YHM -Daily Episode Discussions and Live Updates Thread #39 - Page 108

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

Count me in too Anku 😊 and Lia.. bilkul sahi! Jitna zyaada dard usse double pyaar later 😳 jokes apart i really really think given how the creatives have handled the storyline so far its best they go that extra mile to show how Raman realises just how far this woman - who loves him with her all her heart can go for him! She may have married him sirf ruhi ke liye - but she made it clear to him a few months later that every relation attached to ruhi are hers too and she'll live them all! She isn't going to abandon him come what may - least of all cos of his problems! And he needs to know its not his decision to make anyway! When they finally do end up telling each other about their love it should be after knowing how much they love each other - he's willing to let her go for her supposed happiness and she's willing to live through every problem with him for his happiness! yaaayyy to thatt!!! 👏

Originally posted by: -Anku-

I AGREE. I wasn't going to be very happy if they would have a confession this soon. They've just only realized their love for the other. But travelling this little path, giving up on their happiness for the other, being selfless in love, this will test their bond and only make it stronger. Her faith on him and his love will be stronger. Her constant doubts about his feelings for Shagun will finally find an end when she realizes how he let her go for her happiness. And he'll be reassured and surprised once again at just how much his JKR loves him, and how for her, everything that is his is hers too. If its happiness than even his struggles are hers and that is what made her fall for him.

Seeing how they've managed every track so far, I am confident that this will be no less. Yes it's a bit scary since this track is parallel to Shagun's marriage breaking and could be a little more serious than we think it is. But I am positive and hopeful for an amazing end result.

Originally posted by: -Anku-

Exactly. He isn't one of those people who can voice his feelings openly. He brings them into action. He can't tell her how much he can do for her, so he'll just do it. That night he wanted to show her, you are mine and if I want to do something I can because I am your husband. NOW he loves her, he is ready to take a step ahead, and she is ready too as well. But he is taking a step back. Why? Because he thinks that mere love is not as important. This all isn't just about him. It is about her as much and even more.

What's amazing is that Shagun gave nothing to her marriage and his family, but he still wanted to her to stay back. But here Ishita gives him more than he can ask for and he's ready to let her go because his love for her has no bounds. He can't be selfish when it comes to her.

A major thought behind this decision is also related to his past, just that last aspect of his past that has to be dealt with - He still thinks that if a person has better options they do move onto it. He hasn't seen the maddening fight Ishita can put for him and her love. And which is what he will see now.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Yep that night his actions were dictated by his past too and he was channeling his hurt and anger at being burnt again, at being hurt again, he thought this time he had been more careful, more stringent in his actions but still he made a mistake and gave his heart away to a woman who was breaking it. Now that he knows better he is thinking about what his past is doing again and again to him, her and them, but mostly he sees how for no fault of hers she is being dragged into all of this and this time though once again he is viewing things through the lens of his past he isnt being blinded by anger, jealousy or insecurity, rather he is being a man in love - not a man who wants to possess but a man who wants to give, who wants to love and hence he is seeing the impact of his past on her.

This the same man who once said to his daughter - for your sake she would even tolerate my anger, who took this woman for granted and made her apologize to his son for no fault of hers is thinking - I should let her go, set her free.

She deserves better, she deserves more than what I have to offer.

Like you said he got nothing ever from a woman he once loved, but wanted to hold onto her, cause he thought that it was enough that he loves her, he wanted a stable home for his children even if it meant he had a loveless life...now this woman walks in his life and keeps on giving to him - his daughter, peace of mind, a happy family, the kind of home he loves to return to at night and in return she always got insults, trials and troubles that never ceased to exist.

Now he sees that for all the material worth in this world that he can offer to her, nothing can amount to what she has given him or the problems his past caused to her. The scales were tipped in her favor from his POV and now he wants her to not compromise anymore and therein lies the beauty of this act in setting her free - he would free himself of his past, for when she would chose him with everything and not despite of those, he would have found and gained love that is unconditional.

Originally posted by: banana.ishra

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@bold...lovely lines Aani...

Originally posted by: Autumn.

Do you really think Ishita will put up a fight? Or she will be like if Raman wants then fine. It also depends how Raman goes about breaking up the news to her that he was to go away from her. But can he do it as he really loves her? What about Ruhi, does he think about her?

Ever since heard about the promo, it is hurting and was trying to stay away from forum. But alas cannot.

Aani lovely explanation. And yeah Chandler and Monica are my fav too. That clip you put was perfect. But still one part is aghast at what Raman is thinking i.e. separation. As long as they just show the turmoil and do not separate per se, it will be ok.

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Hey A, thank you.

@bold - first of all, all we have is a promo so dont stress much - see he may be thinking things - he may be seeing the impact his past has on her and blame himself for all that happens to her BUT thinking about a thing and actually doing it are two different things, Like you said can he really do it? He knows she loves him too, was about to confess to him. He is in love with her. That night when he was drunk he wanted to assert rights, even vented out on her that she doesnt and wont assert hers 😉 so yeah if push comes to shove Ishita wont back off from the fight. Remember now she knows this man was thinking about taking the BIGGEST step for their marriage there is - he wanted them to become spouses and not just remain parents and friends anymore. She even fought with him the day she learned of Sanjana and said - I know when and how to fight for my rights should the need arise. So dont fret.

Also like you said if he does go about it - how he actually does it is also vital. Ruhi definitely is a key factor who will play out here; but the thing is now this marriage when it would cross this hurdle will end the Sirf Ruhi Ke Liye tag, cos she would want to stay with him for herself, for him and them. She is in love with the man and so wants to hear him say those words too - recall the scene she is daydreaming on Saturday. She already lost a man she loved once she wont do so again, not when so much is at stake. Yes it would boggle her if he throws her a curve but she will just not comply and get what changed things and bothers him and will help him get over it - like she did when she went to have lunch with him post their talk about how she was crying over Subu even 6 months after their break-up or recently when she danced for him, it was to prove to him she can look sexy if he wants her to but she isnt comfortable with the idea of doing so pubicly 😳

@red - it made sense to me A because of that Raman Mani scene the other day, I got it why they had it then, Raman saying he is lucky rem? Well he was bound to compare things when something like this would take place - how much she got, what she got compared to what I gave her type. And of course feel he, his family and past cause issue to her and her family. Ishita has suffered cos of Param, went through so much cos of Shagun and Adi, even he would initially be so rude to her and take out his anger on her for no fault of hers. Her Amma was almost killed by Adi, Bala lost his job cos of Romi...the pros and cons would always come into play but therein would lie the beauty of this track. While he would find the problems she would see despite everything he always stood by her; he never abandoned her even if he may have lost his way for a while and that is what she would say means more to her than everything else; cos she had a man before with whom life was comparatively a bed of roses - but when the time came when she needed him the most he deserted her, he abandoned her. With Raman though problems will always be there but so would he be and so long as he is there nothing else matters to her, problems big or small are a part of everyone' life it isnt what matters - what matters is the one who should stand by you does or doesnt and he himself said even on the night he hurt her on the ABG event - I wont abandon, wont leave as that is not me 😳 I dont leave people stranded