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Originally posted by: krikumar.91

Fabulous yaar...

@bold...you know what... I posted the same just now... To reply to one of these comments...

Originally posted by: btalwar

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Ok, so my wifi router is down so will not be available in LU today ... as the internet connection and TV are in different rooms ...

So ... Kri ... I logged in to the forum and read about all the negativity ... 2 hi post khole ... usme Ishu mahaan thi ... needless to say ... immediately closed them to avoid any preconceived notions ... then since I was missing my LU gang of 11, decided to stalk LU and read a word on the last page ... from one of my 11 pm members (dunno whom) ... it was INTENSE ...

That was it. I decided to play Pettigrew and finally I watched the episode on dailymotion.

My thoughts about this episode are definitely affected by the fact that am a married woman and no stranger to every aspect of a marital relationship. However, having said that, I do not think it makes a difference. As per me, what happened today is wrong. He tried to force himself on Ishita ... and it is NOT husband's right as he stated ... there is a reason it is called Making Love and not SEX when a husband and wife do it. They do it with CONSENT ... rather this logic applies to any of the partners not only a husband and wife.

Even a blind person will infer that it was definitely missing today. What prompted him to take his step, that he was drunk, that he was apologetic in the morning does not make a difference, at least in my books, first as a woman, and secondly as a wife. He crossed the line. It does not make a difference whether he was successful in physically forcing himself on her ... his intent to show his upper hand via his physical strength was totally uncalled for.

In fact, if am not wrong, this is a hugely debatable topic that why is marital rape not considered a crime in India ... as per the law in other countries, any women who is forced to have sex by her partner by her consent will be considered an attempt to rape/rape ... it does not matter whether the partner is her husband ...

So, what Raman did was WRONG ... and what Ishita did by standing up to him was absolutely right ... and if any girl says that she tried to be mahaan, she did wrong ... then seriously, at the cost of sounding rude, I wanna ask them ... R u for real? Would you allow your drunk partner to force himself on you, just because he wants to prove that he has all rights on you? Do you consider yourself an object or commodity? Rights are on the soul and heart and making love is a part of it ... not the destination ...

And the precap ... I liked it ... why should she leave her childhood friend if her husband has misunderstood her ... they have not even talked about it once ... the bracelet problem in her thoughts was solved ... she does not see a problem with Mani ... he has not told her he has a problem with Mani ...

instead, he tried to force himself on her last night ... he mocked her in public recently (have not seen the episode of party.. but made out from the scene today), is out rightly rude to her in public ... and now he is demeaning her best friend ...

(barring the stupidness shown in the serial to forcefully create the MU ... like changing his name to Manisha ... that makes me really break my laptop screen, or today she called Mani instead of any other family member to update on Romi's accident ... this is utterly STUPID and uncalled for and immature ... Since, Deewali celebrations kept me away from YHM so if there are more, am not aware about them).

If I turn the tables and someone mocks Mihir, his so called confidante, brother, best friend in front of him ... Raman will skin him alive ... just because Mihir is of the same gender does not give him the right to play with the emotion of friendship ... he needs to know that ...

Lastly, can I say am excited for tomorrow ... I so want to see how will Ishita respond? I like this no nonsense taking women who knows the ground she is standing on and is not a spineless creature ... this was the Ishita I was missing for so long ... the woman who showed the CEO of the year his place on the second day of his marriage that he better be a good parent in front of their daughter otherwise he has no place in the house ... she is the woman with brains ...

BUT again having said that I still have problems with this stupid forceful MU ... and as a woman, you do not change the names, you do not call your best friend if ur brother in law is hospitalized, u call family ... Bhallas, Simmi, Bala, Iyers ... the list is endless ... not Mani ...

Like I said in my post last week, CHEE to the thoughts behind the track ... this has ruined both Ishita and Raman equally ... Ishita is not a FOOL which she has been depicted as in the show ... Raman is always upfront and direct and infamous for his acidic tongue ... but this time, he has been shown to sulk, and God save me cry ... this is not how these two behave ... But again maybe a justification has been shown in the previous episodes ... I have a problem with the MU track ... I did not want a confession on the basis of MU especially the age old clich Jealousy track and secondly, the same old raag of a man and woman cannot be friends ...

P.S. (Sorry about absolutely being out of context. Am back to forum after a week so have a lot to rant): How many of you want to shoot Ishita ki hair stylist ... first a dori on the rain dance vaali dress ... 😡... and now gajra with a modern saree ... that too double the size of her own face ... 😡

Really someone pleej to tell Ekta to change the designer ...

Originally posted by: btalwar

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P.S. (Sorry about absolutely being out of context. Am back to forum after a week so have a lot to rant): How many of you want to shoot Ishita ki hair stylist ... first a dori on the rain dance vaali dress ... 😡😡😡😡😡... and now gajra with a modern saree ... that too double the size of her own face ... 😡😡😡😡

Really someone pleej to tell Ekta to change the designer ...

What an aful look for Ishu for the party 🤢 Sh wanted to make Raman happy, she was asking about the them and wanted to color oordinate with him and all that.. Why not give her a look that Raman would like but NO made her awful with those flowers..

Originally posted by: madhubala123

kri u became so serious 😲

Like I commented on other thread.

Raman and Ishita r both right in their own space. But as a couple they both r wrong. This is why the intimacy of a husband and wife is necessary in a married life. Till date they thought friendship and companianship was enough. Now it is not enough for them. It is a beautiful phase. Have patience and enjoy.

Ishita went wrong becuase if she had been close enough with Raman he would nvr doubt her. But he knows he lacks there. it makes him insecured.

Raman is still under the clutches of his past experience. It is realistic the way they show his torment.

No one is at fault neither Raman nor Ishita. But what is failing is a married couple.

This is a matured audience story. So if ppl have tht maturity, they cn watch peacefully. 😊

Originally posted by: shalz_123

o how i thought i will not visit this forum for couple of days... i cant take this much negativity... but ur post kri...made me backtrack n come... n comment too..

i totally agree with u...

i m really not being able to understand just becoz she is a girl she cant be frnds with man...? n the problem is not mani (thou he is being too chipku at times)...it is the insecurity of raman which is playing with his mind...if anyone other than mani wud have come... he might have reacted the same way...

Raman had a past...yes... so did ishita... i mean i m seriusly not getting it y ppl are behaving as if she is having a affair in reality... whereas she is just being ishita...

This man raman trusted ishita when param fiasco happnd y coz he was behaving rationally then.. now he is in love.. mind u i m not saying tht the moment ppl are in love they behave like this... but irrationality seeps in when u r not sure abt ur stand in her life.. the confusion is very clear...how he at times throws away the bracelet.. again finds it.. again carress it..again throw it in a fit of rage..

We wanted a jealousy track, we got it.. it was natural n neccessary for thr finally coming out of thr comfort zone n tell each other... if raman wudnt have been threatened by mani ishita frndship...do u think raman wud have accepted to himself also that he does love his wife... no he wudnt have... ishita n raman both in thr comfort zone wud have happily done silly n sweet nokjhoks..n the moment it wud have come to confortations they wud have shyed away...

they need this jolt...

now coming to ishita n everyone stating she is characterless... its so sad.. tht still ppl in this century cant take man n woman as frnds.. i have guy frnds.. loads of them.. n few liked me romantically also during my school or college days.. my husband knows that...n yet he is absolutely ok if i talk to them.. y? coz we have that understanding...we know that we love each other... n talking to some frnd (yes at times late at nite also) doesnt mean i m having some emotional affair with them.,.. n I have the same kind of trust in my husband... n this trust didnt get built in one day...i surely wudnt have been this open during our initial days... so i think both of them in some way or the other is justified...

n yes even thou i m sad seeing them sad...but still i havent lost hope.. n seriusly we were of the same opinion regarding accident track also... tht y is raman being so stupid.. he also was lying abt shagun... n her being his ex wife made the situation more grave.. but it ended superbly...just tht we forgot abt that...

PS: that was long...n i dont know also how much coherent my thoughts were

Originally posted by: cocololo123

OMGG thank you so much for this thread! 👏Honestly I agree with you and I have said this on some other thread too that Ishita has every right to be mad at Raman for doubting her character. No self respecting women will take that crap from anyone including her husband. Its ridiculous how people are justifying Raman's actions today but are bashing Ishita for being stupid. I disagree she got the message today that Raman was doubting her character hence the point of the precap. Now coming to Raman, im so disappointed at the way he was misbehaving with her. NO WOMEN DESERVES THIS WHETHER IT IS SHAGUN OR ISHITA RAMAN OR ASHOK OR ANY MAN HAS NO RIGHT TO MISBEHAVE WITH WOMEN. Like you said the mistakes Ishita has made are fixable and Im glad they have not shown a mahaan woman in Ishita and forgive Raman so easily. I am glad she is standing up for herself.

One thing about this track is that neither are right nor are they wrong.