Today's scene : Raman's Attention to Ishita without Intention - Page 5

Originally posted by: mnr123

Making pasta palak paneer is great but as Raman wanted them to b alone during picnic track, she has so far not shown the need to b alone wid him romantically. She is getting there though by shooting words like "mere pati bewakoof nahi" flirting wid him 😆

In that case, I dont remember Raman mentioning anywhere that he wants to spend time with her or be alone with her for romancing her.. 😆
Like I said, none of them have ever done anything for each other romantically...It was always as a thank you or their usual " Ruhi ke liye " rant...
It was yesterday's epi where the word romance came between them for the first time.. Neither of them were under any compulsion..What ever happened was from their heart...That was precisely my point..

Mera

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

IshraDivan

I am sure "noble" acts are wayyy up there in the good deed scale. Raman has barely done any, she has done 100s may be... who knows, I personally dont care

Not sure about Mera, but PERSONALLY for me, In measuring the combustion scale of a young married couple "I" seldom look for noble spiritual gharelu, house wifely, deeds as a measure for attraction😳

What she DID TODAY, catapulted her to the TOP SPOT, in MY eyes😳

Her whole nervous, panicky, jumpy demeanor was absolutely mind blowing.

I mean lets face it, they are in their 20s and 30s, not 70s and 80s... for God's sake. If the physical thing is not big NOW, will it be when they turn 80?

I am glad he took her cue and stopped the car and gave her a preview to heaven😆

Well, I guessed that already...
Whatever Raman does can be awarded with a benefit of doubt and her actions can be tossed around with a noble deeds tag.. 😆

Ishradivan

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Mera

I have seen less than a handful of flirtatious overtures from her. May be its a scripting flaw. I will say that before I get creamed...

When he says "Dont you dare use my car again"

She looks at his finger and then his eyes and goes "What if I do?"

She literally took my breath away!

When he talks about his imaginary doe eyed crush, she is all hot and bothered...

When Mihika appreciates and gushed over Raman, she looks at him meaningfully and goes "He must have bribed you" Raman's grin was to die for

Some of those from her have been MIND BLOWING (Will think of more soon)

Thats worth 10 "mera pati" mere pati" " Main unka license dilaoongi" type scenes for me

Sorry... to each his/her own I guess

Mera i second with u.
Today I found them on real position after long time after accident track. Lemme explain how.
I agree she was too rejected because of her being incomplete but she is fresh to man s touch. She might had moments with subu but i believe being her so shy she had not that much proximity.

So i believe she must get affected by him before he gets affected. Accident track showed that ishita . But track got over she got secure that raman was not saving his ex. And she got few steps back in picnic event. She was not liking to spend time even with person who she called friend n she actually had feeling for him . I was shocked. Even that walk on highway was the way symbolic. Raman moved forward n he showed his wish to work on marriage. We got to see ishita was too much back to their progress on "chhee"

And after that shagun on his bed was raman shocked that if ishu ever thought of their marriage or not despite he had given lots of open signals about his wish to work on their marriage.

Yesterday I saw raman dragging ishu forward and indicating her that he ll need her to bring her back but he still needs time.

And i really din find ishu childish. It was real ishita in context of virgin girl first time getting real touch as teen age girl. And raman was as experienced twice married with 2 kids . And she was badly hurt dat s why she was not smiling in dance.

I thank param for his taunts in 2 days. 1st was for bringng shagun at home for social service bt ishu s focus was on sanjana so she din take it on heart. 2nd time after shagun s story. His taunt was realistic completely.
Param made her to come out of her over secure shell using shagun.
As a married woman she needs to b insecure and claim on husband . Now sanjana ll do rest needed. I wish ishita asks raman showing claim to husband that she was missing in accident track.

I dont worry for raman. He will handle that issue in very nice way ;)

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Ishradivan

What I meant to say was Ishita IS a better human being of the two.👏

Since I am interested in deviant flawed characters in fiction, I am naturally drawn to HIM. I find his character mesmerizing... with so many flaws, inadequacies and insecurities. He seems like a real human being to ME.

With KP being so immensely good looking, and me being the opposite gender helps a great deal as well😉😛

Sorry cant edit post. M on phone.
Mera i was talking abt 1st post on pg 5
I hope now she moves forward in relations. I can relate to this ishita ifshe feels insecure n starts to do for husband,not father of ruhi.

Raman did not do anything for feeling pity or so but the fact is he loves Ishita .. one can't go to such an extent only for kindness or being generous, yes he knew that Ishita is in pain after digesting Shagun's blah blah , he could feel how it hurts his Ishu , he decided to took her on a drive with him to make her happy to give her thar feeling "Ishita I am with you always . I really want to be with you , want to spend time with you...time made me more matured than before, thats why in your case my love finds its way in care...but then you know , care is much more intense form of love than anything else... but I know romance is also important as it makes couple feel good and create unforgettable memories, so please allow me to make them with you" this is what playing in Raman's mind...otherwise he would have thought "so what ? Ishita knew very well about Shagun before marrying me so now she should not be bothered at this at all "
But no.. Raman did not think that way , he was worried for Ishita , worried for her pain , he did not taunt when Ishita said him "Kharoos" , he just wanted to show "I am not kharoos, I can show you , only if you allow me , only if you accept me that way... " like he said before dancing "I heard everything that you said me kharoos"
So he just badly wants to recreate memories with Ishita , here Shagun comes and showers her blah blah and left , leaving his Ishu with the memory of her husband romancing with his ex...this is unbearable for Raman , he wanted Ishita to forget what Shagun said ...and only remember that her husband Raman loves her like any other caring husband , while dancing , touches her like the most romantic husband who desires for his wife , yes he was worried for Ishita as he can't see her in pain , but rain was not in his plan , it happened as blessing of the God , as Mihir , Mihika and all other loving members of Raman's family wished a blissful moment for them , Raman just allowed himself to accept that blessing from God, that moment , with full sincerity , by completely making himself lost in love of his wife , because like Ishita , Raman also wanted such a moment with Ishita ...only difference is that Ishita admitted it to herself, and Raman did not...yet 😊

Originally posted by: -Raz-

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Ok. Thank you for your long post and i know how it feels when ur 'venting' out in general.

From your post I get that you believe Raman was pitying Ishita. Was he really? Based on my opinions, i don't think he was pitying her. He also was embarrassed at how low Shagun can go. For God sake. She is engaged and Raman is marrried. Yet this woman has no self-respect at all. As Shagun finished her crap. Raman said a bit and walked off. He didn't want to here anymore.

Remember a few episodes back, when Raman told Ishita we would make our own new memories..a bit different but newer ones. Raman was actually taken aback when Ishita told Mihika she has no hopes or anything from such an arrogant man like Raman. She had made up in her mind that there is no way khadoos Ravan Kumar can be romantic! This made Param take a jump and let the joker SHagun talk about the past, that now hold no importance in both Raman or Shagun's life. Its solely a phase of life, neither of the two wants to see again. Atleast definately Raman!!

COming back to Ishita and Raman. I don't think he was pitying her. He was reassuring her- letting her know that they too will have special moments, special private romantic moments in the future. Definately not so soon. But the dance was for her "kuch kuch hota hai" moment. It was for her to giive the warmth in her heart. That she has a husband who acknowledges to the entire world meri patni hai. He yells that atleast 1000 times. He has acknowledge this change in his life. But to show it, after a horrible heartbreak is difficult for him. He stopped himself from kissing her, why? He got dumped from a woman he was romantically and head-over-heels in love with, but what did he got in return?DUMPED? I think Raman is afraid to love and trust again. But buddhu Raman does not realise that these feelings are already present. He just never had time to accept these feelings or feel the presence on these feelings in him. He sees Ishita as his wife. But then he doesn't realise that he loves her. He is scared to tell himself, its ok you can love and trust again. Raman definately knows Ishita is not like Shagun. But trust problems is such that once broken horribly, your even scared to trust your own self. SO imagine what would be going on in Raman's head and heart!

Coming to Ishita. She also went into a heartbreak. 15 years was it? but she definately wasn't married and lived 24 hours of her life with Subbu. She didnt experience any romantic moment ever. So as it seemed from today's episode, she never shared a romantic moment with Subbu either. I felt horrible for her today. It wasn't that she was weak in love. It was just that she felt out of place and lonely. Everyone talking about these beautiful moments, when her hubby's bitchy-ex decides to tell her Raman is oh-so-romantic. She probably felt so dumb and weird. Whatever Param said was right, everyone could see that she felt stink. Raman walked out. He wasn't there, still he knew she would be affected and decided a drive. Maybe the rain dance wasn't even planned. Vandu mentioned the rain might fall. Raman wasn't even stopping he was planning to drive slowly but on Ishita's insistence he stopped and then he decide lets dance in the rain. He also mention listening to her n Mihika's conversation. He probably was to take her on a drive and talk her out. But the atmosphere probably changed the mood. The music the rain and the idea!

The dance- though Ishita wasn't cooperating with Raman, she eventually gave in. She was happy and content, not weak in love. She wanted to feel better and her husband understood her. Her inner thoughts made it very clear. She wanted him to kiss her, but he didn't and Raman observed her and what she wanted and the smile;after walking away it was a 100% assurance that we are going to be there for each other and many of these moments are yet to come. Even more beautiful ones!!

ps.Sorry for such a long post. May be boring but im also sharing my opinions from a different perspective!

completely agree...so beautifully mentioned.