Originally posted by: Reina1
First of all, thank you so much love for being so mature and kind. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I would never condemn one that is presented so well. See the thing is I agree Mani is annoying in all her perfectness, but I think somewhere he is needed as 'the other' that Raman can evaluate himself against. Before, Raman had nothing to compare himself with, his ego was inflated and he thought he could do no wrong. With Mani, he has realized that being a smart CEO is not sufficient to get her attention. He felt before he was not successful like Ashok and that's why Shagun left, so he became successful. But not he has realized that hey Mani too is successful, so there's that missing factor that he needs to get Ishita's attention. He always cared for her, but love is friendship on fire said someone great (I don't remember) and this is what I am seeing now. Raman's actions are normal, and justified actually. He is confused, he is angry at himself, and the situation, he is jealous but doesn't understand what's happening with him. So his outbursts are normal. Why wouldn't she think that about Shagun, the guy doesn't even give Ishita the time of day, yet if Shagun needs him, he's there for her aid in a second. Ishita has the sword of insecurity hanging over her head for so long. I also feel that at this point he doesn't mean to be a catalyst, he is only looking out for Ishu, he needs to understand the dynamics of their relationship more to do it consciously.
@bold Yes Ishita as a woman her insecurity is right in her place, but its not that Raman has always ignored Ishita and ran after Shagun only. Unfortunately SHagun is Raman's ex and also Raman has to be in touch with his child whether Ishita likes it or not. He has been shown as yelling Shagun but never yelled at Adi coz Adi had clearly said in the court that dad hits me n Raman had restraining orders against that. So if Raman yells at Adi, Raman thinks he might not be able to even see his child.
N if I remember even Ishita empathizes with Shagun n also helped her in her worst phases like drunk incident she got her home and making Mihir accept her as his sister.
Having said all this I agree that Raman shud control his anger n rude behavior. Which Ishita is surely helping him with (i.e. we don't need Mani here). It is true that only a sacrificing n understanding kind of person like ishita can handle Raman. But still I find it annoying that a different Man is pitted against him to show him how to be sensitive towards his wife when Raman was many a times sensitive towards Ishita in the past.
@red Raman mostly knew that he was wrong despite his ego,
When during Param track he did not support her when she was being bashed by his family members, he later on proved how cheapskate Permeet is n also apologized n said Sorry to Ishita n got her back home.
during Accident track he was hiding things from ishita he knew he was doing it wrong for saving his child a punishment. But he ultimately came to very same Ishita and apologized and also asked her to be his strength.
When recently he in his angry outburst said to Ishita tumhe ghar se nikal dunga after Shagun n Ashok drama. He apologized again that I was too insensitive to u n she sympathized with him saying its ok don't be sorry n all coz I knew that u really didn't mean it.
Well I can argue with this whole night 😆In my opinion both ISHRA are right n wrong in their ways n that is the reason I love them equally.
my only grudge is CV's shudnt have got mani factor in Ishra story, they were beautiful otherwise. 😳 Yes ishita's past shud be dealt with but the most imp factor of her past is her inability to conceive n her hurt of not being a perfect woman, this cud have been shown with the medical complications n Raman trying to be more sensitive towards her after realizing what all pain she suffered, no need to get Mani into the picture 😊
Edited by mnr123 - 10 years ago
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