Raman is NOT the Problem it's... the eyes that sees him... - Page 2

Brilliant post Shivu.

I am not at all angry with Raman.This is the ONLY way a man like Raman Bhalla would react in a situation like this. Just imagine. Already he's fighting his inner hidden feelings...he is worrying for her...worrying too much for her and his heart knows that...but he cant accept it. Cant accept that yes her absence has made him flutter in concern. Secondly, it was ONLY when b/w him or her that he scolded her or shouted at her, but as soon as the guard or the inspector tried to insult Ishu he donned the avtar of the "OVER CONCERNED POSSESSIVE HUBBY" of Ishu. 😳
So we need to take into consideration these swift changes of expressions and undertones in his conduct.Because these reflect the change of emotions he is having towards her.

I think the only reason one can feel angry with RKB is because rather than comforting her or talking politely to her like bala, he was angry at her, but then thats nothing but his pent up frustration for

1)him being so hell worried for her
2)She not answering to his questions
3)She keeping her phone switched off and behaving so weirdly since hes gone to mumbai making him worried for her even there.

He's angry hes frustrated but not bcoz he doesnt care, but because he cares too much! And he is not able to digest this fact 😆

Much needed... Today, i wasn't among those handful who bashed Raman but tomorrow, come up with one such post na yaar...

Who knows,even i might lose my temper... Trying hard by preparing myself for his silence... Still, who knows?

awesome post 👍🏼👏
especially dedicated to SOME people who have a problem with EVERYTHING🤣

Originally posted by: ...RamonaG...

awesome post 👍🏼👏
especially dedicated to SOME people who have a problem with EVERYTHING🤣

his reaction seemed to be very typical of his character., but I did not like how he started yelling at ishita as soon as he saw her behind bars. he automatically assumed she had done something to land there, not the other way around. unlike bala, who came and started to reassure her right away. I understand it is in-character but she looked frustrated and traumatized but still raman resorted to yelling at her. No wonder ishita called bala first, at least she could count on him.

Loved your post !!
Your POV is mine too. There was nothing wrong in Raman's reaction, either in his room or in the police station after seeing Ishu.

He was clearly worried for her, was frantically searching for her and was annoyed... not on her... but on circumstances.
He wanted her to trust him. He couldn't believe that she would behave so impulsively and leave the home over Shagun issue. He was almost expecting her to understand and trust him.
And so did he... He trusts her and constantly said things like - "Bhale ghar ki ladki"... "doctor" etc to convince the inspector that his Ishu can never be wrong.

Worry was written all over him in the whole episode, while searching for her... and after seeing her too...He was extremely irritated that he couldn't do anything to help Ishu and she had turned up in the lock-up. He hated it that she was quiet and not sharing her issue with him, thus not letting him help her as much as he wanted to.
He hated it that she had called Bala & NOT HIM !!!
Raman does feel for her deeply and his responses are totally RKB signature style :)

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

Now the police station scenes..!! The moment IshRa met..!! DivAn's eyes SPEAK VOLUMES..!! If i'm nt hallucinatin, i think i DID SEE lil teary eyed RKB for a sec seein Ishu n Ishu did feel RELEIVED for a few seconds..!!

Nikki di everything u said in ur post was brilliant!!! but THISS I have to quote this...OMGG DiVan are just too perfect.That 1 minute moment when raman saw her behind the bars and she saw him on the other side...the exchange of emotions was so strong through their eyes that I cud almost see if the bars wont have been there they would have just broke into a bone crushing hug. She needed him, he needed her and how painfully they stopped that urge was visible in their eyes! 😳

Shiva, again you have delivered another fabulous post. For some strange reasons and believe it or not, I was waiting for your post. After seeing some people affectionately or annoyingly bashing Raman, I knew you would be the right person to calm them down 😆

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with Raman's attitude, because I knew he did care and it was obvious through his facial expressions. His anger, sarcasm and yelling was simply Ravan Kumar's way of caring. At the moment, Raman doesn't realise that he subconsciously love Ishu therefore he is probably partly frustrated with himself for irrationally worrying about his darling Ishu.
The day he realised he is in love with his wife is day he will become a loving, sincere and overprotective hubby. That will probably happen after the separation.

Originally posted by: Malika

Nikki di everything u said in ur post was brilliant!!! but THISS I have to quote this...OMGG DiVan are just too perfect.That 1 minute moment when raman saw her behind the bars and she saw him on the other side...the exchange of emotions was so strong through their eyes that I cud almost see if the bars wont have been there they would have just broke into a bone crushing hug. She needed him, he needed her and how painfully they stopped that urge was visible in their eyes! 😳

n i agree evrythin u said in ur post in prev page n this one esp @bold.....n THIS is wht i wanna see in upcomin epis so tht both realise each other' s value in their upcomin "kitne door kitne paas"-wala phase..😉😉

Originally posted by: sudhi03

Lovely post👏👏 totally agree with you. I didn't find any fault in raman's behaviour today he was totally in character today.