Why so much Mani hate?-DT NT Pg17

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I don't understand why people hate Mani so much. We were the one who wanted a Raman jealousy track, and we're getting it. And Mani is not wrong. Yeah she is married, but look what kind of a marriage it is from his perspective. Heck what kind of a marriage it is from our perspective. Raman might 'love' Ishu, but he seems to have no way of showing it whatsover. Romi was right in his outburst today, Raman hardly ever treats her with any respect. His one liners are borderline rude now, and she has always come second fiddle to his original family, as we saw in the accident track. If we put up with Apshagun for so long, with no realization, then why not Mani? For once we are seeing Raman realize how he has been with his wife, who has done nothing but good for him. She hasn't asked for much, but I couldn't bare to see her face when he flat out refused to come to Mani's party. Mani is not being lecherous, he is just trying to make sure his friend is okay. I am LOVING this track, despite the Mani jhaap, because for once, we see Raman realizing Ishita's value, not just as his on again off again maid and child's mother, but as a woman who has a life of her own. I felt that despite the 'friendship' and the 'understanding' Ishita was treated as a mere commodity. She does a million things to show how good she is, but one small mistake and she is back to square one. Taunts and taanes ki bi hadh hoti hai, even as a joke. It had gotten to the point I kind of just started reading the updates to see when whatever is left of Ekta's sense of mild feminism would awaken. I had enough of this one sided melodrama with Shagun, I am glad to see Raman in the position Ishita has found herself in, on so many occasions in the past.
I have seen people comment about how Ishita is so lattu over Mani. That is not true, but if I had been deprived of that attention, and had my heart broken like Ishita, received that attention all of a sudden, I would run towards it too. Its human nature. She loves Raman, but what has she gotten in return? His ghussa? I would want to be around people who make me feel loved too. It is high time Raman realize that he needs to be a little softer. Mani is the perfect person to make him realize this.

So if someone who has a vehement opposition to Mani could explain to me their reasoning, I am all ears, because I seriously would like to know, maybe I can join in?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Mani is a really nice guy. As much as I like Raman I seriously feel he does not know how to be nice to Ishita. I mean he never really cared to find out anything about Ishu. I think Mani needs to give him a reality check. He better learn ishita's value in his life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Reina you are back!! nice to see you again after a long time

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Edited by pomegranate - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think the jealousy track has been treated a little differently and it's refreshing nahi tho the usual yelling cussing comedy was frankly beginning to get stale. In fact it is brilliantly done - almost realistic - in households where there is so much domination by one spouse the other spouse might get their way in some thing often is misunderstood easily and never really spent time with
I feel the forum wasi who are having a problem with mani are actually obsessed with Raman and to some extent with ishra it's like that well wishing mother in law who wants to believe her son and daughter in law are best Jodi and her son is the best boy! 😆 Abhi mujhe mat marro..

And there is that Kekta cvs ka fear that tells you in her shows a third angle is brought only so that she can worm the third person into their lives!

Hopefully cvs shall treat this track well which funnily I think they will I usually have no faith in Kekta cvs but this time for some odd reason I actually think they will do a decent job
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ishrafanno1

I think Mani is a really nice guy. As much as I like Raman I seriously feel he does not know how to be nice to Ishita. I mean he never really cared to find out anything about Ishu. I think Mani needs to give him a reality check. He better learn ishita's value in his life.


@Bold YESSS its so important, because I for one have never seen him fully understand what she means to him and his family. She's taken for granted, and I'm glad we are seeing that finally.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Brilliant post and completely agree with u..
Raman is not a bad guy but some of his harsh taunts r too much ..don't want Raman to be lovely dovely all the time but ishita deserves respect, Lil bit care .he start to blast on her anytime , anywhere which is very much insulting. Mani is ishita's childhood friend and they meet after long time .in between that ishita's life went through very rough phase .if ishita feels happy to spend some time with him within her limits then I don't think its wrong.and Mani is ishita's friend only not her ex ..and for me its much much better than shagun torture..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

Reina you are back!! nice to see you again after a long time


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I haven't seen you on the forum in so long either. Good to be talking again :D I stopped watching during the whole Sanjana nonsense track, just came back to the show recently. Waiting to here your opinion!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: v_ani_patel

Brilliant post and completely agree with u..

Raman is not a bad guy but some of his harsh taunts r too much ..don't want Raman to be lovely dovely all the time but ishita deserves respect, Lil bit care .he start to blast on her anytime , anywhere which is very much insulting. Mani is ishita's childhood friend and they meet after long time .in between that ishita's life went through very rough phase .if ishita feels happy to spend some time with him within her limits then I don't think its wrong.and Mani is ishita's friend only not her ex ..and for me its much much better than shagun torture..



I had some expectations from this ishu in hospital
But looking at the new On location videos ran tries to make ishu eat but she refuses and but then rahi comes with mani who holds ruhi hand and makes her eat
I thought we would be getting some Ishra scenes after today's episode of Raman realizing not knowing about her
But again disappointmenti have nothing with mani
Actually he is much better tolerable then apshahuniya with Raman
Shaun is like a night mare who tried to cross her limits during accident track and hugged him and he also hugged her back which was a nightmare and disgusting
But many people here actually justified his action them
but here when ishu hugs mani they hate it
Even I don't like their hug all the time but still bearable then shogun torture 🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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There are some who absolutely hate Mani and there are those who are just tired of hearing about him.
I didn't even realize he's only been here for a week because he's been used literally everywhere over the past couple of days (possibly mostly on the forums 😆). It's not about hating him or his character or what he's here to do. It's that we suddenly see this guy come in and be the one and only hero, both in the show and in the forums. The amount of Mani hate you see seems so much less to the amount of pure Raman hate seen. So some who love Raman (many of whom do actually realize he's not perfect), hate Mani.

Yes Raman is heavily flawed, and yes he REALLY needs to understand how much his words hurt. But the Raman they are showing right now isn't the Raman a lot of people fell for. The way a lot of people view it, they have greatly exemplified Raman's bad in order to show Mani's good. The CVs have also given a lot of screen time and shown a large amount of bloopers (like today's doctor interview) just to show that Mani is better than Raman.

Eh I hope that at least shows you how... uh the "other side" thinks? Sorry I try to look from both sides so I'm not enough of a staunch Raman supporter for this 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angel13



I had some expectations from this ishu in hospital
But looking at the new On location videos ran tries to make ishu eat but she refuses and but then rahi comes with mani who holds ruhi hand and makes her eat
I thought we would be getting some Ishra scenes after today's episode of Raman realizing not knowing about her
But again disappointmenti have nothing with mani
Actually he is much better tolerable then apshahuniya with Raman
Shaun is like a night mare who tried to cross her limits during accident track and hugged him and he also hugged her back which was a nightmare and disgusting
But many people here actually justified his action them
but here when ishu hugs mani they hate it
Even I don't like their hug all the time but still bearable then shogun torture 🤢



Ewww he hugged Shagun🤢
Agreed I prefer this to Shagun believe it or not 😆
Mani is a good person which is both good and bad. Good in that he probably isn't trying to separate them, and bad in that it's harder to dislike him. (Plus the actor is very cute which makes it even tougher! 😳)

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