Today's scene : Raman's Attention to Ishita without Intention - Page 4

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Mera

I find it OK, I REPEAT OK to do foolish things when you are attracted to some one. Thats EXACTLY what physical attraction is all about. Its about the heart and not about the brain..

I was totally OK with her dancing with him tonite, even if it was a "compesation" " Grudge offer" whatever they want to call it. At the rate their romance is progressing by the time they both realize they have feelings for each other she would be way past menopause... or actually be baby sitting Ruhi's kids

Such is the speed.

I am tired of reasonable, sensible, practical, pragmatic realistic reactions from her. I want her to do something silly and idiotic like dress up in red lingerie and show up one day when no one is home

Whats wrong in her making the first move or A MOVE? I've wondered the same thing. I can't recall an incident when she did something romantic for Raman. Just a little personal, unexpected romantic gesture will give him a sign she's open ...after all he's been there, done that ... an experienced lover, a father of two and she's a newbie. IMO, she's been sending the wrong signals with her chee and ewww, can't blame the man for keeping his distance few months into the marriage.

Not everything has to progress to a reasonable conclusion always

They are extremely attractive adults thrown together in the same room 10 hours a night. WHY shouldnt the sparks fly?Unless the two have taken a vow of celibacy for a time frame,😛😆

I am glad I got to see a vulnerable side of her. Her expressions today didnt irk me much at all. In fact I interpreted it as her trying to run away from him. He being assertive and aggressive, finaly gathering her up for a kiss. I liked her expression of fear through the dance. The physical stuff is all new to her, he is the stud in this equation. And he played the part to sizzling perfection, it was steaming hot.👏👏👏

I am chalking it down as he being IRRESISTIBLE😳she couldnt contain herself.

All my feminist ideologies be damned😉 Her comment in Shagun's presence did the trick and he was ready to show her a different side.😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Thanks Nisha!😊

We've seen Raman do something special for Ishita on a couple of occasions (that I recall) ...designing the jewelry, planned the picnic etc.

Has Ishita every planned something specially romantic for them?😕 Don't recall any.

Is doing such things the only way of expressing one's feelings or making someone feel special.? She attempted the pasta for him..So I guess that should count..She made palak paneer for him..that should count too I guess..😆
I didn't know that gifting someone a necklace and planning a picnic is the end of the world or perhaps the only way of making someone feel special.
FYI, till today the word romance never existed in Ishra's relationship. Raman never did any of those for being romantic..Those were all done out of gratitude.!
It was for the firs time today, they actually shared a romantic moment instead of anything which was done out of compulsion or gratitude.!

IshraDivan

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

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Raman of the past was a wimp, there is nothing sexy about him. He was Shagun's lap dog.

Shagun had him wrapped around her finger.

<font color="#0000ff">Its finally a match of EQUALS.</font>

The Raman Bhalla NOW is more sexier and passionate in every which way...with all the angst inside of him and to top it off wealthy, unemotional, ruthless & ambitious.😳.Ishita is spunky, feisty and argumentative.😳The physical stuffWILL BEelectric.👏

He will be a better lover than he EVER was with Shagun. Ishita will get to experience it😳while Shagun has to live with her memories

True that being a puppy dog is not true love.

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

Is doing such things the only way of expressing one's feelings or making someone feel special.? She attempted the pasta for him..So I guess that should count..She made palak paneer for him..that should count too I guess..😆
I didn't know that gifting someone a necklace and planning a picnic is the end of the world or perhaps the only way of making someone feel special.
FYI, till today the word romance never existed in Ishra's relationship. Raman never did any of those for being romantic..Those were all done out of gratitude.!

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

Is doing such things the only way of expressing one's feelings or making someone feel special.? She attempted the pasta for him..So I guess that should count..She made palak paneer for him..that should count too I guess..😆
I didn't know that gifting someone a necklace and planning a picnic is the end of the world or perhaps the only way of making someone feel special.
FYI, till today the word romance never existed in Ishra's relationship. Raman never did any of those for being romantic..Those were all done out of gratitude.!
It was for the firs time today, they actually shared a romantic moment instead of anything which was done out of compulsion or gratitude.!

Making pasta palak paneer is great but as Raman wanted them to b alone during picnic track, she has so far not shown the need to b alone wid him romantically. She is getting there though by shooting words like "mere pati bewakoof nahi" flirting wid him 😆

Words like gratitude, gratefulness, appreciation, compassion do belong in a marriage

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

IshraDivan

I am sure "noble" acts are wayyy up there in the good deed scale. Raman has barely done any, she has done 100s may be... who knows, I personally dont care

Not sure about Mera, but PERSONALLY for me, In measuring the marriage of a young couple "I" seldom look for noble spiritual gharelu, house wifely, deeds as a measure for attraction😳

What she DID TODAY, catapulted her to the TOP SPOT, in MY eyes😳

Her whole nervous, panicky, jumpy demeanor was absolutely mind blowing.

I am glad he took her cue and stopped the car and gave her a preview to heaven😆

I for one dont feel that Raman planned this as a pity move for IShita at all. For beginners he cant make rain happen at his will n he was not even stopping the car until she insisted. So it was a spur of the moment decision to dance in the rain after all. All he wanted as a husband when he took her out from the house was to change her mood, bcoz Shagun with her crass words had managed to spoil the whole party positive vibe in their house. If anything as a husband who was well aware that his past n his bitterness due to it has deprived his lovely wife a lot, wanted to make it up for once to her. And if he did not do that n feel like that I'd be complaining. And considering the circumstances its just as well he stopped himself from going any further than reassuring her that they will have many such moments in future inspite of his changed nature and without a shadow of past influencing it any way. The fact is that he stepped back from their first kiss or anything ensuing it, so that she does not regret it later or ever doubt it was to prove a point to her or himself after shaguns poisonous words. He saved that for a better opportunity that will be theirs alone once again when both were looking forward to it and not hurting n healing over a few words. That just makes him a good husband and she a wife who recognizes that gave in to her needs, desires and love for the man for once without being the sacrificial lamb she usually is. For once i found her real not weak in any sense when giving into what makes her a woman. She was not a sister, daughter, mother, bahu or wife for that matter. Just a woman who needed reassurance, healing, love n desire from the one n only person who could provide it. And he stepped upto that role in style.