does it actually happen in real life?mani-ishu

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Posted: 10 years ago
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ok i mean yes some friends are really best friends and all sorts of masti,fun,tlaking is between two friends irrespective of being a boy-girl friendship
but then don't you guys feel that after marriage some kind of distance shoould be maintained
i mean calling each other sweetheart and all
yes sometimes ishita liked raman's jealousy feeling he might confess(we hope that too😭)
but if you keep that thing aside does such friendship even after marriage of even one person of that friendship is maintained?
does it actually happen?
there is nothing wrong in it
its just that it hurts to see raman in so much of pain he already suffered a lot with his first wife's affair
but then this friendship which is just friendship should be presented in front of him in a different way

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Calling sweetheart, hugging, flirting etc is ok According to me. But calling 24 hours a day n spending time with ur best friend for coffee lunch n dinner when u ignore ur husband (ignoring being the important part) is something that might cost one one's marriage.

One cant ignore or give less time to ur husband or children coz one prefers to give more time to a best friend. Its all about prioritiesin our life n it holds true for Man n woman alike.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post,,, sharing my friend experiences,, her husband got dicthed by girl for an American NRI 😉. He was broken and took some time to agree for arranged marriage with my friend.He told her everything before the marriage so she was well aware of his past and touched by his sincerity,, After marriage, she was veri cautious / regards her husbends insecurity because of his past, she gaves full imp to her hsuband first later friends,,, She told me once, i love my friends but they are not higher than my husbands peace/security, so they are having wonderful life 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well, there are many people and even woman for whom nothing changes even after marriage. Be it friends or anything else. They like to do whatever they used to do before. Ishita is kinda like that. She needs a good lesson TBH, that after marriage many things have to be in limits. It's an irony that even few harmless things also come in this limit.. Ishita's priority is still the same Raman, Ruhi and family. Most of the times she talks with Mani is regarding her family or Raman. Her priority is still intact like before, but things are shown to Raman like something else cos of his insecurity and past. Also, Raman's past is still not known to Ishita and her family fully, sadder is her past is completely a mystery..how she was, how crazy she was in love etc. We don't know, if she was always like this, daring and not thinking before doing any charity😆 or friendship etc. It would be great if few episodes are focused on her past😊.

Having said all these, I have almost same experience of two of my friends likes Mani-Ishita, though in the show, it's quite exaggerated.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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guys please don't misunderstand this post its not only about how a wife should keep distance with her friend
but this rule should be same for men to keep friendship with girls and keep distance with them especially when they are married
never hurt a man's ego and a woman's emotions
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nuckts

guys please don't misunderstand this post its not only about how a wife should keep distance with her friend

but this rule should be same for men to keep friendship with girls and keep distance with them especially when they are married
never hurt a man's ego and a woman's emotions

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nuckts

guys please don't misunderstand this post its not only about how a wife should keep distance with her friend

but this rule should be same for men to keep friendship with girls and keep distance with them especially when they are married
never hurt a man's ego and a woman's emotions


😊. Yeah both should have limits.
Edited by DivAniTanni - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Either married or not males or friends they have right to live their own life as per their wish but should not cross boundaries. Not only husband and wife but none of parents will like that their kids are flirting abd chipkoying others. If I will talk about any guy for whole theu won't like it. Being friends in opposites gender there is nothing wrong but for one relationship u ignore others relationship is wrong. Friends are also important in life but that doenst mean u spend whole day with them when u have family have who are waiting for u?
Lying because of ur friends abd compare ur friends with ur hubby and always praise ur friends infront of ur hubby that wrong. I don't like when my parents praise others kids.

In show lately ishita is not onky ignoring raman but ruhi too because of whom she got married to raman. She can't see belong mani and he whole life depend on him only. And this type of presentation give wrong idea to new viewers thay she is interested in mani and cheating on her husband.

In yhm they are making mockery of girls and boys friendship and I don't feel anything but plain disgusting looking at them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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to an extent we vcan be friends bt again this is daily soap and cvs are jst exagerating...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Men or women both can have friends from the opposite gender even if after marriage. If we say no, that would be regressive and suffocating. But after marriage YES you should know where to draw a line. Not because you're worried how it is perceived but because you have priorities that need your first concern.

Ishita's issue is not that she is wrong in trusting her friend or asking him for help or telling him her feelings. Her biggest mistake was to lie. She's one person who never lies, she has practiced and preached just that. So this time around her lying even for a good intention is absolutely wrong.

Lying that you're at work when you're not. Changing the name of your male friend to a females is something that can cause conflict in the strongest of marriages. Raman and Ishita are still newly married and still waiting to take their relation ahead in the literal way.

Raman IMO never had an issue with her friendship with Mani ever, until she began lying.. something that he never expected from his JKR.

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