shagun,

how I wish she would have seen same ishima calling mani as hero and savior and was joking to leave her and her papa. Kids do get affected by even joke. so I will not buy that she was joking so this is just random for ruhi.

harsh tone lage to chala lena pl 😳 You know very well it s not for you at all no ZD, your tone wasnt too harsh. just dil ki baat zubaan pe... I dont mind at all 😳 and thanks for commenting 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: victo

Nice post


if they leave kid as a kid where comes thedrama and trp i real feel for the kids and sorry for loosing their innocence actually than before of the normal kids

What respect she may have after this incidence also taken into account. If she does any mistake in future she may point out this and say you also does it and I rectify the mistake done by you


And big applause to your post 👏


Thank you very much 😳 and I am also glad you commented about the respect part. No matter how perfect Ruhi turns out to be, she will, in her mind always remember that her whole family was wrong and she was right. that is not a healthy adult-child dynamic to grow up in .
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Posted: 10 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: geno0309

Very valid and pertinent points raised by you.

And I think you answered them in your last sentence. All the CVs care abt is drama. They butchered the story so bad in the last month or so and dig just a deep hole-only way to try and get out was through Ruhi.

The sad part is I doubt any of today's events will bring abt a change in the storyline-I mean the adults will continue to be mute spectators-unless they tone down the plotting and scheming by the mother-son duo. CVs have a uphill task on their hands-if they take things seriously that is.


Thank you very much 😊

@bold - yes I agree with this comment too. it would have been very difficult to come out of this deep hole except without the help from an innocent soul. because almost every other character was wrong one way or the other.


Edited by always_a_TV_fan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: dsupriya

Thanks for making this post. I was also wanting to make this for long. I also want to go one step further. True circumstances tend to over mature a child beyond age. But questions even then asked are more innocuous. Also would have applauded if her ishima would have stepped in and not allowed ruhi to fight for her and protected her innocence. I am a mother myself and a single mother by choice and know my child has to face society which may not be kind always. But still as a mother will always want to protect her innocence and childhood like how our parents have done. And not over mature her beyond age.thanks once again for voicing a valid concern and must say your posts really draw me to reply to them.


Thank you very much for your encouraging words!😳

I have been ranting about Ruhi growing up too fast since that curfew incident where she gave a lecture to all the neighbour ladies about how her Ishima wasn't a baanjh...I think that kind of information & judgemental nature in a child is not healthy at all. There have been a few more incidents here and there where I felt she was being used in a scene incorrectly, but this scene just took the cake, and I couldn't stop myself from making this post.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Spana_stylo

Thanks for this post dear...👏

Today's episode was some thing😭😲

I think CV's might have had given the Dialogue paper to Ruhanika Dhawan which should be given to Divyanka...😕




Thank you... and your line in @bold - honestly, that would really explain it all 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: The_Imane

Great post lucky, even i found it very weird, Ruhi sounds like an at least 15 years old.
And she seoarated raman adi
And thaali ghirana so not a thing to do for her
Such hatreness towards shagun adi from her is very strange
I agree she love ish
But adi love shagun
Ok whats the problem in it
I didnt liked which she did today cant connect to it


Thanks Imane... she said everything that was supposed to be said. But anyone else could have said it (Vandu, Mihir or even Simmi... these people were neutral in this track no? or even Romi)... but that wouldnt have had the dramatic effect I guess
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Posted: 10 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: MonalSingh

Bang on post, a much needed one. You have perfectly said it all, nothing much is left to say.

I will only say about the future track that will involve Ruhi heavily and that's perhaps the most awaited track of YHM, Ishita's infertility and pregnancy track. I hope CVs will spare Ruhi to behave like a mature adult at that time. And if they plan to portray insecurities of Ruhi, they should depict them keeping in mind the mental state of a 6-7 year old kid.



Thank you Monal. And excellent point about the future pregnancy/infertility track 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
#39
this is the most boring repetitive cliched and pointless post I have read. u have no right to watch yhm if u dont appreciate ruhi and adi. and stop whining about keeping them little cos this is a bloody tv show and u know very well not to take it seriously. but here u r. trying to paste your speech and bask in all the brainless likes and replies.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: tushara11

Lucky my gal,

Good post👏 👏 👏 👏

Children learn things from their parents.. children shd not be involved in the matters of adult..we shd keep them away from all these things...

Nowadays, children grasp everything quickly..In olden days, we use to live in joint family and lot of people will be their around us to give good guidance...what we shd do and what v shd talk etccc.

Nowadays, parent r busy in their own life and children r left alone... most of the parents fight in front of their children, they argues they do hugging kissing ...they drink which really affect the child...

Ruhi, she has witnessed lot of things between her parents,,, because of this she is behaving like this and she is talking like a adult...

I hope cvs will correct this...

Thanks Tu... Yes, when I was growing up (although I didnt grow up in a joint family), my neighbours/teachers used to be careful around us... they never discussed 'serious' issues in front of us. we weren't allowed to participate even in gossip like a couple in love eloped and got married and all 😆 I cannot imagine a scenario like in when I grew up. Agreed times have changed, but all this drama is still a bit too much for a 6 year old.

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