It's a new something for YHM..*Thoughts for 19 Jan pg 27* - Page 6

Originally posted by: Veeann

Haven't seen the episode and don't intend to - reading the updates is bad enough, I can't stomach seeing it in technicolor.

Where are cvs taking this obsession with the Green Lantern??? Why is it okay for this "chotta baccha" (their characterisation, not mine. He has none of the masoomiyat of a child) to dictate to a houseful of adults? Why is it not okay for an adult, his stepmother, to discipline him ( all she did was tell him not to interfere). And why is said stepmother, who is told to STAY AWAY from the baccha, then responsible for the little twerps comings and goings???

Make up your minds, senior Bhallas. Either Ishita is to STAY AWAY from your precious 24 carat gold Lantern, or Ishita is supposed to be looking after him and being aware of his every action. You cannot have it both ways.

What is that saying, about ghar ka Chirag hi ghar ko jalaata hai? It's sure coming true here.

Bhaag Ishita Bhaag.

And take Ruhi with you. Let Raman and his family enjoy the unadulterated daily delights of the criminal Green Lantern. Everything he does to them will be well deserved, and then we all will say "I told you so"

Originally posted by: SurrealFantasy

I read the WU and can I just say that the CVs have completely ruined Raman and Toshi for me?

Raman has gone back to Adi-jaap, like in the accident track and it's a re-rendition of the whole picnic scenario - Adi, Raman and Shagun on one side and Ishita on the other (Ruhi is the only neutral party here.)

Toshiji fell about a 100 steps in my eyes today. She's always been about the GKC and "my kids don't do anything wrong" but today she was a hypocrite of the first order along with her son.

In order to fill the story, they've butchered Raman's character to such an extreme, that right now, I don't even care whether he says sorry to her or not. Silent treatment is not even the punishment to all the accusations he threw at his wife.

Ishita needs to use that back bone she's been growing and move out of that rabid house. I want to see all that can be achieved by the Bhallas' psychotic kid and how happy they are with him.

Other than the earring incident, Ishita has not been wrong in this track so far. Raman had a good track record till yesterday and then he's fallen flat on his face. Can't relate to his anger or anything else for that matter. He can go and eff himself and stuff his ex wife and kid with whatever "laad" he wants and I don't give a flying fart in space anymore.

Screw Raman. He deserves all the bashing he'll get this weekend on the forum. JM or not, Ishita is his wife not his son's bloody nanny. She isn't even his mother for God's sake.

As much as I love Puttar, I can't justify his acts anymore. At least Ishita's JM avatar was in keeping with her character, but he's gone back to his pre-love days and I don't care for him one bit ATM.

IMO, I want Adi to ask Toshi that he wants Raman to divorce Ishita and then wait back and see what the Raman does. Because Toshi will agree with whatever Green Lantern says.

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Same here...quite a disgusting mind numbing episode!

Basically its come to the point that a step mother, however good she is and proves herself as the best mom, she will be treated as a third person at some point.

Adi can say whatever he wants and everybody will only believe and be on his side. I dont think Adi would need much to send Ishita away. He just needs to tell it and all including Raman would just do it for him.

I felt pity on the woman Ishita. Toshi's chiding her was really horrible. she suffers from MPD...before her and Raman's behavior, I choose to forget Shagun and Adi's conspiracies! 😡

The story is being driven to a stage where Ishita has to lose her patience for once and tell them all to just go to hell!

Adi hai Adi woh...damn! no one even wants to know or understand what really happened and if Ishita even did a mistake.

Raman's accusation was quite contrary to the love he assumes to be in with Ishita. A person unconditionally in love will never do such shouting and insulting without a forethought!

Where is that Raman who stands by her and believes that Ishita can never go wrong? Where is the Raman who stands by right always? He is blinded by Adi. He has done it before and he also transformed but now why they push him back to the same point?

He seems lost somewhere in his obsession for Adi. He had once said that he needs Ishita as his strength and also support him to reform Adi.

Today he just reversed everything. The scene where he shouted at Ishita and then folded his hands at her to stay away just undid everything he said and did. He also told that he wont allow anyone to come between him and Adi!

Ishita should just stay away from everything. She should just stick to Ruhi's matters. let the others do whatever they want! Ishita giving silent treatment to Raman is quite justified. She should be silent from now on to everybody except Ruhi!

Sorry for the rant but I was so annoyed at the scenes that i couldnt help it!

Originally posted by: Veeann

Haven't seen the episode and don't intend to - reading the updates is bad enough, I can't stomach seeing it in technicolor.

Where are cvs taking this obsession with the Green Lantern??? Why is it okay for this "chotta baccha" (their characterisation, not mine. He has none of the masoomiyat of a child) to dictate to a houseful of adults? Why is it not okay for an adult, his stepmother, to discipline him ( all she did was tell him not to interfere). And why is said stepmother, who is told to STAY AWAY from the baccha, then responsible for the little twerps comings and goings???

Make up your minds, senior Bhallas. Either Ishita is to STAY AWAY from your precious 24 carat gold Lantern, or Ishita is supposed to be looking after him and being aware of his every action. You cannot have it both ways.

What is that saying, about ghar ka Chirag hi ghar ko jalaata hai? It's sure coming true here.

Bhaag Ishita Bhaag.

And take Ruhi with you. Let Raman and his family enjoy the unadulterated daily delights of the criminal Green Lantern. Everything he does to them will be well deserved, and then we all will say "I told you so"

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Exactly V...she should just stay away from all these and just handle and take care of Ruhi!

let Raman remarry Shagun or even better live in with Shagun...suits her...shameless woman and her wacko baccha...no yaar, he cant be called a baccha also now.

To tell the truth, its very difficult for me to forget this insult which Raman meted out on her. Whatever testimonies of love he gives now will seem fake now. his true inner self had come out in anger today!

Originally posted by: krishy13

The main issue - where's the dang logic? Why couldn't they put a little bit more effort in crafting the scenario so it didn't seem absolutely ridiculous? In the present scenario, Ishita is totally non culpable and Raman, despite knowing the realities (i.e. Ishita was at work), blasted at her. Like really? In real life emotions do carry you away, but not to the degree that you forget everything. W*H. If they showed a little bit more realism (I mean like an inch), the audience could at least give Raman the benefit of the doubt. However, the situation they created here is just stupid.

Logic is shown the door...YHM is a fictional show and Logic is the least you should expect. We get that but when they had no qualms about trading on a path that was close to real and relatable earlier why is it so hard now? 😕 Raman's outburst today ILLOGICAL...I wouldn't have minded a little outburst due to the panic of not finding his son followed by a sensible reaction later on. But Raman just maintained his stand to the extent that it did not look like Raman anymore. We have see Raman treat Ishu real bad but that was another time...in just an episode it looked like I was watching another show altogether.

Truthfully - I just blame the CVs for royally messing with the characters. Now I foresee is another track where Raman makes giant mistakes and then spends episodes feeling guilty and trying to make up for it. Where's the originality in that? We had the accident track and all it's majboori and the Mani track and it's subsequent guilt track. Where is the guy who wanted to leave Ishita with Mani so she could be free from his issues (Simi/Param, Adi, Ashok/Shagun)? Like really?

Yes, now he is going to feel guilty again feel he is not fit for Ishita blah blah...and round and round we go.

The Raman we are seeing now is not the RKB we saw at the beginning of the show. Neither is it the majboor baap we saw during the accident track. Before Raman was a man whose actions spoke louder than anything. He would taunt Ishita but then silently sacrifice a position for her. Now all we are seeing a judgement, quick to react, and selfish man.

His line to Ishita about 'Mere aur mere bete ke beech' was exactly that...SELFISHNESS. He gushes about Ishita's selflessness and kind-heart that did not leave Shagun and Adi lying near the dumpster and with that one line he ruled off everything Ishita had ever done for Adi starting with bringing him home. The confidence and audacity with which Raman keeps saying my son would not even have come out of his sound box hadn't it been for Ishita and the Raman I know no matter how impulsive would acknowledge that

The CVs gave us wonderful romantic scenes leading up to this point and now slowly, they are undoing every promise Raman made. If I react based off just this episode, Raman is all talk and no action. Clever.

10 Promises made, 8 broken in one day...and repeat session next Monday when Adi refuses to come home and Raman blames Ishita for the mess

The way this track is now shaping up, they are just going to instill more hatred in Adi towards the entire Bhalla family because if/when Raman "gives" them up - Adi will have become even more warped because he tasted success and then it was ripped away. If Raman cuts the cord in reaction to Ishita leaving, all Adi will perceive is that because Ishita did some "drama" and now his dad is ditching him again. Again, clever CVs - at the end of the track, they will likely just keep things at status quo in terms of Adi.

I see no angle where Aditya gets to know that he has been nothing but a pawn in his mother's hand. Only when Adi gets to know what his mom has done will thsi cycle break...Else it will go on and on.

At least we will get to see Ishita stand up for her rights in this track. For the first time in a while, my heart truly and completely goes out to her character. It was hard for me to completely connect with her after bring Param home without consulting anyone before and continuing to go to Shagun's wedding festivities despite all the insult she faced. Maybe that was the CVs point all along - create a scenario so much can go back to actually feeling for and relating to Ishita's character. But they did accomplished this at the expense of Toshi and Raman's characters. #blah 🤢

At the expense of Raman's character true but Toshi Ji even if was 🤢 today but I think 80-90% she was still in character...Remember the accident track when she comes to know from Ishita that Adi was the one who caused the accident she cried and howled before Ishita to save her potha and then Shagun calls Mr. Bhalla about the cops coming and taking Aditya away and Mrs. Bhalla goes charging against Ishita only once Raman tells that he informed the truth and got Adi arrested and then gave some more explanations did she stop. If Toshi Ji has to open her eyes completely irrespective of all the love she has for her grandson then Shagun should do something through Adi that would hurt her deeply...else Toshi-GKC angle is a lost cause.