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Posted: 10 years ago
Shagun:
"Before you attempt to beat the odds, be sure you could survive the odds beating you." ~Larry Kersten

Toshiji
Stupidity is a talent for misconception.
~Edgar Allan Poe

Raman:
"The best index to a person's character is how he treats people who can't do him any good, and how he treats people who can't fight back.~Abigail Van Buren

"In the end you should always do the right thing even if it's hard." ~Nicholas Sparks, The Last Song

Ishita:
"When you're silent, your silence condones it. Thus, whatever you believe in goes down the drain." ~Jennifer Tindugan-Adoviso

Hey Gan and gang missed you all! Finally life has calmed down a little bit so I am back discussing the show.

When this track started I was pretty much neutral about it because I knew at the end we would get a positive outcome. This track to me meant we would be dealing with Ishita's insecurities and fears. I also thought it would be different because Raman is in love with Ishita and he would not be blinded by Adi. Boy I was wrong. All my predications came out wrong.

Let me start with the GKC dialogue. Its really disgusting and honestly I am really offended. Not only as a female but also because I have seen my mom go through so much because she only had daughters. This is the 21st century and we are in 2015. We should advance treat each gender equally. Shame on the writers for adding such dialogues like that specially when majority of their audience is female. What is the point of putting dialogues like that to offend its audience. God I cant stand Toshji and her double standards.

Let me stand the Adi ki liye bug everyone in the whole Bhalla house caught. It was so annoying to see Ishita get that bug. It was hard for me to watch her disrespect her marriage just to please a 12 year old boy who is never going to accept her as long his evil brainwashing mother is around. I get Ishita wants to get to make him comfortable and wants to help him but their is a certain line you shouldn't cross. Her giving back the earrings and celebrating some non existent anniversary was taking it too far. It was disrespectful to her marriage. I love Ishita, she will always be one of my favourite female leads but I really wish she would stop being so mahaan. Her intentions are always for the best weather her decisions are right or wrong. I also wish she would not be so mahaan for the very ungrateful Bhallas (exception of Mr. Bhalla and Rinki). It was funny when Ishita was talking to Amma about her sitution, I already knew she was putting up Shagun and adi for the sake of raman because she is right, she has seen Raman cry for his son. That is the beauty of a husband and wife relationship. Understanding one another when the rest of the world wont. That is exactly what Ishita did and that's why she put up with Shagun. I may not agree with some of her decisions but I will respect her intentions. I feel really bad for her. She is being blamed for no reason because I did not see the rest of the Bhallas objections to Shagun staying in the house.

Shagun, all I have to say is I hope her own games ends up biting her. I hope her own son kicks his mother out of the Bhalla house. I have never seen such a delusional person in my whole life. She has such a bad memory. I think she should go see a doctor because it is not normal to forget a chuck of your life.

Raman! Oh how he is this perfect imperfect man. But he has been lately going off the haywire. His blind love is returning as soon as his son started connecting with him. I am so disappointed in his characterization. I understand you got your first born back and I understand he was finally connecting with you but you still need to listen to your wife. There is no point in yelling at her because that is no solution. I honestly want a Ishra separation during this horrible track then I feel like Raman will start taking wise decisions. Why doesn't he reopen adi's custody case. He has the upper hand and will definitely win. This way he has his son and his ex wife doesnt need to stay in the same house has him. Also it will be good for Adi to be far away from Shagun so the poison she has put in him will drain. Being away from Shagun will not only be a healing track for Adi, but for him to properly connect with his family and maybe treat Ishita properly.

My love hate relationship with Adi continues. I feel bad for him at times but I can not help but hate him. It was really hard to disgust a 12 year old purposely eating the wrong medication just so he can kick his step mother out of the house. I honestly have not feeling towards him. Its quite sad for him to have so much hate at such a young age. Shagun really needs to be far away from.

So in conclusion to this long post, I am really tried of this track and I am hoping we are coming to an end.

Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Res.
Found something relevant to Raman's character from an American show, and got it me thinking about what it is to be a father, a man, a husband. What is the sense of duty and responsibility.
All of this got me thinking about what kind of man will Adi grow up to be and if Raman had a chance what would he say to his son?

I will be back once I finish writing it.

Thanks for MLK quotes, so very relevant and insightful for all of us.
Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Gan was waiting 4 ur post..Disgusting episode.this track is really testing my patience. I just want 2 slap afi 4 literally shouting at his father...if I was in that place I might have screwed him...no respect 4 elders...and another idiotic lady toshi..just want 2 bang her head somewhere..raman has gone mad..h he became ceo of the year? cdnt take any decisions rationally. Always confused when it come 2 adi...both raman and toshi r spoiling adi..bad eg of parenting...definitely he will be criminal in near future..i really felt 4 ishu..wht is the need 2 be so mahan 4 those who doesnt value ur goodness. Raman is bipolar..one time he is praising ishu and now he is yelling at her...ramandeserves only sag-adi.
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Edited by banana.ishra - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: krishy13

Based off this show, all I can say is love can lead to even the smartest of people making stupid decisions. Cases in point...


Ishita - Early on in this track, she truly bent over backwards to make Adi comfortable and feel at home all "Adi ke liye." However, when she realized Adi hated her, after story time, she could have nipped the issue in the bud & told Raman right there. But because she loves Raman and wants to see him happy - she kept her mouth shut, "Raman ke liye." At that point, she turned in tunnel vision and did not engage Raman in discussion about Adi's perceptions of her, ignoring the potential damage it could have on her, Raman, & Ruhi's life. Her eyes opened to the potential damage when Ruhi questioned her, but in her love, she again did not mention anything to Raman. Now things have escalated at the cost of her self respect.

Raman - for the first 2 weeks of this track, it looked like he had his brain and heart in the right place (just like the accident track..). All of a sudden, he's sort of seeing the situation but playing a slight spectator. In his love for both Adi & Ishita, he's putting off making an adult decision. He wants a perfect family of him, Ishita, Adi, & Ruhi because he thinks that will make him & Ishita complete. In his love for these 2 individuals, he's playing a passive role. ATM, he is not totally blind in love with Adi like before but he has turned off his sense of justice in his greed to have Adi with them. Now things have escalated at the cost of his happy marriage.

Ishita in her love for her husband has made mistakes and now Raman in his love for Ishita and more so, Adi is making mistakes. Both are not wrong to love - I mean you couldn't ask a wife/husband not to wish for their spouse's happiness, and no matter how craptastic the son, you can't ask a dad to totally stop loving his son. But due to their tunnel vision and desire to see the other party happy, things are escalating in a painful way!

As for Toshiji 🤢 - I cannot wait for someone to knock the realities of the modern world into her. This whole ghar ka chirag thing is giving me a headache. I get the CVs are trying to "show the mirror" to this type of thought process, but in the process - it's killing patience and tolerance of the original target viewers of the show - aka the "working, modern, urban folk."

If this is the accident track with possible elements of the 1st Param track rehashed for the new audience (& with Raman's character growth reversed) - Bhagvan, grant us patience because it seems we have just begun!

On one hand, I am fearful as to what event will push Ishita into her Kaali-Ma avtar, but on the other hand, I cannot wait for it to happen! In the accident track - it was thanks to Ashok's instigating that she saw her trust in Raman broken and her adopting her Kaali-Ma avatar.

Similar train of thought...in the accident track it was Adi who opened Raman's eyes - this time, who will it be - Ishita? Adi? Ruhi? Shagun? or my personal preference - Raman, himself reactivating some of those neural connections in his frontal lobe and making a decision on his own!

#23moredaysoftorture #hopefully


Very well written!! Yes silence sometimes spell more doom than not. Ishita's silence started it.. And now Raman's silence is escalating it... Someone needs to speak up and stop this train wreck
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Posted: 10 years ago
Oh G!


I am so sorry... I was looking forward to your post but that's understandable.

Now that I am finally over my disgust with Saturday's episode I can actually communicate with more then GIFs.

I have some thoughts floating around about the track in general that I will post once I get a moment to gather them.

Thanks so much for always providing us with such a welcoming, unbiased and wonderful place to share our thoughts.

And thanks for choosing such apt quotes from MLK... a great man as well as a true wordsmith.

As for Mr. Bhalla... I have always thought that he and Mr. Iyer do not get the proper screen time or development on the show. They are terrific men and fathers and it was them that initiated the ISHRARU love story... I have to believe that they will not let it fall into disarray so reaily now that it is going more amazing then either of them could have foreseen.

I look forward to Mr. Iyer's reaction in the upcoming track... i do hope the CVs won't disappoint.
Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: cocololo123

Im back with my rant- will be back with my update! Long rant about this track.


Coco welcome back.. I have been missing your posts 🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
Hello G di! Hope you had a great day!! 🤗
Coming to the episode,
I love Mr.Bhalla jee nothing else I can add...
The less I talk the more better it is! 😈

P.s: Busy week at home...will be on n off on IF...I think it's better I just skip the episodes too n enjoy the functions at home
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Res.

Found something relevant to Raman's character from an American show, and got it me thinking about what it is to be a father, a man, a husband. What is the sense of duty and responsibility.
All of this got me thinking about what kind of man will Adi grow up to be and if Raman had a chance what would he say to his son?

I will be back once I finish writing it.

Thanks for MLK quotes, so very relevant and insightful for all of us.


Darling why don't you make a post? ... I know you have to study.. Just make the post and we'll move there and take care of the rant... I can reply to most as I have a day off. No pressure your choice.. I just don't want a wonderful post buried in the 20+ page

Once you post .. Post the Url here so that we can take the discussion there 😳
Edited by GanBarunFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RomComFan

Oh G!


I am so sorry... I was looking forward to your post but that's understandable.

Now that I am finally over my disgust with Saturday's episode I can actually communicate with more then GIFs.

I have some thoughts floating around about the track in general that I will post once I get a moment to gather them.

Thanks so much for always providing us with such a welcoming, unbiased and wonderful place to share our thoughts.

And thanks for choosing such apt quotes from MLK... a great man as well as a true wordsmith.

As for Mr. Bhalla... I have always thought that he and Mr. Iyer do not get the proper screen time or development on the show. They are terrific men and fathers and it was them that initiated the ISHRARU love story... I have to believe that they will not let it fall into disarray so reaily now that it is going more amazing then either of them could have foreseen.

I look forward to Mr. Iyer's reaction in the upcoming track... i do hope the CVs won't disappoint.


I've requested Doc to make a post.. Maybe you can post there
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: banana.ishra

Gan was waiting 4 ur post..Disgusting episode.this track is really testing my patience. I just want 2 slap afi 4 literally shouting at his father...if I was in that place I might have screwed him...no respect 4 elders...and another idiotic lady toshi..just want 2 bang her head somewhere..raman has gone mad..h he became ceo of the year? cdnt take any decisions rationally. Always confused when it come 2 adi...both raman and toshi r spoiling adi..bad eg of parenting...definitely he will be criminal in near future..i really felt 4 ishu..wht is the need 2 be so mahan 4 those who doesnt value ur goodness. Raman is bipolar..one time he is praising ishu and now he is yelling at her...ramandeserves only sag-adi.
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He's not bipolar just caught up between two loves of his life... His emotions I understood .. But his inability to get over it and make a choice is what's bugging me

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