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Posted: 11 years ago
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It is not about gender, whether it is a husband or wife it is important to draw a line with not only friendship's but all relationships. A marriage requires a boundary, no one should be allowed to cross that boundary into the space that belongs to only a husband and wife. If in real life a husband or wife behaves like Ishita it will most definitely shake the marriage unless the partner really don't care ( in which case there is something wrong with the partner and his/her commitment to marriage). Ishita's mistakes were ignoring her spouse and giving more importance to another person, no husband or wife can accept it. Hiding things from her spouse and lying to his face about who she is talking to, hiding mani's name, all that is wrong in capital letters. It has all been about Mani in the past few weeks, all of it are signs of an unhealthy friendship (in real life).
I really really hope they show ishita realizing her mistake, she has a part in hurting Raman and she has to realize it and apologize to him. I would hate to see her walk off from him blaming Raman for not trusting her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BIaddict

It is not about gender, whether it is a husband or wife it is important to draw a line with not only friendship's but all relationships. A marriage requires a boundary, no one should be allowed to cross that boundary into the space that belongs to only a husband and wife. If in real life a husband or wife behaves like Ishita it will most definitely shake the marriage unless the partner really don't care ( in which case there is something wrong with the partner and his/her commitment to marriage). Ishita's mistakes were ignoring her spouse and giving more importance to another person, no husband or wife can accept it. Hiding things from her spouse and lying to his face about who she is talking to, hiding mani's name, all that is wrong in capital letters. It has all been about Mani in the past few weeks, all of it are signs of an unhealthy friendship (in real life).

I really really hope they show ishita realizing her mistake, she has a part in hurting Raman and she has to realize it and apologize to him. I would hate to see her walk off from him blaming Raman for not trusting her.


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She MIGHT have under routine circumstances, but I suspect Mani is going to capitalize on this opportunity to the fullest and stoke the fire on both sides. "Tum Ishu ke laayak nahi ho" BS to Raman and "Raman ko sach mein chhod kyon nahi deti" to ISHU😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Been married for 24 years and although I have male friends whom I hug when I see them after a long time... Sometime a peck on the cheek... The ones in YHM are exaggerated for effect! I talk to them on the phone and chat on fb but not all day! And my emergency call if my husbands not available would be to family and then friends (male or female).

When u are married and in a stable (Ishra r not stable) relationship you are automatically drawn to get affection & attention within the marriage... The distance between spouse naturally evolves to be closer than any friendship - your marriage is your inner circle - and all friendships no matter how dear are outside of that. If I flirt with friends it must be within limits as I respect my husband just as I would want him to respect me. Marriage is a balance but YHM is a drama with no balance - as yet!

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