Is it really wrong to consummate before confessing in a marriage?

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Is it really wrong to do IT bfor confessing in a marriage?

peace..

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Posted: 11 years ago

Is it really wrong to do IT before confessing your love in a marriage?

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Posted: 11 years ago

most of marriages in india are arranged . do they really wait for that long to consummate their marriage no . you do not need love to have sex as long as both are willing partners .

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--Megha--

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Posted: 11 years ago

It depends on the couples really, Most arranged marriages apparently people don't wait but m sure, they take it slow in arranged marriages too n also in arranged marriages people have had a courtship period before the marriage where the couples know and emotionally connect each other.

In my opinion its important to have emotional connect first and then Physical intimacy. 😳

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peace..

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: mnr123
It depends on the couples really, Most arranged marriages apparently people don't wait but m sure, they take it slow in arranged marriages too n also in arranged marriages people have had a courtship period before the marriage where the couples know and emotionally connect each other.
In my opinion its important to have emotional connect first and then Physical intimacy. 😳

Hmm..tfs ur opinion Megha 😊

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Nisha0604

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Posted: 11 years ago

Most marriages in India consummation happens on wedding nite

This whole love shove business is a corporate conspiracy to sell more Valentines day junk

DESI TV has taken this LOVE thing to INSANE proportions

99%of marriages in India start with ZERO UNDERSTANDING AND 100% SEX

The love and understanding BS is a Karan Johar perpetuated myth

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Nisha0604

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Posted: 11 years ago

In America EVERY marriage happens AFTER this so called LOVE declaration

7 out of 10 end in dumpsters before year 5

The whole ISHRA must achieve understanding before they touch is all lost on me

In fact studies suggest the more u know ur partner the less sex u want to have with him/her😆

Yet we clamor for UNDERSTANDING😆

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Nisha0604

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Posted: 11 years ago

So Peace tell me something

The MOMENT they declare ILU s will they immediately feel insanely aroused and start tearing off each others clothes?

WHAT DOES LOVE have to do with physical attraction

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peace..

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
In America EVERY marriage happens AFTER this so called LOVE declaration
7 out of 10 end in dumpsters before year 5

The whole ISHRA must achieve understanding before they touch is all lost on me

In fact studies suggest the more u know ur partner the less sex u want to have with him/her😆

Yet we clamor for UNDERSTANDING😆

bold: really? I wud really want people to comment on this one based on their personal experiences!

Also y do people divorce so much in western countries?

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peace..

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
So Peace tell me something
The MOMENT they declare ILU s will they immediately feel insanely aroused and start tearing off each others clothes?

WHAT DOES LOVE have to do with physical attraction

personally, i agree wid wat u say! but d thing is u might not feel physically aroused everytime to d person u love, but wud u really want to hv sex widout ny emotional connect? i dont think so..u wud feel wierd atleast!

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Originally posted by: peace..

bold: really? I wud really want people to comment on this one based on their personal experiences!

Also y do people divorce so much in western countries?

simple it is always better to live a single life than live in a stressful and unhappy marriage.

if given the choice and freedom from society indians too will opt for divorce .

but parents and society ,security plays a major role in india.