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yhm_craze

@yhm_craze

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#11

the most important thing is honesty...and why just between husband and wife..in any relation. I am not married and my parents have never questioned me that I have male friends. When they call I tell them where I am and with whom I am. What's the harm in that? Now if I start hiding things and lying then even the most innocent of friendships will look devious. There is nothing wrong in Ishita having a friend or a best friend in Mani. But why lie and hide things? Even if she did not want Raman to know what they were up to she still need not have lied about her phone call with him or about meeting him. She was doing that anyways...so why start lying suddenly. Anybody in Raman's place would start wondering. And the lies kept hitting him one after the other..Before he had time to recover from one lie another one cropped up. I never understood why she lied to Mihika too. Mihika would not know anything if Ishita just told the truth that she was out with Mani. Still she lied. If she had not lied or hidden things then she would not be wrong in being hurt at Raman's distrust. But now in this instance I am unable to feel sorry for her.

In fact even Raman's family is quite liberal. They have never stopped her from going anywhere or with anybody. She was talking to Mani in front of Toshi and Toshi did not mind at all. I just remembered an instance where she lied to Toshi that she is going for an emergency late at night and went to meet Param. I dont think these kind of things are wise to do even with best of intentions.

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Nirmala

@nimmu96

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Exactly my views. I told the same thing in another thread also. Ishitha should maintain a distance with Mani. Calling him at the drop of the hat, almost for any problem she calls Mani as if there is nobody else to help her.

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payal5101

@payal5101

Explorer

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...
Either married or not males or friends they have right to live their own life as per their wish but should not cross boundaries. Not only husband and wife but none of parents will like that their kids are flirting abd chipkoying others. If I will talk about any guy for whole theu won't like it. Being friends in opposites gender there is nothing wrong but for one relationship u ignore others relationship is wrong. Friends are also important in life but that doenst mean u spend whole day with them when u have family have who are waiting for u?
Lying because of ur friends abd compare ur friends with ur hubby and always praise ur friends infront of ur hubby that wrong. I don't like when my parents praise others kids.

In show lately ishita is not onky ignoring raman but ruhi too because of whom she got married to raman. She can't see belong mani and he whole life depend on him only. And this type of presentation give wrong idea to new viewers thay she is interested in mani and cheating on her husband.

In yhm they are making mockery of girls and boys friendship and I don't feel anything but plain disgusting looking at them.

Yes same i am also hurt seeing this.pls cv donot show these things.after marriage no husband or wife will see their lifepartner spending more time with their friends and hugging and saying i love u will leave mu husband and family pls cv correct this thing in this ishita is wrong.pls cv stop showing solve this because ishita know raman's past how she can do this.i am feeling very hurt cannot see yhm from one week not seeing yhm sorry sonali mam cannot be so modern cannot hug friend if i am married.for me first is my family friendship second.

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sanaasr

@sanaasr

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

No. Not all all...Not any culture...not even in American or European culture... I can vouch for that...A women does not go on coffee, dinner and lunch with her male best friend all the time! A woman (married or single) does not depend on her male best friend to solve all her problems...A woman does not flirt, hug and talk sweet nonsense with her male best friend unless they both want to take their relationship to their next level...That sort of behavior is not platonic...in any culture. Even single women dont do this much PDA with their male best friend...And in this show they are showing a married womens PDA with her male friend..give me a break!

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AnkitaKaran

@AnkitaKaran

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

No i hav never seen any girl( educated or uneducated/Small town or metro City) like Ishita who is totally dependent on her best friend..

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liz1485

@liz1485

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

I guess it largely depends on whom u r married to...If ur spouse trusts you implicitly then such a friendship is possible...

When there is a background of suspicion or a previous affair etc then its always better to be careful. Coz "once bitten , twice shy" So if u value the marriage then u need to bring in some boundaries..Or at least reassure ur spouse at regular intervals...

Although in this case Raman's behavior is a little over the top😡 - Ishu has proven her loyalty a million times and she has also shown she is as different from Shagun as possible...Just coz Shagun (whom raman does not trust normally) starts her nonsense ...

P.S: maybe ishu could show a little of the pre-Mani independence and backbone instead of calling her best friends for every damn thing (even gas??? really??😕) and tone down the PDA

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Ive been married for years.MOST of our friends are single guys

Many times when they visit one or in groups my husband is not home

Many times he returns from work after they arrive he eats and will excuse himself and go to bed

I end up hanging with them until midnite or later even

I go to lunches and dinners sometimes when he cant

Hes home with the kids

He has never once suspected me of anything

To MY credit I dont hug them dont text them all day or be on the phone all day change their names on my contact list or ask them to smell my perfume

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Kiara

@AraBearxo

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

As I've been saying this for a while.

I have friends too. Childhood friends who grew up with. Or even normal guy friends. We give each other pecks in pictures. Fool around, hit each other, pull each other, hug and what not. My IG is filled with pictures of all of us, but no I don't lie to my man or anyone else for the matter and meet them behind his back.

As someone said, Raman never had an issue with her and Mani and it was adorable of how he envied Mani for being close to Ishita until the shit hit the roof and we all know what happened.

I grew up in a gender equivalent society where both the genders were given equality. To me a friend isn't categorised by girl or guy. I'm that chicks who runs around any of my friend to give them a hug. I meet you after a while and I jump into your arms. It isn't about what people think, it's about what those who matter think. If it was Mihika or Vandita or Bala who were in Raman's place of discovery they would've felt the same because for once it isn't just Raman and his insecurity or trust issues bit Ishita and her Web of Mani the superhero + lies at fault.

Their friendship isn't just overly done but is literally a curse to all friendship and showing this at 7:30 will cement "ethical" parents doubts of inter serial friendship being a bane. Way to go for a show that was supposed to bright light and justice to social inequalities. Kudos.

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momb24

@momb24

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Who calls a married female friend constantly day and night. mani and ishitas friendship is shown beyond normal friends behaviour. such a stupid reason for it as well,mani in my opinion shouldn't even be involved in balla family issues,i want my old ishita back 😭

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: momb24
Who calls a married female friend constantly day and night. mani and ishitas friendship is shown beyond normal friends behaviour. such a stupid reason for it as well,mani in my opinion shouldn't even be involved in balla family issues,i want my old ishita back 😭

Momb,

A woman has to EARN the trust, by willfully committing reckless acts, if Ishita wishes to be treated like a 22ND century woman, ya 22ND century wife... its not going to happen...

Even a blind person would understand Raman doesnt care for Mani... he sulks, he is grumpy, he is petulant and crabby around Mani. She SAW IT, SHE NOTICED IT. Yet she chooses to ignore it...

The reason for which ONLY she understands...

For those that accuse Raman of not being "modern" enough... HE IS... his wife is acting fishy with deliberate disregard... to top it off she expects him to pay PUBLIC TRIBUTES GLOWINGLY for the sheer stupidity she has been displaying for the past three weeks

I ve never used our single friends for electrical/plumbing/carpentry as the first line of support at home... I have single guys stay over many nights when its snowing and my husband is on business trips... and we have car trouble... some friend or the other has helped me drop a kid off at school in the morning... even when I say I will be fine my husband "assigns the duty to some friend"😆

TRUST is PRICELESS.

Of course I am not Ishita Bhalla

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago

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