Why so much Mani hate?-DT NT Pg17 - Page 6

Originally posted by: pomegranate

they are annoyed with her because ishita never said anything when mani reprimanded raman.

Originally posted by: seared

Hmmm...if raman is correct from his stand point..lets see how he will support and stand up

Against shagun and adi..when the time comes in the near future..

Im sure he will choose adi and will not take a stand from the husband point of view..which by ramans nature is a given to many people

But this is not right from moral standards/marriage point of view.

I m pretty sure..this will be debated.

Originally posted by: mnr123

Dont worry dear I will not throw chapals at u. I completely respect ur opinion n viewpoint n wud appreciate if u understand mine.

I absolutely agree that Raman realizing Ishita's worth is necessary, but so is Ishita's. So far the way things r shown it looks like only Raman needs a reality check n then un-necessary glorifying of Mani n showing Raman as a loud, angry n insensitive husband who behaves rudely at the hospital. As if the makers r trying to show a contrast between the two human beings. Again when Mani was shown explaining Ruhi her mother's condition, what was the point of that ? It cud have been done by Vandu too.

While the audience want to see Ishra love story, we get Mani jaap n Mani shown on the screen for 80% of time. I agree RKB is not a perfect Man but to prove that he is not perfect we dont need to see a Mani who is Mr Perfect. If RKB is flawed then so is Ishita in so many ways, we as an audience wud hate to see if another woman is brought into the picture to put her down (Shagun is no where near that perfect woman hence keeping her out of this equation).

If this track is about realization of Raman to be "the man in Ishita's life". It shud not b shown this way by showing him down, clearly there have been times when Raman has stood up for Ishita n shown his sensitive side to her in the past too. Also is Ishita really ready to be " the woman in Raman's life"? When she clearly misinterprets his words n thinks that Raman has loved only Shagun in his life n not ready to give love a 2nd chance. Ishita says to Raman "u dont understand me" but same applies to her as well.

The track wud have been wonderful if lets say Mani was not in the picture at all. Ishita faints n is really serious, Raman panics n knows that Ishita is going thru all this n has all these medical complications. He yells at Romi u dont know ur Bhabji's age, Romi yells back at him who r u to tell me all this when u urself r always taunting to her. Raman realizes his mistakes n is caring towards her. Ishita sees Ramans sensitive side and their story progresses.

I guess by adding Mani factor story is being concentrated around him. So far we have not seen him acting as a catalyst which brings Ishra together n if one fine day both Raman Ishita have n Eureka moment n if they show that Mani was only playing along in getting these two closer, it will not help.

This is just my opinion, hoping u wud understand it.


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Originally posted by: Reina1

First of all, thank you so much love for being so mature and kind. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I would never condemn one that is presented so well. See the thing is I agree Mani is annoying in all her perfectness, but I think somewhere he is needed as 'the other' that Raman can evaluate himself against. Before, Raman had nothing to compare himself with, his ego was inflated and he thought he could do no wrong. With Mani, he has realized that being a smart CEO is not sufficient to get her attention. He felt before he was not successful like Ashok and that's why Shagun left, so he became successful. But not he has realized that hey Mani too is successful, so there's that missing factor that he needs to get Ishita's attention. He always cared for her, but love is friendship on fire said someone great (I don't remember) and this is what I am seeing now. Raman's actions are normal, and justified actually. He is confused, he is angry at himself, and the situation, he is jealous but doesn't understand what's happening with him. So his outbursts are normal. Why wouldn't she think that about Shagun, the guy doesn't even give Ishita the time of day, yet if Shagun needs him, he's there for her aid in a second. Ishita has the sword of insecurity hanging over her head for so long. I also feel that at this point he doesn't mean to be a catalyst, he is only looking out for Ishu, he needs to understand the dynamics of their relationship more to do it consciously.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

Agree with this

@mnr123: thank you for explaining your POV so kindly and patiently.