At the end of the day Raman is ALL ALONE - Page 11

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Posted: 10 years ago
Well said... Nicely written from the POV of both of his wives
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: anjs

the thing is both arent compatible...both are very different...and their expectations from their partners (atleast Ishita's expectations are very different)

In normal circumstances where usually people date each other and then marry, they wudnt have stand a chance to reach the marriage stage...

Ishita was trying...maybe just for Ruhi, Raman being a byproduct, but she was trying...to be a good bahu...she never purposely did anything for Raman, thinking of him as her husband...but her day to day things were enough then...she used to stay back late to accompany him for dinner, etc...which is nothing special, but still is significant

But since the arrival of Mani, she has lost all sense of what is appropriate...in terms of giving quality time to husband n family before friends (understandable initially, as Mani had met her after a long time) but now it has become too much...

now it started looking as if Ishita cannot function without Mani...which is so weird, cause all these years Mani wasnt around...and now its just Mani this, and Mani that... Mani is her saviour, her hero...in this she is forgetting that the biggest gift in her life, that is the love of a daughter, and the honor of being called a mother, was given to her by Raman...

But unfortunately, she never considered that gift, and thanked Raman for it...

Raman n Ishita both are flawed...but earlier those flaws were logical n there was a balance, but due to Mani's entry, Ishita's flaws are glaring in our face now...


Great response... absolutely splendid
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Posted: 10 years ago
Good...Team Raman is winning. 😆 I think most of the viewers also think like that. It's high time for CVs to redeem Ishita, they are making a mockery of her character.😡
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

^^ So why is she being criticized for being jealous and not trusting him / suspecting him.?
If she was enjoying his jealousy and she should have been ready for suspicion..Then there was nothing wrong in her being jealous and suspecting Raman for hiding his past.. 😆

There has to be only one way which is right. She is wrong for suspecting Raman when that was also a case of jealously but she is also wrong for not liking him suspecting her when this is also a case of jealously... 🤣

Whatever happens, she is wrong.!! 😆

WOW.!!! 😆



first of all
sanjana talks about raman she believes all NARRATION about raman without consulting or talking with him. raman has not done anything to raise her doubt , he was not even aware who is sanjana, he just hide who is mihir s sister, because it was mihir s wish to hide his sister s identity. at the end of the track she gets to know that sanjana exists no where, does she think ever or feel that she MU raman or she did wrong by doubting on him ??
raman has not told or praised or talked about sanjana .

if ishita becomes insecure from shagun, it s completely justified and she has rights to question his character because everything did happen in front of her in accident track. that is not in sanjana case. raman himself wanted her anger for that .

here raman sees from his eyes ishita's constant attention to given to mani, he hears all mani chant from his own ears she herself praises mani, rubs on his face that mani is her savior, she says that yes she is buying for mani and enjoys jalta he to jalne do.

now when he says i don't trust you for this bracelet, she could not tolerate . she should enjoy na .

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Posted: 10 years ago
All I can say you brought up some strong points. Can't ignore them completely.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


Great response... absolutely splendid


thank you 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy



first of all
sanjana talks about raman she believes all NARRATION about raman without consulting or talking with him. raman has not done anything to raise her doubt , he was not even aware who is sanjana, he just hide who is mihir s sister, because it was mihir s wish to hide his sister s identity. at the end of the track she gets to know that sanjana exists no where, does she think ever or feel that she MU raman or she did wrong by doubting on him ??
raman has not told or praised or talked about sanjana .

if ishita becomes insecure from shagun, it s completely justified and she has rights to question his character because everything did happen in front of her in accident track. that is not in sanjana case. raman himself wanted her anger for that .

here raman sees from his eyes ishita's constant attention to given to mani, he hears all mani chant from his own ears she herself praises mani, rubs on his face that mani is her savior, she says that yes she is buying for mani and enjoys jalta he to jalne do.

now when he says i don't trust you for this bracelet, she could not tolerate . she should enjoy na .


I agree with this. Based on Sanjana's narration she threw things around in the room yelled screamed begged him not to talk with her forced him to "accept Sanjana, and tell the truth about Sanajana"😕. It was all RAMAN'S fault somehow... he was "supposed" to have slept with Sanjana because his wife had HEARD that from Sanjana... who cares if he doesnt even KNOW who the girl even is.😲

Now that she flaunts Mani openly, is all gleeful Mani makes Raman jealous, cannot seem to eat sleep or go to work without Mani. Seems to have lost ALL cognitive ability in Mani's absence. When her husband PICKS UP ON ALL THOSE SIGNALS, and says "I dont want that gift"

Its somehow Raman's fault again?

Maybe by doing all this she is investing her heart and soul in separating from Raman👏
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604


I agree with this. Based on Sanjana's narration she threw things around in the room yelled screamed begged him not to talk with her forced him to "accept Sanjana, and tell the truth about Sanajana"😕. It was all RAMAN'S fault somehow... he was "supposed" to have slept with Sanjana because his wife had HEARD that from Sanjana... who cares if he doesnt even KNOW who the girl even is.😲

Now that she flaunts Mani openly, is all gleeful Mani makes Raman jealous, cannot seem to eat sleep or go to work without Mani. Seems to have lost ALL cognitive ability in Mani's absence. When her husband PICKS UP ON ALL THOSE SIGNALS, and says "I dont want that gift"

Its somehow Raman's fault again?

Maybe by doing all this she is investing her heart and soul in separating from Raman👏


I didn't understand why Ishita couldn't gauge Raman's reaction in case of bracelet gifting incident. She deliberately wanted to make him jealous using Mani to gauge his feelings for her. But when Raman reacted she's dumbfounded! It felt like Ishita wanted to make him jealous but didn't want to face the consequences of it.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AroraTanya


I didn't understand why Ishita couldn't gauge Raman's reaction in case of bracelet gifting incident. She deliberately wanted to make him jealous using Mani to gauge his feelings for her. But when Raman reacted she's dumbfounded! It felt like Ishita wanted to make him jealous but didn't want to face the consequences of it.


Bang on!!
She has seen his volatile temper directed at all and sundry, never seen it directed at herself, yes he is verbally abusive, but she never had to face the wrath of his temper like Romi has

Based on on location pictures today, looks like Mrs Ishita Bhalla is back at it again. Using Mani's assistance to solve the problems of HER MARRIED FAMILY

I know a bunch of people will say "We dont know that yet"
But why else could she be meeting Mani?
She intended to make Raman jealous, she achieved her goal, some how turned it all into his fault and almost broke her marriage off at the kidnapping scene

Now she cant be meeting him again for coffee can she?😉
Unless she wants to flaunt Mani in front of Ashok and Shagun, so they can humiliate her "MERE RAMAN" some more?
Shagun has gotten a clue, but Ashok doesnt know just yet... she must work hard in making her "best friendship" visible to Ashok & Co😳


Raman leads a very luxurious problem free life, I am sure he appreciates Ishita's injection of excitement😃

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Very true n much needed post...in know raman is a bit harsh n insensitive towards people but he also cares for them a lot.
Now ishita is talking about trust n all..let's c in sarika n romi case how much she is going to trust raman. She will never try to understand y raman offered sarika money but will believe sarika n fight with raman. Thts the case with ishita ..she will make her own assumptions n go against him.

She was about to say tht she loves raman..where is the love now? There relationship won't go ahead until ishita also reciprocates her feelings. Just doing fast for the sake of mother in law ( navaratri fast), doing mani jap just bcos he praises her, n not trusting raman is not going to help her.

Raman forgave her in many cases very easily..like sanjana fiasco..he forgot everything n moved on...but this is not the case with ishita ..she can doubt raman..but raman can't do tht..she will b angry with him forever in tht case..thts stupid .

I just hope tht their relation which is at loggerhead right now will move ahead soon.

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