Not fair at all-DT NT Pg4

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today's mani and raman convo got over the board. Yes raman shud know the reality tht he is insensitive n all..but ofcourse not frm mani. I wud have loved it if sum body else like Baal, vandu or any other family memeber has done tht. Mani is just a Gud friend of Ishu and as raman said wasn't there in her bad time. Mani shud not poke his nose in ishu's personal life and come to any conclusion without knowing anything. If he is not liking raman fine..but b4 talking to raman like this in this sensitive time..he shud have waited and asked ishita about raman and her feelings about raman. If ishita also has any complaints about raman then it's fine to talk with raman about it but not in this manner.
I still hope ishita will soon speak up n clear up the thing n tell mani the great how raman is actually.
Waiting for tht episode. Pls mani stay out of this matter.😔 I know mani loved Ishu n cares for her but after just meeting her n raman for 2,3 days he shud not conclude anything.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yeya... even I got very very angry...how dare he talked to Raman like that... he doesn't know anything about Raman... and just giving lectures... very unfair Yarr...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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what to do?Time(7.30 slot) decides who and whom.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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But Mani had to do it as he knows Ishita closely. I look forward to the next few episodes :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman started it... He was going to get water... He earned it,.. Nd fly members know raman is gud so nobody will spk to him abt dis... Its ok raman shld knw what he is doing and raman also do the samething with ishu without knwing the situtn he wil scold... Dnt wrry Later mani will apologize with raman..,
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I totally Disagree!

I think No one has got right to tell if he is right or wrong, its only Ishita who has got that right and vice versa. And especially not Mani, not just because I am jealous of him for being too close to Ishita and standing like a hurdle between IshRa, but also because he doesn't know any thing about IshRa relationship... He doesn't know that in relationships one is not called failure if one is still on the way of exploration, rather a Friend who thinks he is the guardian of the wife of someone needs that kind of reality check!

And I hated the way Mani accused Raman of being a FAILURE in relationship! It hurt, it really really hurt! His rude tone and his looking down at him, his baseless anger, just because he was spiked up by that bloody-sorry-excuse -of-a-man, Ashok!

I am even angry at Ishita, that all these days she not only complained to him about Raman and cursed him but never once praised his good deeds. And well the most surprising thing that I felt was, US as viewers felt his care, concern and love for Ishita while he was bashing everyone on his way and scolding anyone and everyone and even Ishita, but Mani found him only as a FAILURE!!! Or is he trying to prove it at any point that Raman is a selfish man, just because now he soon will find that he himself was in love with Ishita all this while?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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OfTheHeart. Tht is wot I was trying say...mani is not the right person to talk like tht with raman. I didn't like the way he talked to raman n about raman's personal life. Mani got tht impression frm ishita herself as she was accusing raman all the time in front of mani. Never bothered to tell mani how raman cared for her n her family. Any way my personal opinion is mani shud have known raman better ( and raman and ishita's relation) and not come to any conclusion just because he saw sum thing n heard sum thing frm Ashok.
Raman shud also mellow down a bit now...he is getting hyper because of the jelousey.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The reason it had to be Mani was because he offers an outsider's perspective, so what he says is objective. He has only one thing in mind, Ishita's happiness. Not to say the other's don't. But they are family, they know and have seen things that makes them biased. Raman had to be told from someone who has a fresh perspective on their relationship.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Raman went and asked for it. He started the confrontational conversation. Mani was just going to fetch water for Ishita. He and us, can't then complain that Mani spoke his mind!šŸ˜†

And how he spoke his mind...it is only when raman pushed it too far that he told him that in BUILDING a relationship in his marriage he has been a failure. Which is true! Even raman knows its true..." "she tried to fit into my family and what did I do..I just kept making fun of her"...which is putting it mildly!! His selective memory is only of this navratri and associated ritual. He is still clueless about the constant verbal diahrrea he does on Ishita. Romi pointed it out but did it register?

Raman is trying to convince himself more than Mani that he has been "there" for Ishita. Yes he has. Once. When he get her licence back. Amma accident doesn't count coz as soon as adi came into the picture, he will do anything for shagun. He did then and he will again.

We are all un-neccesarily getting hung up on mani. Just wait till shagun is dumped by the poplu and bhoplu brothers, raman/shagun track is coming...adi ke liye as usual.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Littlemermaid07

Today's mani and raman convo got over the board. Yes raman shud know the reality tht he is insensitive n all..but ofcourse not frm mani. I wud have loved it if sum body else like Baal, vandu or any other family memeber has done tht. Mani is just a Gud friend of Ishu and as raman said wasn't there in her bad time. Mani shud not poke his nose in ishu's personal life and come to any conclusion without knowing anything. If he is not liking raman fine..but b4 talking to raman like this in this sensitive time..he shud have waited and asked ishita about raman and her feelings about raman. If ishita also has any complaints about raman then it's fine to talk with raman about it but not in this manner.

I still hope ishita will soon speak up n clear up the thing n tell mani the great how raman is actually.
Waiting for tht episode. Pls mani stay out of this matter.😔 I know mani loved Ishu n cares for her but after just meeting her n raman for 2,3 days he shud not conclude anything.

Right mani saying so much was not good.few things r between husband and wife.and if ishu says that she is not happy then mani can speak but he has no right to interfere in their life.

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