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Posted: 10 years ago
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I don't think so...Ruhi was right...Shagun was wrong...Shagun doesn't deserve any respect from ruhi as shagun left her when she was 6 months old...never looked back at her nor gave her mother's love.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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THANK YOU!
my biggest problem with this track- and to an extent, this show- is the emotional intelligence of the children. one of the reason i've stopped watching the show as well. adi is neither old enough to be this evil step-child nor he is so young to not understand what divorce is. i'm fed up with this horrible monster they've made adi. honestly, he's 12! on that note- i'd also say that our forum members are not so great either giving him names like susu bachcha 🤢 imagine reaction of the kid playing adi if he were to read these :(
as much as i wanted all the questions ruhi asked out in the open, i wanted another mouth speaking it. coming from ruhi, it was dramatic, yes, but highly unrealistic. why couldn't ruhi question it simply like you said? or if they wanted drama, why couldn't rinki or simmi say it? or even bala or mihir?
bhalla family has 4 kids- yet they still don't know how to raise kids. adi, and ruhi, are given complete free rein over the adults.
unrealistic and uncomfortable behaviors
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Good Post Lucky 🤓

You already said a lot of valid points and agree with you completely..I won't compare it with two kands -Raman-shagun anniversary v/s Lohri Pooja . But in both situations common thing was - kid (ADI) plays a very important role. Both of time lead agreed to do something under the influence of a kid. Unfortunately Ruhi was not present in New years celebration Otherwise i am sure even Ishita kand would be stopped by her.

CV is hell blent on showing ADI as criminal and Ruhi as saviour. I don't care about the love story of Ishra anymore. But what is painful to watch is Kids are treated/ was given adult type roles/dialogue.

In the name of drama CV can show any nonsense thing.


Reality- Look at IQ level of 6years old kid with my real life expreience

YHM kids

My 6yrs old nephew don't understand the meaning of specs with number. He was fighting with my niece that she didn't tell him that her eyes has a number. Actually poke his fingers in her eyes to see to where is the number written on eyes..We all were enjoying this so called innocent talks so much that we forget to stop them..

Here 6 year old is well aware of husband-wife relations. Very well aware of what is the right of wife and what is duties and responsibilities of husss-band.

My 4 and half year old kid don't know meaning of husband and wife. He consider me as momma and my hubby as dadda .. He life revolves around superman, spiderman and all types of super-heros and most importantly the cars.In fact he address my mom as Aai because of me .. He don't understand the meaning of Nani as well.Serial dekh kar mujhe pata chala mera baccha bahut hi dumb hai😭

Here in this serial - cv is using kid as adult. Which is very painful to watch...


I don't feel good when I watch kids roles in YHM because I get the feeling that somewhere someone is killing the innocence in kid?


ADI = already said a lot to him and his parents.. God bless him.



P.S. Just my POV .. Respect different POV as well😃


Edited by mayu1982 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you for this post. I was hoping someone would bring this up, coz thats exactly how I feel about making Ruhi behave n mouth words beyond her age n understanding.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tanu shree reporter in yhm even quoted about this..
how kids understand and talks about this...
so cv very well know they are using it for trp ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree. But nowadays children are exceptionally talented in many arts. Like this, Ruhi can be a mature and balanced kid with good judgement. We see in reality shows how some kids talk. So may be Ruhi is a special child.
I also feel that good judgmental person may not be an adult only. Some kids do have that capability to see what is wrong and what is right. Ruhi is exposed to many turmoils in this one year. She saw adi's bad behavior with her in the school and she also denied to hate her Ishima when Adi tried to instigate her.
In all. Chalo, cvs this time did not disappoint us.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Your post is absolutely bang on!!!!
I understand that kids tend to grow up beyond their age especially when they have gone through situations such as shown on the show but at the same time there is a limit to which that happens. I would have bought the whole Ruhi drama if it had shown more of Ruhi's insecurity of what was happening around her rather than the OTT drama and her mouthing off those adult dialogues.Something simple and innocent would have been a whole lot more effective. The drama that was shown just didn't do anything for me.






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Posted: 10 years ago
#28

If I may express my opinion...slightly different too...

That Ruhi has no regards or respect...or should I say emotions for Shagun is but natural, children often get moulded fitting to the circumstances they grow up in...Ruhi has grown up in an environment where her father snubbed her...the others in the house would have lamented critically of Shagun and cursed her...the loud family that they are...She has grown up hearing Shagun left her and the family...And now that she truly understands a mother, its but natural for her to be indifferent to Shagun despite being her biological mother...And what Ruhi blurted out could be the same fear that she may lose Ishima...what she has been observing the past few days should have scared the kid...and finally erupted when she saw Adi pestering his father to perform puja with Shagun while her Dad wanted to wait for Ishima...

And cat getting the tongue of the elders even Mr. Bhalla baffles me.

Ruhi jerking Adi's hands could be just a spontaneous reaction to break the chain ...and not so much as her having a problem with Adi and Raman holding hands...She doesn't have great regards for Adi as he has failed miserably as a brother...the vibes from Adi have always been negative...To my mind it was Shagun in Ishima's place that irked her...

On the contrary if Raman were to hold Adi's and Ishita's hands for the puja, it would be fine with her...she may have just run in to cling to Ishita and would have completed the family...

Or if Simmi or Rinki or even Vandu in place of Shagun I don't think Ruhi would have reacted so...

With Shagun she is always watchful...now that Adi has told her Papa would chose Shagun mama if it comes to that...her insecurities would have sky rocketed.

For the anniversary too...what could have stopped CVs showing Ruhi stopping the cake cutting ...I guess it was just not in the plot...or we read Ruhanika is shooting only weekends now hence her absence and trips to Pammi aunty's ...If Ruhu had objected, Ishita would have reasoned out with her...stating it was for Adi's happiness and she would have obliged...

Completely agree with you on the drama component...TV is all about that sometimes even the dialogs and the stress on certain words while mouthing dialogs are so so funny...

Just sharing my thoughts...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Good post lucky

Moral of the story is that

Children should remain children


Yes Leo. Thanks for commenting 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Very good post

In show kids don't look like kids to me
I won't talk about tonight episode because ruhi scene was ott. It didn't made me feel aww ruhi baccha so proud of u like during adi bday scene where she fed cake to raman or thay param kaand scene where she was there with her ishima
Lately ruhi dialogue are too ott and mature compare to her age eg hospital scene and tonight episode
In many scene it looks like she insulted her elder for her ishima

Ishru scene were always there but lately other relation are getting ruin like romi ruhi scene toshiji ruhi scene raman ruhi scene

There was a time I used to enjoy ruhi scene with anyone but in new slot ruhi scene are too ott and I am glad that less scene of her. It's good for ruhanika off screen and I will say Gautam parents also should be careful because he is playing negative role

Ruhi was always mature than her age but she had child like innocence which is not there anymore

Both kids lost there innocent in trp race drama


Thank You Jaya...
Your last line says it all !

I think the makers realise that using Ruhi in any scene will surely sell. because she is really so cute and Ruhanika is an excellent actress... us chakkar mein they give her too much to do some times

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