At the end of the day Raman is ALL ALONE - Page 12

Originally posted by: Littlemermaid07

Very true n much needed post...in know raman is a bit harsh n insensitive towards people but he also cares for them a lot.

Now ishita is talking about trust n all..let's c in sarika n romi case how much she is going to trust raman. She will never try to understand y raman offered sarika money but will believe sarika n fight with raman. Thts the case with ishita ..she will make her own assumptions n go against him.

She was about to say tht she loves raman..where is the love now? There relationship won't go ahead until ishita also reciprocates her feelings. Just doing fast for the sake of mother in law ( navaratri fast), doing mani jap just bcos he praises her, n not trusting raman is not going to help her.

Raman forgave her in many cases very easily..like sanjana fiasco..he forgot everything n moved on...but this is not the case with ishita ..she can doubt raman..but raman can't do tht..she will b angry with him forever in tht case..thts stupid .

I just hope tht their relation which is at loggerhead right now will move ahead soon.

Did you watch the episode? Did you get your answer about whether Ishita will trust Raman?

No DivAniTanni I did not watch the episode yet..have to wait for the video update..but read sum posts on india forums regarding today's episode n sum spoilers which suggests tht initially ishita won't trust him...let's wait n watch...I hope it's not the case when I actually watch the epi 😃

Originally posted by: Littlemermaid07

No DivAniTanni I did not watch the episode yet..have to wait for the video update..but read sum posts on india forums regarding today's episode n sum spoilers which suggests tht initially ishita won't trust him...let's wait n watch...I hope it's not the case when I actually watch the epi 😃

Yaar..these days articles are half true. And, this is proved again by the episode. Ishita trusted him and defended him saying that Raman had good intention for his action. I guess, that's enough for now for IshRa relation😛.

I agree with the TM

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font color="#0000ff">I agree with the TM</font>

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<font color="#0000ff">I agree that at the end of the day Raman is alone.</font>

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<font color="#0000ff">The problem never was Raman's sarcasm , one liners , rudeness hiding his golden heart, Ishita was fine with it , she grew used to it and later started liking it, she even started</font>

<font color="#0000ff">compr</font>ehending it .

<font color="#0000ff">That was Raman . He could not be charming , well mannered in a conventional sense , but did all the right things when occasions demanded like</font>

<font color="#0000ff">putting sister's husband in jail</font>

<font color="#0000ff">putting son in community service though wife was ready to take case back</font>

<font color="#0000ff">taking responsibility of whole family</font>

<font color="#0000ff">being there for wife's family in hospitalization</font>

<font color="#0000ff">dropping ex wife who ruined his life home in curfew by keeping personal emotions aside</font>

<font color="#0000ff">standing up for her when she is expected to behave like an escort service girl to please his business partners by her current live in bf</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Ishita actually understood that behind his camoflauge of rudeness and a dont care attitude , lay a good heart with strong values.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">The problem never was his rudeness , she even fondly called him Ravan Kumar.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">The problem was Mani . Her going overboard with his praise , regarding him as THE Mr Perfect and rubbing it on Raman's face all the time. To this date no one has told her that she did too much . Her sasural smiled and accepted it , her maika joined her in her bhajans. Actually sasural looks with raised eyebrows when bahu praises male friend so much ...and mother chides her daughter in private to focus on her marraige. Here it was all ulta. A Mani bhajan mandali was formed and Raman walked in night and day to find loud bhajans being sung everywhere ...in his family , in hers, in the bedroom , everywhere . Suddenly he was the bad guy , his wife was nowadays constantly irritated with him or making fun of him and nobody understood him .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Now please , this is strictly my opinion , and i would not even agree with anyone who said that cannot a wife have male friends etc , coz thats not the issue here . I am simply stating what was shown and this WAS shown .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Now there are many who will compare Shagun's presence in Raman's life with Mani's presence in Ishita's and say he deserved it and that Shagun too was rubbed in Ishita's face..</font>

<font color="#0000ff">I disagree.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Shagun was Raman's divorced wife , an inevitable ugly past . Mother of his children.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Mani was nobody , just waltzed in from the blue as a 'best friend'.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Raman never talked about her , praised her . Hell , he even hid Mihir's relation with her , so much he hated her topic. He cut Ishita angrily whenever she foolishly tried to bring up her topic , he hated it when she put Shagun in their bedroom and he , the owner of that bedroom was forced to sleep out on the sofa. Like Shagun would have ever given up her bedroom with Ashok for Raman . He drank the dose of humiliation that Ishita forced him to take under the reason of helping a woman grudgingly , for her sake .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Ishita however constantttly talked of Mani . Mani Mani Mani , Mani this and Mani that . Ishita praised Mani . Ishita liked his topic. Her fandom surprised Raman . If he had brought in a girl friend saying he looked cute going with her to school , she in her pigtails and he in his muddy uniform and that she knew everything about him , more than his wife who constantly bugged him , i am sure he would be hated more than Ashok . Shagun is accepted indulgently as all know how much Raman hates her and because there is security for ISHRA relationship in that hate .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Even Ishita's sisters never had a heart to heart with her on the Mani jaap . They never had any individual opinions , were part of a mindless bhajan mandali . The mother surprised me the most , mothers r so perceptive and guide their daughters on the right path .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">A marraige that was just taking off never took off because of Mani . Who gave this Mani importance ? Ishita.</font>

<font color="#0000ff">However this is no blame on her . I am just saying that it would be nice to see a few scenes for a change where one would show Ishita the other side of the coin too . Why each time slaps only for Romi ? Raman slaps , Ishita slaps , Mr Bhalla slaps , how boring ? Why not show Ishita getting a stern lecture , from Madhu or Vandita the sane sister as Mihika has changed bhajan mandalis nowadays and is in Shagun bhajan mandali ? By no means am i saying she should be slapped . Just a dose ?</font>

<font color="#0000ff">I agree with TM when she says why the condition or expectation of change to prove 'love'? When Ishita has not changed an ounce of her naivete or stupidity or tiresome meddling in other people's lives and Raman started liking his Jhansi ki Rani for what she is , why expect him to be like Mani ? He is Raman , not Mani . Raman loved Ishita as she was Ishita , not Shagun .</font>

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awesome post!!
Agree with u!
👏Till now ishita never planned something on her own for raman n only for raman n surprised him...
Atleast raman tried few times..

COOL SADHU

Its interesting to see how people conveniently ignore what Ishita has done to Raman in the verge of proving Raman is the best!! Of course he is the best but Ishita is not the worst!! Some comments are really like she has not done anything to him! Mending ways in marriage doesnt mean you are losing yourself and thats what makes a couple compatible. There is no wrong if a wife has expectations from her husband and husband has expectations from her wife!! Hasnt she took care of him? Has she ever told any bad about him to Ruhi? She is the one because of whom Ruhi and Raman came close and became the best daughter-father duo. Yes initially everything started because of Ruhi. If she wasnt working on towards her marriage she would not have done anything to Raman's family or Raman himself!! What is wrong if I expect my husband to talk to me nicely and compliment me? Has Ishita ever asked anything to Raman till now? She has always defended Raman infront of Shagun and Ashok.

Why cant she confide her feelings to her best friend, be it male or female.When Raman has always said mujhe farak nahi padta. She liked when she felt yes it does matter to him and he is jealous. How did it make her insensitive? If someone is praising other person infront of you it doesnt mean that they are de meaning you. Somethings are need to be expressed. Why Ishita should always understand Raman's intentions behind his rudeness? Why cant once he come clean and tell what he feels? Its the same Ishita who ran like a mad when the hotel where Raman was staying had fire accident. That time they were just friends!! Now she has strong feelings for him, definitely fake accident would make her angry.
Ishita has never shown sulking about the past. She lives her life as it comes. She always hides her pain behind her smile. She always looks for positive amidst the bad things happening. The small little things which Ishita does for Raman makes him happy like cooking, arranging his clothes!! If you think any daadi amma can do taking care of him, his kids and his family. Then he better keep one!!
Now since Raman is happy and content in life, Ishita is not required who brought that to him!! Great logic😊

Coolsadhu1000 great post...neatly said. Totally agree with u.

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

whose words were " you think only for your self, you do only for your self, you never cared for me, you never liked anything in me " , and yeah she before said that she liked ravan kumar but she said recently that she tolerated all taunts . that makes different that her choice is now changed. she does not see what thing of her made raman to do shaq on her. just like mani, some one is needed to show her mirror too where she is going wrong just like raman 's taunts and rudeness were pointed out , her behavior with mani that made raman not to believe her .

problem is her flaws are not glorified or pointed out by ANYONE in show.

😳🤣 Ok... ehem ehem...
99.9% of this forum consists of is cribbing of isita's "mahanta"😆 oh and...
Mani Mani Mani Mani...jhap. It does more mani jhap that ishita did..😆But we won't talk about that...lets talk about
1. Toshi.
2. Puttar...who is always laying into ishita ...sahmaj seva, sadoo choice, bewakoof, fat, daraavna facem, empty tin ka dibba for a brain.

All teh "flaws" can be encapsulated into samaj seva, mahanta, and jagatmata...the bhallas forgetting that IF ISHITA DIDN'T HAVE SUCH A BIG HEART, SHE WOULD NEVER HAVE TAKEN RUHI AS HER OWN. THEN ruhi would be with shagun..and puttar ALONE!

Panthera