Inconsistent and comprised story writing and characters-DT NT Pg7 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

Leo

amma ke accident track ka side effect beti pe >> ishita ki matt mari gai he

In realistic way, no mature married woman would spend time with her bestie in night on bench doing khi-khi -khi-khi. some word is called "laxman rekha" even if she is clear by heart.

Mani jaaap is annoying and boring.itna to ruhi ka jaap bhi nahi kiya tha the little cupid who gave her another chance to live life

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

Thank You.

@Bold

and therein lies my problem. For a character that has just been brought in, and hasn't been flushed out thoroughly, they are changing some of the established characters' behavioral traits.

Although we cannot really imagine how Ishita would be with someone who is her 'childhood' friend, it is difficult to digest that we got a character who hasn't been well thought of. And from the looks of it, he is very important to IshRa's relationship.

They can take time to establish him, yes, but they shouldn't make everyone else suddenly look different to accommodate that character

Originally posted by: imdevil

ishita mani jap is as irritating as raman insulting & rude 1 liners.ishita is clear abt her feeling for raman & also want love frm him.bt wat raman want?ishita married raman for ruhi,manage his home &relation,forgive adi for hurting her mom,helped raman in adi matter despite continuous insult frm shagun,der r many instance where she stood like pillar for raman.cant raman respect her or talk her without moking her.also shouting & mocking several time in front of other ppl.he is taking ishita for granted.

Originally posted by: komal157

although ishita is a very mature girl but in case of mani she is behaving like a teenager. she keeps on saying mani mani mani which doesnt suit to her character.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Hmmm Vyas / leo😆

Basic trait of character change with the change in track. First it used be with raman and toshiji now ishita turn. In show only shagun ashok param and Neelu are constant. They are same from day 1.

Fans arr asking growth in ishita character that doenst mean cv brought any kind of story. In real life we tried made mistake and learned from and we have out growth. That's called actual growth. If we go by raman character he is not constant but his growth has shown in good way. He is like us normal human who made mistake accept it and learned from iT and that's how his character grow either his present life or past life.

Ishita character cv are trying to show her perfect who never made mistake. Problem is in her character that she is not making mistake even if she is doing any mistake she is not accepting and if anyone pointed out her mistake for the sake of she said sorry and sometime don't even say sorry. Bringing param and shagun at home even without consulting anyone. Mr. Bhalla and Mrs. Bhalla arr still head of bhalla house.

As a viewer I am not asking for perfect and always right female lead. Let her do mistake let her accept it and let her grow.

About Subbu writer always said that she has moved on from subbu and they are making clear from mani constant subbu reminder. She has moved on from subbu but not fear of rejection and her infertility. Same goes with raman.

Ishita mani

Seriously I really can't understand their friendship and why on the earth he is taking again and again subbu name when he knew how much she was hurt thanks to him and now she is married. I am saying this from my personal experience because no good friend do this kind of act.

As lucky said only to give way to this character they are playing with other character raman ishita and romi. They are just making him superior infront of others.

Their constant chant of each other and specially ishita was praising him even at midnight infront of her husband that's really uncalled. Only to show how mani is helpful they showed that others were just sitting on sofa and having chat and aren't they same people who help her in navratri preparation.

Raman should get his brain back and stop comparing himself with him and try to prove anything. He has his own place in their life. If they don't respect it than better let go instead of making force place which won't stay long.

It's ishra ruhi story first. Ruhi is busy with fighting with shravan and ishra are getting fit in others track.

This jealousy track is for 2-3 days was ok but it's getting drag. As u said in my topic. New viewer surely get that idea

I just want to say I want human ishita and raman not mahan and always right ishita.

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

I shall try my best to comment on matter; but won't take clear stand of agreeing or disagreeing with you or anyone else😆

Are characters at times in consistence, they sure are !! I don't care abt others just Raman & Ishita !! I find inconsistency when it comes to their relationship and it sure annoys me !!

Now talking abt both as individual characters; you have to be careful. In real life we may know a person as one dominant characteristic. But in reality people have many layers. We all behave differently with our friends, our cousins, older cousins, colleagues, parents, in-laws and then spouse !! I am not married so can't say abt spouse part so will stay away.

So if Ishita ll of sudden appears behaving like teenager when interacting with Mani, it makes sense to me. There are some friends you pick up where you had left with. So last time you saw best friend in college, after 10 years you will start from there depending on friendship.

Another issue of what Raman-Ishita feel or say abt each other and making list of who did what. They both know what they have done for each other and also know both care abt each other. But here's the thing, their expectations from each other are rising. Both deep down know they have more than care but at this time not willing to accept it fully ! But expectation is very real and important part of marriage. In this phase both wud also compare thier spouse to someone else, again very normal thing. Now just because they are comparing doesn't mean they don't care abt their relationship or insulting other party. This comparison comes from lack of somewhat satisfaction which again comes from rising expectation. If both are fully satisfied then it wud be boring for tv ! This lack of satisfaction is what makes both going and yearning for more. My parents have been married 30 years but even today when ma is ging for event she asks papa how do I look ! Those who are married with kids wud say spouses feel other spends more time with their kids compared to them. Yes they wud be jealous of their own kids😆all that is normal and says it is REAL marriage.

Raman-Ishita wud fight and have disagreement where they wud not have that with their friends. Why because their is clearly different level of expectations !!

I am not saying CVs are doing perfect job, no they are not. Sure some things need to tone few things down in Raman, Ishita and Mani ! But then it's Indian daily soap so I'll keep my expectations low😆But I have yo give it to makers they have done good job for most part !! But taking care of few things wud sure take things to another level in good way !!

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

Leo

am girl , i have girls and boys in my friend circle, married and unmarried both . even with cousins. we meet any of them who we had good rapport with and lots of fun but "marriage" do affect on our behavior and experience we get makes changes in our behavior. she might be bubbly in her college time and child hood but right now her status is married . my one friend's elder sister is doctor and she is married, but when she met her college met, she keeps distance. Indian culture . am not saying just by one experience but we do feel some small distance aftermarriage. all relations go under change defo post girl 's status change esp.

ishita was rejected , heart broken she lost herinnocence . ok agreed. she became serious. still if she becomes same as old bubbly it s highly impossible and illogical . just like we can expect some sweetness in raman but we will never get back old bhola bhala raman who will trust ashok again . time period do have effects on our behavior.

Did I make a sense?

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Aha

This is another different perspective to whole angle

You make sense

They may react differently to different ppl

But her constant mani jhaap looks annoying

Her lack of reaction to his constant subbu jhaap also looks unconvincing

Originally posted by: GredandForge

I agree and disagree in parts.

While Raman thrived on his broken heart, airing it publicly, Ishita shut herself and never let out her feelings so I suppose its okay that she doesn't react to the topic of Subbu coz its in the passing and she really can't deny that she had a relationship with him.
If Mani had started talking about the period where Ishita and Subbu were together and Ishita wasn't reacting to that, then yes, its is not right because you never really completely get over an ex

But otherwise, Ishita isn't what she was. She was level-headed, mature, well-mannered but right now she has become an interfering, giggling woman.

She had no business to go pursue Sanjana like that and try to get Mihir to accept his sister. That was an unsatisfactory track.

Moving on, if I really had a best friend like Mani, he'd probably be in touch with me what with all the social networking. He won't just come out of the blue and not even know how my husband looks.
Fine, this is Telly so its moot but the enthusiasm she shows when Mani is around reminds me of a fangirl meeting her idol. Or maybe Divyanka is portraying her happiness wrongly.

I was particularly annoyed when Ishita tells Pammi aunty that Mani is very picky. One doesn't go and tell people such things, it gives the impression that you look down upon them. Very rude, if you ask me.

On one hand, she manages the Bhalla household, is responsible and sensible but when Mani appears she is a totally different person. That to me is inconsistent writing.

While I do like Mani's entrance, the handling of the track is dragging a little now.

Originally posted by: kuhu_d

I agree with you-n we have to consider few points:

-we r all die-hard YHM fans, hence we r soo good in pointing out even the smallest mistakes. in fact i notice all small things about the horse statue in the bed n living room but are the same or when ishita wears different earrings-so everyone else of us does too. sometimes i get scared about my thinking myself n i think wow how obsessed m i with that show. BUT

-we have to consider that cvs do write more stories for many serial together-so somewhere they loose the track. but sometimes i wonder y don't the actors say anything about it? they should at least know what their character is.

-its a serial, i think 5% of what happens in reel is actually what happenes in reality also. i guess kudos goes to all the amazing actors, who let us forget that its JUST a serial. i sometimes sincerely forget that there is no guy called raman who is they way raman is shown, neither does a ishita exist. its just how greeat performers they r

-its a serial n it would b quiet boring without any action. i m convinced 1 month back, cvs would hav not even thought of having a mani-so he just came into the light to spice up the whole thing