cv's...take a bow... - Page 4

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

I am not expecting her to fall on his feet..I was happy till she was giving back to him..and her reaction to his pushing was good too..but what I think as someone who is seeing Ishita's character from day1-lets accept that she is a little mahaan..there are many instances..when Raman was drunk and pushed her on road and she decided to act as if nothing happened the next day-was that not the time to take a stand..but what did Ishita do-she let it go..she asked everyone to keep quiet as its a big day for Raman..why did she do that? because she is Ishita and her character is that..she is giving and mahaan..CVs are showing her ignorant and her character has been shown jagga jasoos always trying to find what is bothering whom..even during Adi fiasco she could sense Raman's pain..here he clearly told her that he is shattered because his house is again broken because of Mani..either CVs should have avoided such direct taunts because otherwise it is not believable that the same Ishita does not understand anything..she thinks something is bothering him but she does not understand direct taunts..we are all asking why Raman did not confront her and talk to her directly..but what will he ask? He clearly is scared as hell to have the answer he is dreading..and he is still asking her time and again but she is not understanding..I am not defending Raman,neither am I against Ishita..my problem is with CVs playing with characters..

yar..its not about doubting your character..its about understanding that what is your husband's problem..If your husband rants to your best friend that he broke your house will you not be shocked..how can such direct dialogue not affect you..especially when you know your husband is struggling with some problem..yes he kept fast for her but he also shut her up saying he did not...I was fine with Ishita till she was clueless until the day Raman clearly blurted all that and was in such a bad state..Agreed that Ishita is very uptight about her self-respect and its fine if she think that the way to deal with it is not to clear Raman's MUs and let him come to terms with his trust issues..But what I expect of ishita's character is not this..just my POV..

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

Thanks for that sensible reply... And we can happily agree to disagree...

Where did Raman go wrong? He was afraid of losing this woman and he drank oodles and oodles of alcohol with the same fear in his mind... He lost his control on seeing this woman whom he desires but who is supposedly loving someone else... He behaved in the worst way possible than he felt ashamed of himself on getting his senses back... He's in love... Can't blame this guy...

Precap was the most promising part of the epi... Ishita is finally going to put and end to this track... We must be happy...

Raman's behaviour cannot be justified...loosing temper/control means u get the pass to assult women 😲
Isitha got the hint???I m still confused 😕

Originally posted by: Shanig123

Kri very sensible post I am not surprised i have always noticed your comments and feedback to be very accurate to the point . You took time to exoress sentiments and moreover defend a character . i cant imagine how much more protective and caring person you are to those who are near and dear to you god bless you

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

Thanks for that reply Vibhu... Adi's papa is doubting her fidelity... This jagga jasoos is also a woman... and a woman can't think on those lines...especially, when she's not at fault...

Wouldn't that sound vulgar if i doubt my own character...

This track is going to hit the bull's eye soon...

i agree she cant doubt on her own character...but she could figure out that something really personal is making him insane...
but i guess u're totally justified by ishita's actions..which am not... raman is at most of the fault but not entirely... i am having slightly diffrnt opinion than ur's cuz i expect intelligency from ishita more..than raman 😆
Am too hoping a great end of this track! 😳

Originally posted by: yhmdivan

Kri beautiful beautiful post...hugs

Yaa its now time for raman to move on and usko apni insecurity se bhar nikalna chahiye...

Apke sath Jo pehele hua wo har baar ho wo jaruri nahi he..

And yes ishu from her side is right koi bhi aurat itna pyaar jatake usko badlae me ESA reaction mile that's was wrong

Yaa one thing is too both never clarify to each other what's is they are feeling for each other after the 10months of marriage

They are still on sirf unki khushi k liye ... Apni khushi l liye ...

But about Mani i not hate that person but as CV dikha rahe he uske character ko jab se aya he business me kam ishu ki smaaj seva me pada he..

If u have to maintain unique way cv has chance to saw Mani character with lovely track but by that they ruin ishita character.

One thing whose male friend after ages came from turkey and even her husband not aware and comfort with him how parivarik bahu hug and all time Mani jaap infornt of everyone

Ya I must say raman and ishita right at their respective palce but CV are fool who making Mani character in falatu way...

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

I know what i am going to face for making this topic here but for the first time, this episode and forum's reaction is making me do this...Feel free to disagree with me but please refrain from bashing... That's a request.

People amuse me at times... All of us went against Raman during Parmeet fiasco because Raman didn't take a stand against his family for Ishita, Today, Raman is doing that mistake by assuming stuff on his own but here, Ishita is taking a stand... But, we are blaming this brave woman... Why are we practicing double standards?

What was Ishita's fault? She lied to him... That was a mistake which can be rectified... Raman didn't confront her...isn't that his mistake? If women can't respect woman, why to blame the makers? For the first time, they are showing something new... Ishita took the right step...She stressed on the fact that she won't give any character certificate to him... Where did she go wrong?

Ishita becomes a pativrata when she goes out of her comfort zone by wearing western dresses to please Raman but she's not supposed to hug Mani because she's a Tamilian. Tamilian don't wear such bold costumes too... I said that Ishita came out of her comfort zone because the same girl was uncomfortable with a sleeveless chudidhar in Sharvu's thread ceremony.

Ishita let Mani hold her hands... She was talking with him in that party held in her husband's honour... Was that Ishita's fault? Had Raman given her the attention which she requires, why will some random friend of hers sit with her to give her company...

But for Raman's past, will this seed of doubt torment Raman now? Ishita is bearing the brunt...for Raman's past... She's crying...for loving him. Is that right?

Both of them have their own flaws which is making them special... After this journey of 10 months, they are still there... Ishita Iyer and Raman Kumar Bhalla... untouched... Shedding their layers one by one... I'm in awe... The way they dealt with this uncalled disaster...

These people deserve accolades...but here we are, bashing them... I'm disappointed...

Again, i have expressed my opinion and i apologise to those who find my language offending... Please express your opinion and control your urge of bashing me or others...

I very rarely post on any posts but today i was compelled to do so. I only want to say that FINALLY a sensible post. Why does a woman have to prove her fidelity when she knows that the question has never been on her mind. She is clear on the roles of Mani and Raman in her life. So the doubts facing Raman are his own lack of trust(Agree due to Shagun)and he needs to separate the 2 women and think along the lines of a man who has seen how Ishita works and what makes her tick. Ishita does not need to justify her friendship to Mani because she proved time again how strong and morally sound her thinking is. It is time for Raman to come out in a normal way and talk to her. Getting drunk and taunting will only alienate him from Ishita. I am loving this track because it will be Raman's awakening to the fact that not all women are the same and of course his total love for Ishita and to the fact that he CAN TRUST AGAIN.

A good and a thoughtful post Kri. Very well written.my thoughts... Ishita showed herself a woman today. A woman is a layer of many...she is is a daugher,sister, wife, mother...and what else...but many fail to recognize as a woman...a woman of pride,self esteem ,self respect and a remarkable stand of one's own. We give this authority to male...we give them self respect, we give them their own space...everything,but fail to give ourselves.

I'm so glad that someone else liked the episode. I came on the forum earlier and thought that I was the only one.

What Raman did was wrong. But if you look at it from Raman's point of view, it's like deja vu from him. We, as viewers, see both sides. Hence, some of us are with Raman and some with Ishita. But Raman only sees what's in front of him: his wife hugging Mani, his wife telling Mani that she loves him and that she'll leave her family for him, his wife almost always in Mani's company. Now, bring his past in the equation and his new-found feelings for Ishita, this is one insecure man!!! No wonder he isn't in his senses!

Ishita - she's crazy, innocent and so naive. But despite all this, I really like her. She's so pure that she doesn't realise that her husband is not seeing her relationship with Mani as mere friendship. She understands her limits, but cannot view the world from Raman's perspective. CVs had already prepared us for this...When her relationship with Subbu broke, she didn't break. For her, life went on. She's a woman who picks up the pieces and moves on. Whereas our Raman Kumar stopped living after his ordeal wih Shagun. It was Ishita who helped Raman heal.

Where is YHM heading on from here, I don't know. But I'd still like to maintain my faith in CVs. They have given us 2 very strong characters. I'm sure they'll do justice to them :)

I love Ishra, Ruhi & this show:)

Love this post. Much needed one. Now I understand why ppl say woman is enemy of woman after reading some posts in the forum. Why are we blaming Ishita for everything. Awesome post.

Originally posted by: Bul3

yar..its not about doubting your character..its about understanding that what is your husband's problem..If your husband rants to your best friend that he broke your house will you not be shocked..how can such direct dialogue not affect you..especially when you know your husband is struggling with some problem..yes he kept fast for her but he also shut her up saying he did not...I was fine with Ishita till she was clueless until the day Raman clearly blurted all that and was in such a bad state..Agreed that Ishita is very uptight about her self-respect and its fine if she think that the way to deal with it is not to clear Raman's MUs and let him come to terms with his trust issues..But what I expect of ishita's character is not this..just my POV..