Raising questions as Viewers of YHM to Child actor's Parents. - Page 12

Originally posted by: mayu1982

@ Lucky : heheh Revenge time..

OK got it Gautam is matured enough to understand between real and reel 👏👏

Hatss off to his parents - don't know how they manage to explain him👏👏.. Main toh apne baccho ko fight maat karo - mein bhi struggle karti hoon..😆

Then if as viewers am asking questions to Divs how can she can even justify her such stupid role?

Then gautam is also answerable for his degrading/pathetic character.

In fact my main question - why his parents allowed him to do this kind of role? even if they are fine with their son doing this role, why they are not opposing with cv/writer/mgmt writing such violent stuff for this character.

Already some much violence in real world, it is disgusting to see 12 yr old fictional kid doing such abnormal thing on screen.🤢

I am against of writer, cv/mgmt to writing such stuff for kid character and parents to allowing his kid to do this stuff. It is painful for me atleast for me to watch ( if not for anyone)

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Ruhi character was good initially more like a kid , it was butchered after mani's entry only.😃

But even for ruhi - i raised my voice it is not that i am not asking questions for ruhi character.

I agree that I am more concerned for violence /negative character ( Adi) than positive character ( Ruhi)

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

@bold - poocho na... usko poocho, uske parents ko poocho aur CVs ko bhi poocho... I am not saying it is wrong. But people were making fun of his acting... and calling him names. THAT is wrong... in fact we dont even do it to adults, then how can we use names for kids ?

baaki as for your question to Gautam's parents... there too, you are not wrong in asking that question. Just as I am not wrong in pointing out that he seems smarter than the rest. Both of these things could be mutually exclusive and correct at the same time 😳

@Ruhi - sorry, but that whole baanjh thing was long before Mani... i will NEVER forget that scene. We were all happy because she shut up Bala's mom and other women... because Ruhi was the positive voice in that room. But we forgot that Ruhanika, the child is saying those things.

ab neend aa rahi hai ki nahin? 😈😆

I was so surprised that no one in this forum ever made made a topic on this...so at last...the question that I feel is most important to all that is happening with the story line of the show...

Originally posted by: puba

I was so surprised that no one in this forum ever made made a topic on this...so at last...the question that I feel is most important to all that is happening with the story line of the show...

In my opinion...of course it is the parents responsibility to see to it that their children are brought up in the right way...but as adults we also have some responsibilities towards the future generations...I am not sure the extent to which the CVs can stoop for the sake of trps...using a child as a criminal is just excruciatingly distasteful...

I am not a parent...but whatever is being shown is unacceptable...this is why I have stopped watching the show...no ishra magic is enough for me to get over the issue of turning an innocent child in to a criminal...and though it is in reel...in any child's subconscious...the line between the reel and the real is smudged...

And money???? It shouldn't even feature in to a discussion of this sort...because money cannot buy a child's future...

It really makes me mad when people just lose the big picture of life in exchange for some temporary glory, fame, success etc etc...Honestly...will YHM be the topic of discussion in any household 10 years down the line???? I really hope the child is able to distance himself from all this and doing this show doesn't have any adverse effects on him...

@Mayu... I mentioned his acting skills for the tweets you mentioned. The tweets that Ruhanika's mother sent out... not for your post re baba 😳

Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font color="#993300">@ Bold: No need to show kid with so much negative thing..</font>

<font color="#993300">Wrong totally wrong.. As a mother I am strictly against of showing such psycho kid.</font>

<font color="#993300">No need to show realistic thing only with a kid.</font>

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<font color="#993300">Kids taking revenge - is a sick concept with so much extreme violence Don't care whether it is realistic character or not, but morally you are showing wrong thing.That too without any base, a kid because of the divorce of the parents , took such such extreme steps to take revenge from step son🤢How logical it is?</font>

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<font color="#993300">If they want to show realistic thing then why can't they show lead character more realistic than a psycho realistic kid.</font><font color="#993300">🤢</font>

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they are showing only how the kid is affected because of their parents get seperated. He is being deprived of the thing which a normal child would get from parents get seperated. They are just showing how the kids get affected if they are involved in parents fight. There are showing the ill effects of instigation of child against the other partner by the partner toeasy her divorce proceedings

Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font color="#990000">Thanks for comment.</font>

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<font color="#990000">I am not blaming him nor am bashing this kid..</font>

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<font color="#990000">Rather am asking questions to his parents- why they are allowing this kid to do such character which is full of negativity. WHy they are not revolting against cv/mgmt/prod house for writing such degrading thing?</font>

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<font color="#990000">Agree gautam may be not effect and he is fine and normal and matured to understand difference b/w real and reel, still not able to understand one single logic - why they are allowing his child to do such type of character which is full of negativity...</font>

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<font color="#990000">Am not against of gautam but against of writing so much negative thing about adi character. Even shagun has shown as person with evil thought but a reason..</font>

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<font color="#990000">YHM general Mathematics - Adi who is 12 year old is less matured character than 6 year old ruhi( who is more matured than her age).. Strange na</font>

I never said that you were blaming/bashing the kid:) You created a valid thread which made all of us think on this topic.

As for Gautam's parents, sincerely I cannot comment on that without knowing their side of of the story.

Unfortunately, via my experience of Indian shows, the makers think that twisted stories get great TRPs. Prior to its time slot change, YHM was sticking to its storyline and tracks were being wrapped up within a span of 2 weeks. But now they are catering to the TRP audience who seem to relish this type of drama. I also don't know why producers think that happiness doesn't work.

You are a parent. I respect the fact that you are worried about these children. Like I've said before, I don't think that most of us had ever thought about the effect of this show on children. I'm glad that u've brought it up, and hopefully someone from the production house would be reading this post and we would see less negative portrayal by these kids.

Peace 😊

Dear Victo

i know a mom who sent her kid to disturb her hubby's bro's kid who lived nearby..she wud send this kid n say ..go disturb that kid..she is studying its her exams so go to their house.. what i mean to say is there aremoms like that and there are kids who blindlu listen to moms..also knew a lady who ill treated her saas... and asked her sons to ill treat the daadi too..the kids almost kicked the daadi .. very horrific..but i dont know they all are normal individual leading normal family lives.. very confusing.. i found it very upsetting to know of all this even in real life.. also u know there was a movie called lakshmi last year (starring monali thakur) ...very very horrific movie on child trafficking ...usmein i vaguely remember reading ki some parents developed cold feet when they knew what the story their kids had to enact n withdrew their kids..as it might have an impact.. aware parentingh is so much welcome in todays times.. waisey hi things..news traumatises n send wrong signals..to kids ..already that is wrong enough.. but a high trp show resorting to such cheapo tactics.. u know they shdv known where to draw the line.. if he felt bad seeing them romance..that is ok.. but these viilanous acts liek bp pills thing..n burning his hand..and repeated number of times

Originally posted by: puba

Dear Victo

It is great that you see all this in a very positive light...but there are a few things that always bug me...

1. I have not seen a mother till date who uses their child for their own selfish motives in real life...I may be too naive...maybe there are mothers of this species...even if there is...there's no need to glorify these types on TV...that's what I feel...at least not for the sake of trps...

2. There are tons of people in this world whose parents are separated...that doesn't mean that they turn out to be like Adi...if the show is trying to say that parents separation leads to Adi-like behavior...then that is absolutely not true...in fact my friends who come from single parent homes are some of the most responsible people I have seen

3. I have never encountered a kid who is so manipulative in nature due to their parents separation...do the CVs really need to go to this extent yo prove their point about what happens to kids if their parents are separated????

4. Forget about the drama shown in the serial...the fact that the child actor is being asked to act out these weird things will certainly have a bearing on his life...no matter how hard he tries to keep his reel and real life separate...this is his age to have a normal life instead of acting out such sinister plots...

Yes I accept it. I never said the kids of separated parents will do it. It's his mother instigation and for her mother's happiness he is doing. In real world if a mother comes to know the trauma which child undergoes she will kkeep away
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For the sake of trp they are over boarding it. Unless the kid doesn't affects in the real life and he can able to differentiate it or there is proper guidance to know the facts of reel and real life there is nothing wrong in it . I have mentioned tthis earlier too.