It's a new something for YHM..*Thoughts for 19 Jan pg 27* - Page 5

Originally posted by: krishy13

@Eyes-Wide-Shut, I absolutely love your positivity and perspective! After writing a huge rant against the CVs, I read your post!

@bold words - amen, sista. 👏

Thank you for finding some sense and realism in regards to what's being shown. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

First things first, THANK YOU for opening this thread and giving us a place to express our displeasure with today's shenanigans.

I might be in the minority but I liked today's episode and here is why.

1) Husband-wife: I saw Raman's character development today, I saw him act like a man who is about to lose his son yet again and I saw a husband taking out his frustration on the person he is closest to, his wife. There is no doubt that Raman loves Ishita and knows that she is the reason that Adi is warming up to him and he proved that when he said what he said to his ex-wife. He didn't mince any words to let her know that his Ishita does not have a problem with Adi, she loves his son and cares for him deeply. So we cannot question putter's love for the missus.

Now coming to the HURTFUL and I mean very hurtful things he said to his wife. You know I am not a big fan of the MALE gender right now so this little shenanigan that puttar pulled on the missus today just pushed me off the edge about MEN in general. *sigh* *they are so freakin stupid* Anywho, I am not justifying the hurtful words he said to Ishita but trying to look at it in a realistic angle. Raman knows he can only take out his frustration on his wife because no one else will tolerate his bullshit like Ishita will, so he used the anger from the morning add panic of not finding his son in the house, add to that the complicated relationship he shares with son and the frustration of not being able to control the situation...all this together made him snap and he said things that he obviously did not mean but anger got the best of him and he just vomited out words without thinking the damage they will do to Ishita. Anger is our worst enemy, we do and say things in the heat of the moment which we would never do or utter in normal circumstances. Unfortunately words are like arrows once it leave the bow, there is no coming back, words once spoken cannot be unspoken! Puttar must pay for his callousness and the hurtful things he said to the missus, you hurt the one you love the most but that doesn't mean that you take your loved one for granted and he has taken Ishita for granted.

I was trying to be okay with the yelling session of puttar until he folded his hands and stopped Ishita from accompanying him to fetch their son which he claimed is HIS son. That's when it looked like he has taken Ishita for granted, it is one thing to take out your frustration on your wife and completely different to take her for granted. That last part just pushed me off my sanity and I lost my marbles at puttar. Not only did he call her "Ishima' in a condesecning manner but he insulted her love for him and the selfless love she has for his good for nothing son. Putar needs to pay for this crap and I really do hope that the missus gives it back nicely.

2) Self respect: I do not think Ishita has lost her self respect as of yet she might very well lose it in the upcoming episodes if she doesn't standup for herself but till now she is just being the calm one when everyone around her is acting bat shit crazy. She was quite when Raman blew his fuse because at that moment the most important thing was to locate Adi, she acted naturally like any partner would when the other one is acting irrational and psychotic. Her self respect will be preserved if she doesn't apologize to the brat, and actually leaves the Bhalla household with Ruhi in tow once the ladle beta returns home.

I want Ishita to leave the Bhallas not to teach them a lesson but I want to her to leave for herself. All this time she has lived a life as their bahu, taking decisions for their betterment, being a support system for a broken Raman while ignoring her self and her growth. I want her to take a break from her family, take her daughter and live a few months of her life foe herself, her happiness and her growth. If they show this it will be a great women empowerment message because taking a break to heal oneself does not equal abandoning family, and this message is badly needed in our society especially for the Indian women who post marriage never think about themselves. I know hoping for a lot here but sochne pe tax thodi lagta chain,😆

I have a lot to say about Toshi ji but my hand hurts so I am gonna stop here and may be come back later to update more.

I like the episode because it was realistic, a married man taking out his frustrations on his mum wife, a mother in law berating her daughter in law in front of the grandchildren, a father desperate to find his son and a man failing miserably at string a balance between being a father to his lost son and a husband to his resilient but hurting wife. I like realism so I enjoyed it even though my heart bled for Ishu.

Puttar puttar puttar...sigh! STUPID MEN and THEIR STUPIDITY is gonna be the end of their kind, we just need to figure out how to procreate without them and then there is no need to have MEN around.🤣

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Same here...quite a disgusting mind numbing episode!

Basically its come to the point that a step mother, however good she is and proves herself as the best mom, she will be treated as a third person at some point.

Adi can say whatever he wants and everybody will only believe and be on his side. I dont think Adi would need much to send Ishita away. He just needs to tell it and all including Raman would just do it for him.

I felt pity on the woman Ishita. Toshi's chiding her was really horrible. she suffers from MPD...before her and Raman's behavior, I choose to forget Shagun and Adi's conspiracies! 😡

The story is being driven to a stage where Ishita has to lose her patience for once and tell them all to just go to hell!

Adi hai Adi woh...damn! no one even wants to know or understand what really happened and if Ishita even did a mistake.

Raman's accusation was quite contrary to the love he assumes to be in with Ishita. A person unconditionally in love will never do such shouting and insulting without a forethought!

Where is that Raman who stands by her and believes that Ishita can never go wrong? Where is the Raman who stands by right always? He is blinded by Adi. He has done it before and he also transformed but now why they push him back to the same point?

He seems lost somewhere in his obsession for Adi. He had once said that he needs Ishita as his strength and also support him to reform Adi.

Today he just reversed everything. The scene where he shouted at Ishita and then folded his hands at her to stay away just undid everything he said and did. He also told that he wont allow anyone to come between him and Adi!

Ishita should just stay away from everything. She should just stick to Ruhi's matters. let the others do whatever they want! Ishita giving silent treatment to Raman is quite justified. She should be silent from now on to everybody except Ruhi!

Sorry for the rant but I was so annoyed at the scenes that i couldnt help it!

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Another first .. I differ with you today .. And I'll be back to reply.. Just I have to feed by hubby...

Just will say this much yes taking out frustration out on your loved one is ok... But but NOONE gets leeway from being a jerk even if the world is falling apart. And I don't think it's realistic. It's regressive to me .. To say the least.

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

I hate to say this but I dont want a romantic scene until this crap is once and for all resolved. I mean they show a scene which depicts Raman as he most loving husband and a responsible man but the next episode, they show him shouting and insulting the most special person in his life. His obsession for Adi is like some intoxication, like alcohol or drugs which makes a person do anything and everything bizarre.

In the desperation to get Adi close to him and make Adi love him, he repeats his mistakes all over again! this has to stop else that wacko kid and his shameless mom will continue to rule over him! there is no place for Ishita and Ruhi in his life!

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

First things first, THANK YOU for opening this thread and giving us a place to express our displeasure with today's shenanigans.

I might be in the minority but I liked today's episode and here is why.

1) Husband-wife: I saw Raman's character development today, I saw him act like a man who is about to lose his son yet again and I saw a husband taking out his frustration on the person he is closest to, his wife. There is no doubt that Raman loves Ishita and knows that she is the reason that Adi is warming up to him and he proved that when he said what he said to his ex-wife. He didn't mince any words to let her know that his Ishita does not have a problem with Adi, she loves his son and cares for him deeply. So we cannot question putter's love for the missus.

Now coming to the HURTFUL and I mean very hurtful things he said to his wife. You know I am not a big fan of the MALE gender right now so this little shenanigan that puttar pulled on the missus today just pushed me off the edge about MEN in general. *sigh* *they are so freakin stupid* Anywho, I am not justifying the hurtful words he said to Ishita but trying to look at it in a realistic angle. Raman knows he can only take out his frustration on his wife because no one else will tolerate his bullshit like Ishita will, so he used the anger from the morning add panic of not finding his son in the house, add to that the complicated relationship he shares with son and the frustration of not being able to control the situation...all this together made him snap and he said things that he obviously did not mean but anger got the best of him and he just vomited out words without thinking the damage they will do to Ishita. Anger is our worst enemy, we do and say things in the heat of the moment which we would never do or utter in normal circumstances. Unfortunately words are like arrows once it leave the bow, there is no coming back, words once spoken cannot be unspoken! Puttar must pay for his callousness and the hurtful things he said to the missus, you hurt the one you love the most but that doesn't mean that you take your loved one for granted and he has taken Ishita for granted.

I was trying to be okay with the yelling session of puttar until he folded his hands and stopped Ishita from accompanying him to fetch their son which he claimed is HIS son. That's when it looked like he has taken Ishita for granted, it is one thing to take out your frustration on your wife and completely different to take her for granted. That last part just pushed me off my sanity and I lost my marbles at puttar. Not only did he call her "Ishima' in a condesecning manner but he insulted her love for him and the selfless love she has for his good for nothing son. Putar needs to pay for this crap and I really do hope that the missus gives it back nicely.

2) Self respect: I do not think Ishita has lost her self respect as of yet she might very well lose it in the upcoming episodes if she doesn't standup for herself but till now she is just being the calm one when everyone around her is acting bat shit crazy. She was quite when Raman blew his fuse because at that moment the most important thing was to locate Adi, she acted naturally like any partner would when the other one is acting irrational and psychotic. Her self respect will be preserved if she doesn't apologize to the brat, and actually leaves the Bhalla household with Ruhi in tow once the ladle beta returns home.

I want Ishita to leave the Bhallas not to teach them a lesson but I want to her to leave for herself. All this time she has lived a life as their bahu, taking decisions for their betterment, being a support system for a broken Raman while ignoring her self and her growth. I want her to take a break from her family, take her daughter and live a few months of her life foe herself, her happiness and her growth. If they show this it will be a great women empowerment message because taking a break to heal oneself does not equal abandoning family, and this message is badly needed in our society especially for the Indian women who post marriage never think about themselves. I know hoping for a lot here but sochne pe tax thodi lagta chain, 😆

I have a lot to say about Toshi ji but my hand hurts so I am gonna stop here and may be come back later to update more.

I like the episode because it was realistic, a married man taking out his frustrations on his mum wife, a mother in law berating her daughter in law in front of the grandchildren, a father desperate to find his son and a man failing miserably at string a balance between being a father to his lost son and a husband to his resilient but hurting wife. I like realism so I enjoyed it even though my heart bled for Ishu.

Puttar puttar puttar...sigh! STUPID MEN and THEIR STUPIDITY is gonna be the end of their kind, we just need to figure out how to procreate without them and then there is no need to have MEN around. 🤣

Originally posted by: banana.ishra

HAI DOC.H IS UR STUDIES GOING ON...BRILLIANT ANALYSIS...LAST PARA & AVI 🤣 😆