cv's...take a bow... - Page 17

Originally posted by: gravity23

It's not about "pleasing"anyone, I guess..would you consider Ishita's attempt to try and understand Raman's current position, an act of "pleasing"??? Are spouses supposed to "please"each other???

No offense...but in relationships, marriage, there's no pleasing...there's understanding, there's working towards a conjugal happiness...not separate...if raman is disturbed by something which Ishita is doing, she has every responsibility to address it...being clear in conscience does not relieve her of that duty...she has a huge heart and ultra-caring methods, but no time or understanding to spare for her husband? especially when he is at his lowest? does feminism ask us to strip ourselves of the natural instinctive and nurturing qualities women posses? do we have to become the "equal" of men in every aspect just because we are fighting for our rights? why cant we be equal AND be different? has raman ever curbed her freedom? her decision to do whatever regarding her career, family matters etc? is he colonial in his mindset and asked ishita to stop being herself ever?

she is so godawful irritating when she goes about her JJ social service work...making everybody's life a mess...but he has accepted it, hasnt he? so does it mean just because he has let her be her own person and always supported, now he doesnt have the right to question her obviously suspicious activites for the last 2-3 weeks or so?? he can go to hell because her conscience is clear?

we women can be so goddamn moody, eccentric, crazy and inexplicable sometimes, but then our partners bear with our tantrums, love us unconditionally, support us, pamper us... So why do we get all mighty and righteous when the tables are turned? Does the man not have the same right to expect a little understanding, instrospection, attention and common sensical behaviour which ishita clearly lacks, right now atleast...?

If CVs are trying to impress this crap upon audience, its a big mistake they are doing..its not just a show we invest out emotions in, its also a place we take back a lot from..subconsciously..if tomorrow marriages break because boundaries between frndship and love get blurred, and spouses are kept to the sidelines, acting like roommates rather than partners, then such stupid soaps will be much to blame!

Ishita has every right to keep her mouth shut and go about her way, with her chip up and head held high coz she has done no wrong. And Raman is also as much entitled to entertain Shagun back in his life, if the need arises...why not? If its all Ruhi ke liye, then be so...but on one condition...Ishita will hav to walk about her way as nonchalantly as she is doing right now...agar raman ne koi hak khoya hai, toh ishita ne bhi khoya hai...]

If my partner, the love of my life cant understand me at my lowest worst, then he/she doesnt deserve to be with me when am at my best..coz its so easy to love someone who is good and happy all the time..but do you have the courage to love someone who is a real person who can also be difficult sometimes?

Originally posted by: Liashna

Lovely post Kri 👏

I genuinely see no reason why Ishita should be blamed and ask for forgiveness. Married women do have best guy friends. And here theirs is already an unconventional marriage. Ishita is so clueless because she has no reason to understand Raman is doubting her. Unless Raman says it on her face that I caught your lies (white lies) and saw you say Ilu to Mani, I don't think Ishita has some telepathic power to understand his issues.

Ishita was shown an independent bold lady from the beginning... she told her In laws about Param.. But then Raman couldn't side her. But here Raman doesn't even confront her. He need to say it in clear words for her to get it.

On the first doubt when he throws the bracelet, she cries, she tells him, am not a liar. And she gives him a silent treatment but he comes asking for forgiveness, to the extent of faking his accident. Now when a person will ask to be forgiven, it's understood that he realised his mistake and doesn't doubt her anymore right?


"Ishita becomes a pativrata when she goes out of her comfort zone by wearing western dresses to please Raman but she's not supposed to hug Mani because she's a Tamilian."

^^ I love this one Kri 👍🏼

It's not about Mani here, it's about Raman's insecurity. Had it been any other handsome guy he would react similarly. He was 'jealous' even of Bala. He goes out to buy a necklace just to put him in the top of her -to be admire/loved- list. He wants to prove that he can be the number one. So it's really not Ishita here.

"Both of them have their own flaws which is making them special... After this journey of 10 months, they are still there... Ishita Iyer and Raman Kumar Bhalla... untouched... Shedding their layers one by one... I'm in awe... The way they dealt with this uncalled disaster..."

True yaar, today's epi was about them both. Just love the writers for this beautiful and intense epi 😳.

Thanks for this post,a much needed one 😳