i agree to your post here is my POV
I am a girl ,, a wife, a mother so can relate to Ishita who has undergone this much harrassment sexually and physically so i agree to your point that she should not come back to Bhallas house even its for Ruhi. I agree that its not Ruhi's fault and she loves Ishita a lot but there are certain things you cant compromise event its for you most loved dear ones like dignity and self respect. So Ishita, before they throw you out, please go to your house. Iyers will give you ample support and care. Yes you will be missing Ruhi but as you told Bala, there is a limit for Sirf Ruhi ke liye and yesterday every body crossed the limit. Alos why you need a huseband , only for your daughter? eventhough you had a compromised marriage , there are some duties which you husband failed to do so I support you wholeheartedly for leaving your husband and support whatever your decision
Coming to Ramans PART, I Support Raman. I disagree to the some post saying Rman trusts Ishita. He had trust on her till the messages but lost that after reading messages. Still he was confused and couldnt believe, so was accusing her without lookign at her eyes.If he felt he was right, he wouldnt mind accuse her by lloking at her eyes. But he didnt. He is confused and he lost his trust and but also he couldnt belive that Ishita can cheat him. Please read the below 3 scenarions
1.When Raman was with Shagun, he supported Shagun without knowing the truth and accused his father. When he came to know the truth , it was too late and his father ddnt speak to him
2,.When Ashok misbehaved with Shagun, he beat him but at the end Shagun supported Ashok
If any person who experienced above issues will react is same way. Raman i sno different.He is not a superhuman to prevent the Simi's un expected slap .He is a human with emotions.
In the rain incident, when some people verbally misbehaved with Ishita, we saw Raman's anger.iF PARMEET tried anything in front of Raman, i know he is the first person to go to hell with body.
Everybody expects Raman to behave as a proper husband and stand up for his wife's dignity. I know Raman failed a husband but can i ask you when Ishita behaved a wife
1.Ishita had long phone convo aith Raman but she ddnt tell him anythiing.In the morning also she ddnt take phone or tried to reach Raman
2.In the police station, she called Bala instead of Raman thinking Raman will be in flight. As A GOOD WIFE, she atleast should have tried calling Raman but she ddnt
3.Raman was repeatedly asking her and was desperate to know the truth but she ddnt say a single word.If she is good wife, she would have told him in the car itself
And comeing back to most important part, shocking revelation of their relationship in the front of family. Husband and wife knows a secret, husband came to know from the messages that Parmeet knows about it. What you expect ? Husband will wife to their room and discuss. Please all people react spontanously at the moment. Also in the Pregnancy fiasco, Raman was about to tell the truth to the fanily but Ishita prevented it saying it will hurt them. But that is the truth . But I agree he said in incorrect time but he said only after seeing the messages.
I dont believe Raman doesnt desrve Ishita ,its true that Bhalla family doesnt deserve a bahu like this but Raman and Ruhi deserves and IshRa is and will be unique couple
Thanks
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
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