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Posted: 11 years ago
#41
very gud and needed post Krishu 👍🏼
must say very sensibly written...
i have never bashed her and never even bothered what she said or what she meant. i knew things r not going right but no point in jumping into war zone for no reason.
but after watching vid i felt really really bad for her... really felt sorry , she don't deserve so much hatred.
I applaud her she decided to come out and tried to clear things.
hope next time fans will control their emotions and if not emotions then at least they will keep control on their words...
once again really sorry for Divz what she had been through and hope she will forget it as a bad experience...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

I have never felt an urge like this to create a topic before in our forum... I know that it is not sensible enough to re-open the same topic which has been closed several times before... But, this topic is definitely needed... This topic is not for the forumwasis alone but this is also to remind myself that we must think twice before we react.

My sincere request to all those who disagree with me... Please control your urge to disagree with me in this topic. If possible, please avoid this and you can kindly go back instead of proceeding further. It is a request.

Before proceeding further, i would like to clarify that i am not a fan of any actor and i'm just a rational viewer who appreciates their acting when it touches my heart. So, please don't term me like this actor's supporter, that actor's basher, etc... I want to make another point clear to those who are reading this. Offscreen segments for me means nothing more than an insight into upcoming episodes of my favorite soap. So, neither i am a fan of these off screen interviews, But, this topic is definitely the need of this hour.

Like each and everyone of us, they are normal human beings who have chosen acting as their profession. Just because they are entertaining us through a daily soap, all 6 days a week, we can't own them. As a Ishra fan, we have a right over Ishita and Raman. We can appreciate them, bash them, love them,etc... but reel characters are totally different from those people who are enacting the same.

Yes, we appreciate their work and make them happy. Infact, they expect the same since they work for us. So, question can arise if we don't have the right to question their actions. Yes, we can question them. But, they are real humans unlike Ishita and Raman who can't retaliate or feel bad. These people are made of bone and flesh. They get offended when they are bashed by those invisible people with whom they are connected only through their profession. When someone has to come out to give a 12 minute long interview to clarify their stand and declare that it hurts to see them getting bashed, it definitely hurts us. Isn't that so?

This is a lesson to all of us that appearances are deceptive. Just one edited interview and this chaos in this peaceful forum. We have disturbed not only the actor's peace of mind but disrupted out peace of mind with these useless discussions. I'm highly upset with the fact the actor has to point it out again in another interview to show that she was misunderstood and there was nothing more to it. Saw a hurt soul there... It wasn't an attempt to mock anyone. We must understand the same.

We have appreciated, showered love, bashed the actors... Now, its time for an heartfelt apology. We are at fault. Extreme measures were opted to show the displeasure. We got carried away. It happens. We are humans. Now, it is our duty to apologise to the same person.

I hope that everyone understands that its not a great sight to have your home feed flooded with tweets bashing you for something which you have never done. Please put yourself into the shoes of that person's who have suffered in this controversy and if you see the need, kindly apologise to her.

I didn't take anyone's name to avoid unnecessary deviations from the topic but everyone must have understood whom i referred in this topic of mine by reading the title of the topic.

I'm starting it...

DT, my heartfelt apology for whatever you had to see.




I'm happy to see such a apology post from one of the forum's member for bashing Divyanka for no reason. Now before I say something more, let me as well clear that I'm Not a fan of any actor/ actresses. I only admire their acting, personality and smile and other characteristics.

I always knew and again repeating myself, I always knew that Divyanka had no fault in those tweets or supporting media or degrading or not supporting Karan but the fans of this show or especially say Karan's fans misinterpreted the situation and highly misunderstood her.[not name calling here but thats what actually happened!]

that is hence, I never degraded any actor, nor Divyanka, nor Karan and nor Ssharad!

Divyanka came with the long interview to clear so many things and to confront👏 the fans who bashed her that it hurts when you gets bashed for no particular reason. Her point where she said that it is clear that most of these fans are very young and hence this kind of aggressive reaction by them because mature people do not bash others or actors like this. They name called her, given her so many cheap names and she tolerated all that crap but after the limit, she had to take stand of all that nonsense and she did it!👏 Divyanka spoke and cleared every other matter which she was accused of!

She cleared her bonding conflicts with Karan ofscreen and made a point to not bash Ssharad for no reason. Since Ssharad is not related to this show or forum, hence there is no use of degrading or involving him in your views!

at the end of the day, Divyanka, Karan and Ssharad are also human beings and they feel pain and gets hurt whenever someone bash them for no reason. People bashed Ssharad and Karan as well when they saw tweets of Divyanka, for no reason. This was all uncalled and not expected.

Raman and Ishita are fictional characters which are not alive and will never get alive! they will come to an end for sure and these characters have no feelings, but Karan and Divyanka are human beings, living ones and also, Ssharad, is a human being, so it hurts all three of them when people connects them for no reason and starts interpreting things by their own. Also, consider yourself in to their places and then you will understand the pressure.

now, I wish with this initiative of seeking apology, all those who misunderstood Divyanka will come forward and post their feelings here. :) Let us tweet Divyanka, Karan and Ssharad about this. I'm sure, they will forgive and move on, though it is difficult to erase bad memories like Divyanka cited out, but with this effort, they will be really happy.😃

Thank you for this kind of post. It feels good when someone accepts their mistakes, it shows their honesty.

Dev.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Apologies divyanka. Was out of touch for a couple of days so was surprised with div's video.
Hats of to her for hsndli g this so well.
am not a basher at all but just wanted div to know that she is truly appreciated as an actress and an individual.
Ishra rocks
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Posted: 11 years ago
#44
If was a genuine apology to let people know how she felt. What a great big heart Divyanka Tripathi has? She did not have to clarify anything to her fans.
She definitely has my respect. Bravo!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Lekz

Lovely post and much needed...👏👏👏👏

I have kept away from commenting on these threads...some of us have been very unfair...
To my mind she has clarified the whole issue and we must now move on...
Bade Bade shehar mein aisi chotti chotti batein hoti rehti hai...
Love both of them and their portrayal as Ishra...
Happy the forum is back to normalcy.
Lets enjoy the show...


Thanks for liking it. Forum is back to its normal mood par maine socha apology toh banti hai. Isliye maine yeh post banaya...😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: .RajvirNandini.

I want to ask why do v needed an explanation to hve these apologies ??? She said one thing right try to understand comments dont make ur own views n start bashing her.


Because we are humans who tend to err. Good that we realised it now.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Bul3

I have never bashed any actor but again and again I see fans bashing not on just this forum but on many forums and it really makes me sad that we can be so hurtful to others just on the basis of assumptions and interpretations.. As fans do we not have any responsibility? Do we bash people in reality if we dislike their attributes/their actions? Just because we know that the person cannot reply back in the same bashful manner and behind these virtual names we can hide our faces it gives us the right to hurt others? I hope people think a little before using such language which is disrespectful to other human beings!

DT has gone to great lengths to settle down people who were nothing but very mean to her..it takes courage to do something like this so hats off to her for her attitude..not many people can do what she did.


DT's patience and courage definitely needs appreciation. Impressed with her persona.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#48
I toh never understand why people bash these actors... I mean its their life and they are allowed to share any kind of rapport with their co-stars as they like... they can't just fall in love with them just because we fans want them to (or like them to)...

God!! people wake up and come to your senses... they are also humans and not characters of some fiction who can be molded in a way we want them to...


I Love DT and KP and I have always liked them and I never read articles related to their personal life or judge them for their wayward comments... its their life and their mouth... And if any right we have it is to request them to give some scoops regarding the coming episode and that's it. What we have to do about their personal life? How can we question their judgment regarding that? can we?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: -purpleorchids-

Having seen the interview,I admit I was wrong. Honestly,I didn't bash or say anything bad about Divyanka ,I was just honestly disappointed and stated my opinion about the same but now,having seen it,I sincerely apologize to her. I see what the interview actually meant and she wasn't wrong,after having heard the whole thing. Kudos to her for having come out with such an honest and genuine byte,feeling really good after seeing it and embarassed at myself too for having jumped to conclusions.


Happy with that honest confession...Thanks for commenting😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: FieryLioness

very gud and needed post Krishu 👍🏼

must say very sensibly written...
i have never bashed her and never even bothered what she said or what she meant. i knew things r not going right but no point in jumping into war zone for no reason.
but after watching vid i felt really really bad for her... really felt sorry , she don't deserve so much hatred.
I applaud her she decided to come out and tried to clear things.
hope next time fans will control their emotions and if not emotions then at least they will keep control on their words...
once again really sorry for Divz what she had been through and hope she will forget it as a bad experience...


Meet...Thanks for this wonderful comment yaar. Really really want DT to read this and know that we are feeling bad.

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