YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #39 - Page 109

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Hey A, thank you.

@bold - first of all, all we have is a promo so dont stress much - see he may be thinking things - he may be seeing the impact his past has on her and blame himself for all that happens to her BUT thinking about a thing and actually doing it are two different things, Like you said can he really do it? He knows she loves him too, was about to confess to him. He is in love with her. That night when he was drunk he wanted to assert rights, even vented out on her that she doesnt and wont assert hers 😉 so yeah if push comes to shove Ishita wont back off from the fight. Remember now she knows this man was thinking about taking the BIGGEST step for their marriage there is - he wanted them to become spouses and not just remain parents and friends anymore. She even fought with him the day she learned of Sanjana and said - I know when and how to fight for my rights should the need arise. So dont fret.

Also like you said if he does go about it - how he actually does it is also vital. Ruhi definitely is a key factor who will play out here; but the thing is now this marriage when it would cross this hurdle will end the Sirf Ruhi Ke Liye tag, cos she would want to stay with him for herself, for him and them. She is in love with the man and so wants to hear him say those words too - recall the scene she is daydreaming on Saturday. She already lost a man she loved once she wont do so again, not when so much is at stake. Yes it would boggle her if he throws her a curve but she will just not comply and get what changed things and bothers him and will help him get over it - like she did when she went to have lunch with him post their talk about how she was crying over Subu even 6 months after their break-up or recently when she danced for him, it was to prove to him she can look sexy if he wants her to but she isnt comfortable with the idea of doing so pubicly 😳

@red - it made sense to me A because of that Raman Mani scene the other day, I got it why they had it then, Raman saying he is lucky rem? Well he was bound to compare things when something like this would take place - how much she got, what she got compared to what I gave her type. And of course feel he, his family and past cause issue to her and her family. Ishita has suffered cos of Param, went through so much cos of Shagun and Adi, even he would initially be so rude to her and take out his anger on her for no fault of hers. Her Amma was almost killed by Adi, Bala lost his job cos of Romi...the pros and cons would always come into play but therein would lie the beauty of this track. While he would find the problems she would see despite everything he always stood by her; he never abandoned her even if he may have lost his way for a while and that is what she would say means more to her than everything else; cos she had a man before with whom life was comparatively a bed of roses - but when the time came when she needed him the most he deserted her, he abandoned her. With Raman though problems will always be there but so would he be and so long as he is there nothing else matters to her, problems big or small are a part of everyone' life it isnt what matters - what matters is the one who should stand by you does or doesnt and he himself said even on the night he hurt her on the ABG event - I wont abandon, wont leave as that is not me 😳 I dont leave people stranded