Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 6

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Pomegranate,

there is absolutely NO justification for putting her husband's ex-wife in their bedroom, I won't buy any excuse. This incident has only proven that ishita does not even take this marriage seriously, which should not even come as a surprise as she has never made an attempt to work on it. Now i'm only hoping that ishita realizes the enormity of what she has done and stakes a claim on raman. I did not feel bad for once when shagun was reminiscing about how much raman loved her.

TOTALLY LOVED IT!

I absolutely concur!

She didnt give a rat's hiney about her marriage.

Even though the GUY said "Sirf Ruhi ke liye" he fell for her

She said the same but its not even about Ruhi anymore. For Ishita, its all about building clean public toilets, safer bus stops, picking up strays, reducing vehicular pollution, errmm reforming an errant rapist or two, placing husband's ex-wife strategically on husband's bed

I for one have not been particularly impressed with her physical attraction signs. Sorry!

In the shower scene she looked at him like she woke up one morning to find an earth quake having wrecked her house or something.

The blush was good by the mirror

His eyes ooze attraction, I "dont" see it in hers

And by the car, the guy says "Lets make our own memories" she goes in a totally flat voice "Our own?" like he asked her if she would like a second glass of water or something...

No warm and fuzzies there... sorry

If its by design or what

Dont know what the grand plan of the CVs is...

I suspect she will sacrifice her husband... for the sake of his ex-wife

So that Shagun can quit drinking... a new Alcoholics Anonymous prescription is what I see here,

If she was possessive about her marriage she would have kept Shagun miles away.

UNTIL Ishita makes vocal and physical attempts to claim the guy I will hold this opinion

And, no... running off to one conference or the other giving back to back bhashans in JKR mode does not symbolize physical attraction or lust or wanting.

Ive seen plenty of bhashans.. if thats the way to express love...it must be divine love😕

"I" dont get that since I didnt think I was watching a religious show... They are young, the guy has been celibate for 6 years, he has thrown her over a handful of hints... and she brings the rapist and his ex-wife home?

Originally posted by: pomegranate

Bold: IMO, I think these are subjective, it depends on one's perspective. Ishita sounded surprised and taken aback after raman made that comment about making their own memories, and I did see subtle attraction in the shower scene. The thing is, raman is more attracted to ishita. that is why it is more obvious in him, and overall raman is more intense whereas ishita is more subtle.

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Pomegranate,

there is absolutely NO justification for putting her husband's ex-wife in their bedroom, I won't buy any excuse. This incident has only proven that ishita does not even take this marriage seriously, which should not even come as a surprise as she has never made an attempt to work on it. Now i'm only hoping that ishita realizes the enormity of what she has done and stakes a claim on raman. I did not feel bad for once when shagun was reminiscing about how much raman loved her.

TOTALLY LOVED IT!

I absolutely concur!

She didnt give a rat's hiney about her marriage.

Even though the GUY said "Sirf Ruhi ke liye" he fell for her

She said the same but its not even about Ruhi anymore. For Ishita, its all about building clean public toilets, safer bus stops, picking up strays, reducing vehicular pollution, errmm reforming an errant rapist or two, placing husband's ex-wife strategically on husband's bed

I for one have not been particularly impressed with her physical attraction signs. Sorry!

In the shower scene she looked at him like she woke up one morning to find an earth quake having wrecked her house or something.

The blush was good by the mirror

His eyes ooze attraction, I "dont" see it in hers

And by the car, the guy says "Lets make our own memories" she goes in a totally flat voice "Our own?" like he asked her if she would like a second glass of water or something...

No warm and fuzzies there... sorry

If its by design or what

Dont know what the grand plan of the CVs is...

I suspect she will sacrifice her husband... for the sake of his ex-wife

So that Shagun can quit drinking... a new Alcoholics Anonymous prescription is what I see here,

If she was possessive about her marriage she would have kept Shagun miles away.

UNTIL Ishita makes vocal and physical attempts to claim the guy I will hold this opinion

And, no... running off to one conference or the other giving back to back bhashans in JKR mode does not symbolize physical attraction or lust or wanting.

Ive seen plenty of bhashans.. if thats the way to express love...it must be divine love😕

"I" dont get that since I didnt think I was watching a religious show... They are young, the guy has been celibate for 6 years, he has thrown her over a handful of hints... and she brings the rapist and his ex-wife home?

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

A little off the topic.. But have you guys watched the movie ' The Magic Of Ordinary Days'? The chemistry between Lissie and Ray. They do not even touch each other but you can feel the awareness between them... Especially in the scene where... Ray walks in the kitchen and a Lissie is busy preparing some food he walks to stand behind her and we can all feel her awareness anticipating his next move... But he turns away and Lissie touches her neck showing a little nervousness ... It's one of the best scenes I have come across...watch this movie if you guys ever get time and if you are a sucker for romance... I want to see this kind of relationship between IshRa for now... Hope CV's build this kind of anticipation and nervousness between them... Leaving a link..

http://youtu.be/iETfs-5G8C0

The scene I am talking about is around 31:25

Originally posted by: v_ani_patel

Exactly.. We r not asking for confession right away but some nervousness, awkward or shy feelings..realization of their love ,attraction for each other..etc..

Here they r behaving like they already confessed and SR is also over..to much comfortable with each other... Doing preparation for silver jubilee celebration of their marriage...

Originally posted by: rose35

Yesterday I had written a post saying that IShita should marry Shagun. I will stand by it. How can a woman bring her husband's ex home and that too in his bedroom knowing very well how she had hurt him, his family and his little daughter. As per IShita she had no options. Well what option did she think of? Ashok's house only? Why did she not think of her clinic, Amma's house, police station, hotel, some mahila NGO or something.. even Mihir...since she does not know about Mihir and Shagun's relationship.. why the hell BHalla house? ANd was the living room couch not enough? directly she takes her to the bedroom...


I think the writers have hit a block. They have introduced so many tracks. They cannot keep track of everything.. hotch potch...

I cannot understand Mrs. Bhalla's objection about Sarika either.
But Raman was right in asking Sarik ato leave. Because he knows ROmi inside out. I guess Ishita does not know that ROmi had gotten a girl pregnant... may be she knows.. I can't remember...

Shagun Suraj scene was good. I have a feeling Shagun will try to seduce Suraj for revenge and cause a rift between Sunny and Cockroach.


Someone either Raman or Mihika will inform Mihir and he will come and take Shagun to his house. This will lead to their revelation.

Anita was okay. Nothing gr8 for me.
NOone does talli scene better than KP.
Ishita's character is the most unrealistic in the serial . And now she will win the award for the most mahan bahu.

Mother matangi and Sister Shaguniya should now get married and end this torture on Raman and the viewers. Amen.

Originally posted by: kt25

Vyas- I had to rethink twice before I watched the past couple of episodes simply because of the nagging feeling that Ishita's character has been butchered to the nth degree. This is not the girl who I liked and fell in love with her character since day 1. It is shocking to see that they have made her mahaanta ki murti who makes hasty decisions not taking into account the ramifications. She does not have the courtesy to let know Raman know of her decisions when it involves him and his family. Agreed she is part of his family but he deserves to know. Would she like it if Raman took it upon himself to take decisions for Iyers and not let them know? Isn't she the one wanting everything to be fair and square?

Today's episode was OK considering the story forged ahead to some extent. Anita was OK today not outstanding because she was slurring during some dialogues like a drunk person would do but was sharp and clear in some places like a normal person. I thought there was lack of consistency. I am OK with Toshi telling Ishu to keep Sarika away from Romi but neither Raman nor Toshi can ask Sarika to quit her job simply because of their personal reasons. It is between an employer and employee. Why should Ishita loose a good employee if Sarika was one? She is the sole bread winner of her house taking care of her ailing mother. It is not fair to ask her to quit her job. It is reasonable to ask Ishita to speak to her about maintaining distance with Romi not forcing their decision on her. It should be upto Ishu and Sarika to decide how they want to proceed further.

From precap it looks like Ishu is going to take Shagun home and it is not going to go down well with anyone in Bhalla household. Agreed, she brings Shagun home on a humanitarian basis but what was the need to take her to her bedroom and put her in their bed. The bed which she does not even share with her husband. The state Shagun was in she was ready to sleep on the road. She would have been more than fine sleeping on the couch in the living room or in Ruhi's room. Her husband who is suffering from back pain (thanks to her mother) will now be forced to sleep on the couch where he has no say in his own house. It looks really bad on Ishita's part. If Raman gets mad and screams at her I am not going to feel bad for her at all. She needs to put herself and her family first which means Raman and Ruhi should be the top priority next to her. Everybody else should take a back seat. When will this girl ever learn? Shagun is always after wealth and social status. If Ashok can't give her what she wants then she will most definitely use Adi to get the same from Raman. Ishita better be aware and not be so nice cause Shagun will not think twice before snatching everything from her since realization has dawned on her that Raman has everything she once wanted and he is indeed a hot property with looks, wealth, title, status and most of all a good human being who stands up for women. I hope this track makes both Raman and Ishita realize the feelings they have for each other and admit the same to one another. They are husband and wife and should act like one by all means both physical and emotional. Ishita should be possessive of her family which is Raman and Ruhi and do everything to protect and have them to herself. If she is going the mahan route then she better be prepared to lose it since Shagun is an opportunist and is devoid of any moral qualms.