A well-written and well-intentioned post,
BUT,
I agree and disagree with you, my reasons outlined below:
- Ruhi did behave out of innocence and love... any adult would have thought a million times before they created a scene like that.. but Ruhi didn't - all she thought was that something wrong was happening with her Ishima, and this is not the first time Ruhi noticed this - she has been observing since day one , since Adi- Shagun entered the house that something is amiss, she cannot understand all the details since she is a kid, but she has her instinct , and she acted on that -
In your post you say that Ruhi said some things without knowing the facts - BUT THAT's WHAT KIDS DO...😆😆😆
Kids don't ponder over why, when, what, where , how too much, they act on their instinct, Ruhi as a kid, AS A KID< was pushed to a corner, her feelings disregarded by the Bhallas - unintentionally, and she wanted her previous life back, her rights as a kid back...
Also, Ruhi is more understanding than other kids, she had to live a motherless, fatherless existence all her life until Ishita entered her life, according to me, Ruhi could have lost her innocence a long time ago, and started acting more mature , because she could have developed the insecure lonely child instinct - I have to take care of myself as there is no one else... Ruhi did not have a normal childhood like other kids
Thankfully, Ishita rescued her innocence, the child in her by coming to her aid, by understanding her, by becoming her Ishima...AND IS RUHI IS NOT INNOCENT, NO ONE IS...
You also said in your post that Ruhi is not aware of what Shagun is like and who left whom for what reason, but that is untrue...
Ruhi has grown up with JUST THAT ONE FACT IN HER LIFE - that her real mom Shagun left her real dad Raman for some or the other reason. Ruhi can never forget the fact that in doing so, Shagun also did not bother about her...
Even then, don't forget that Ruhi is not judgmental about Shagun and Adi, as IShima has forbidden her to do that, so she cannot understand why they are behaving like this - trying to hurt her Ishima??
My next point:
Ruhi is innocent but she is not stone, she has feelings and instincts, she stayed with Shagun during the custody track, many a times and she always was looking for Ishita, that was her instinct telling her what to do, she can FEEL what Shagun is like, and what Ishita is like - ELSE IT IS NOT EASY TO SEPARATE A KID FROM THEIR REAL MOM FOR A STRANGER _ IS IT ??????
But Ruhi voluntarily opted for Ishita not Shagun...
You stated in your post that Ruhi will not respect her elders when she grows up - this will not happen as long she gets an upbringing with her Ishima, it is these teachings that have helped Ruhi to come this far - TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN RIGHT AND WRONG, and also when she questions Bhalla family and Raman, it is because she cannot believe that they have just agreed to a wrong - and she cannot believe this because she respects them, SO SHE HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO QUESTION THEM - as they are the elders who she respects and looks upto to do the right...
Again, the CVs have shown the Bhallas as immature, spineless people - what can one do ?😆😆
Also, I don't like the fact that Ruhi had to come to Ishima's rescue but as a kid she will feel better now, imagine how she would have felt if she didn't do anything and watched Raman doing the ritual with Shagun????
The bit of your post that I do agree with is - THAT KIDS SHOULD REMAIN INNOCENT when they are little...
IN THAT CONTEXT - LET"S TALK ABOUT ADI...😉😉😉😉😉😉
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