Why so much Mani hate?-DT NT Pg17 - Page 8

Originally posted by: shavi2311

im nt hating amni bt he is making his misconceptns wid out knwing raman...i agree arman need a reality chck abt his wife nd her tastes bt raman is cant say any thng softly due fear of loosing his loved one's(ishita)...he taunts ishita bt if othr vl say any thng to her he is the frst person to defend her...may b he cant shw his feelings in open due fear of rejectn...

Originally posted by: HappyMelody

People hate Mani? But why? He's just being a nice guy and a really good friend. He's poles apart from Raman behaviour wise but that's no reason to dislike him? I think he will bring out the best in Raman towards Ishita

Originally posted by: PyaarDostiHai

Love your way of stating things dear! Absolutely perfect!

You're completely right in that Ishu has had her insecurity thrown in her face everyday. I never even thought about that. I guess I just love these characters and I don't like it when people dislike them 😳

Waiting to see a Raman who can be our RKB without being rude and hurtful. I think we'll like the middle ground between this RKB and Happy Bhalla as you've all said. I don't want to see Raman as another Mani, all sweetness. I want to see Raman as himself, little spicy but also sweet and caring. I'll be unhappy if he goes all the way back to being nerdy Happy Bhalla too. The character has progressed so let him stay progressed.

Thank you for the compliment dear. Your name is very pretty too. ❤️

Hey just because we're online doesn't mean we cant get to know each other right? 😃

Originally posted by: Apparently

If Mani had entered the show 3 or 4 months ago, this track would have made a whole lot of sense. But IMO, we have seen a significant development in Raman's character and the ishra equation in the last few months and this current track seems to be taking away from that development just for the sake of fitting in Mani's character at this juncture.

Yes many of Raman's taunts are extremely rude and aggressive (and they seem to have been turned up a notch recently just to fit in the current track it seems) but we have seen Ishita parkate in this taunt baazi with Raman multiple times. She has also clearly stated on many occasions that she enjoys this banter between them and also understands that the intention behind the taunt is not vile.

Why are we conveniently ignoring all the wonderful things that Raman has done for Ishita and her family. Why do the tanuts take precedence over all the nice things he has done when judging his care and concern towards her? And if Ishita is truly bothered by his taunts and anger, why does she not bring this up to him as a serious matter. On the contrary, when he tries to apologize for his outburst, she asks him to not apologize and sympathizes with him. If she has the guts to stand up for Ruhi/Shagun/parmeet/"the right thing" against Raman, why does she not have the guts to stand up for herself. IMO, its because she knows that Raman and his taunts are harmless. Raman has shown a lot of respect towards Ishita (especially as their relationship has developed over the last few months). He understands and has verbalized the sacrifices she has made for his family (the license/presidentship track) which tells me that he does value her.

To come to the point, I HATE Mani because his introduction in the story seems to be intentionally and illogically eroding away at the significant progress that Ishita and Raman have made so far.

Originally posted by: aishu_divan

Ok just my take on this..I dont have anything against Mani and was very positive about Mani till today's episode..I understand he's here for mending Ishra's relationship..But that doesn't mean that CVs make Raman look like a looser and glorify Mani..It sounds very wierd, because he is a character who is here to play cupid..Also, in the on-loc video, I see that Mani is telling Raman that gusse se sab kuch solve nahi hota..But isn't this the same Raman that Ishita likes..She fell in love with the gussawala Raman..She herself accepted the fact that he is short-tempered, but he does care for his family..And Im pretty sure she loves him the way he is..So I do not understand what Mani is trying to prove by being all goody goody..They could have dealt with the realization track in a much better way if that was the reason why they introduced Mani..Anyways I respect your opinion dear, but there are few things I feel could have been handled differently..

Originally posted by: Gkathria

I'm totally with you! besides marriage is a journey of two people, so there's nothing wrong in Raman realizing that he has to treat his wife better. Loving someone in his mind only isn't enough.
Besides Mani is just doing his duty as Ishu's best friend. I would have done the same for my best friend so why is it a problem all of a sudden. I'm really glad that their finally showing that bahu's should be treated as normal human beings too and not be expected to be completely devoid of any flaws.

Originally posted by: mnr123

@bold Yes Ishita as a woman her insecurity is right in her place, but its not that Raman has always ignored Ishita and ran after Shagun only. Unfortunately SHagun is Raman's ex and also Raman has to be in touch with his child whether Ishita likes it or not. He has been shown as yelling Shagun but never yelled at Adi coz Adi had clearly said in the court that dad hits me n Raman had restraining orders against that. So if Raman yells at Adi, Raman thinks he might not be able to even see his child.

N if I remember even Ishita empathizes with Shagun n also helped her in her worst phases like drunk incident she got her home and making Mihir accept her as his sister.

Having said all this I agree that Raman shud control his anger n rude behavior. Which Ishita is surely helping him with (i.e. we don't need Mani here). It is true that only a sacrificing n understanding kind of person like ishita can handle Raman. But still I find it annoying that a different Man is pitted against him to show him how to be sensitive towards his wife when Raman was many a times sensitive towards Ishita in the past.

@red Raman mostly knew that he was wrong despite his ego,

When during Param track he did not support her when she was being bashed by his family members, he later on proved how cheapskate Permeet is n also apologized n said Sorry to Ishita n got her back home.

during Accident track he was hiding things from ishita he knew he was doing it wrong for saving his child a punishment. But he ultimately came to very same Ishita and apologized and also asked her to be his strength.

When recently he in his angry outburst said to Ishita tumhe ghar se nikal dunga after Shagun n Ashok drama. He apologized again that I was too insensitive to u n she sympathized with him saying its ok don't be sorry n all coz I knew that u really didn't mean it.

Well I can argue with this whole night 😆In my opinion both ISHRA are right n wrong in their ways n that is the reason I love them equally.

my only grudge is CV's shudnt have got mani factor in Ishra story, they were beautiful otherwise. 😳 Yes ishita's past shud be dealt with but the most imp factor of her past is her inability to conceive n her hurt of not being a perfect woman, this cud have been shown with the medical complications n Raman trying to be more sensitive towards her after realizing what all pain she suffered, no need to get Mani into the picture 😊

Originally posted by: .ProperPatola.

Oh yeah for sure...Hell, i haven't seen so much hate towards the other negative characters we've had...I guess because they someway or the other have played cupid for Ishra at times. Whereas, Mani is clearly a positive character and the outcome of his involvement will take some time to appear i.e. Improvement in Ishra's relation and Raman's realisation. We have to wait and then react...making such strong judgements so early is what i don't like

I am so glad to see like- minded members here, otherwise the other thread had me in shock at the reactions.