Raman is NOT the Problem it's... the eyes that sees him...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Disclaimer; Though I LOVE Raman, I've always been someone who has pointed out Raman's flaws when NEEDED. Thus I'm not biased against him and supporting him blindly because I love him. CHEERS.


I guess today's episode was a disappointment to a handful, maybe because...because... Raman didn't dramatically break the prison bars, carry her in his arms and walk away from the police station like a boss.

THIS ^^^^^ is the only way, I would understand the bashing of Raman Kumar Bhalla.

Firstly, the way he reacted in his room was NORMAL... Unless, crying his eyes out over Ishu leaving the house is the NORM than I don't see what's so wrong with how he reacted. For the love of god, his NOT head over heels in love with her yaar. BUT that doesn't mean that he hates her either. The way he reacted in his room today, was RKB being pissed off with Ishu for overreacting over such a simple issue. AND in his usual RKB style, he's trying to hide the fact that he is actually worried, Ishu might have taken the whole Shagun thing the wrong way. His trying to sort of NOT acknowledge the feeling that has arisen in him, by stating "compromise marriage" thingy, his basically finding excuses to write off the new found "FEELING, SENSATION, EMOTION[call it what you want] BUT the point is... The "compromise marriage" was just a facet, deep down he was desperately trying to find her and sort out things. I wonder why people never notice that... Why..Why..Why..!

Secondly, in the police station let alone Raman even My Dad would have reacted the same way despite him & my Mom being in love... She's keeping numb, and he just frantically searched for her plus the police officer only irritated him further, how do you expect him to react... Start singing a sad BG music is it?!... he wasn't shouting because he was angry, he was shouting because he CARED... C-A-R-E-D... he wanted to know the truth so that he can get her out. Did you guys see the slight change of expression when Bala's walks in and Raman says, "You called Bala"... THERE... it shows that, he definitely wanted to be the one Ishu would come too in terms of need, he wanted to be there for her BUT of course you can't expect him to do it openly... Bro, you crazy or what... They've NOT officially declared their feelings... This aint NO Indian movie, where either the hero OR heroine sees the other inside the prison and immediately feels the emotions, declares their love and shift the frame to some mountain backdrop for a romantic song. It's all about being REAL Bro... REALISTIC.. you read, what I'm saying...
R-E-A-L-I-S-T-I-C

AND Lastly,

Give the Man a BREAK yaar. He talks nicely on the phone,there's a problem...the way he acted in the room and in the police station..is also a problem... If everything he says or does is a problem... Than this ONLY means that the problem is not Raman, it's...in the eyes that sees him.


P.S. Like how everybody has their POV, this is my POV.. So I hope there aint no trippin.. PEACE OUT.😎
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shivu a bada wala hug for this post 🤗

Love this post of yours... see I wasn't going to post my review but now I have no choice
so hear goes... be prepared it's going to be long as usual 😆
Since this is about Raman I wont mention other things...
Now if one has even tried to understand RKB then today what he did was in complete character and made sense ... yaa you heard it was according to character
Bedroom scene... yes he said why did she leave over something like this and this marriage was compromise etc etc ... but what about him entering the house and soon as his mom stopped firing at him he asks for his daughter and WIFE???
And are we forgetting they are not in love ... they have not admitted to any feeling as of yet... we as audiences are seeing the various emotions because we can read and sense it through their behaviours and thoughts... but are we forgetting RKB and his denial problem???
Although he feels SOMETHING for Ishita ... hence him calling her numerous times and getting so worried about her ... he will not or rather does not want to admit it yet...and so his confusion and concern is coming out as anger and as his words of kya fadak pafta hain main kiske saath hoon and bewakoof aurat ... as it always has been... anger masking his own emotions ..
he kind of believed his mother that maybe IRB left due to Ashok's phone call and couldn't understand why as she is not the type of person to do that esp coz of a man like Ashok... he was already worried as she wasn't picking up his calls and now to hear this esp when he does not know the incidences of the past 2 days it is NATURAL he will think why did she go coz of Ashok's words...so RKB was in character 😊
With the security guard... he was so freaking worried... again as his anger it comes out... the whole sansani mat suna... was his way of saying .. nothing has happened to my WIFE ... and did you notice how RKB's voice became slightly soft when he was saying to guard that "bahut der se ghar nahi aayi isliye tension hogaya tha isliye dhoond ne aaya hoon" ... see this effect and change from his anger shows his genuine concern
Next Police station scene...Come on ... now seeing your wife in jail after searching for her all night... esp a woman like IRB .. he would be in shock...and when IshRa's eyes meet... they spoke volumes... we didn't have to say anything ... and think about IRB who has literally been through hell and managed to escape... her eyes were saying you are here Raman... there was a slight comfort seeing him there...
Then she was silent .. and he wanted to know WTH happened that she landed up here... so he is bound to ask questions... and so far when has RKB been all nice when asking questions so it came out a bit harsh ok but he really wanted to know what had happened to her... again concern to know if she was ok ...and he says it himself if you don't tell me how will I help you... this is his worry to want to do something for her but her silence is not allowing him to...
And yes when Bala walks in... he was slightly hurt which was clear from his expression and tone of voice ... that why didn't his wife call him at such a time?? and when inspector was insulting IRB .. husband RKB stands up for his biwi even though he has no idea what has happened...
Also the pic he showed the inspector... had Ruhi with IRB... again if it would have been IRB alone... that would have looked out of his character... it had to be both of them to make it look convincing ...
IRB was silent .. I think for two reasons... one because had she said anything to RKB before she would be blamed for trying to brainwash/mislead him... and two because how many times will she tell everyone what happened to her .. it is so difficult and awkward for any woman
So in conclusion ... RKB has changed a little from before which was evident ... but not completely to go all typical but fake hero style and show that to us ... what we saw today was a NORMAL and REAL reaction to the various situations in front of him .. and not out of RKB's current character trait ... where there is concern for his wife .. but he is masking it through his anger
I had to rant this out... don't know if it makes any sense but oh well 😆
Edited by PreciousPri - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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😊

100% agreed...

What I wrote about my initial (and then rational) reaction to Raman

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4006368


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

😊

100% agreed...

What I wrote about my initial (and then rational) reaction to Raman

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4006368



Hehehehe, 😉... & Let me go check out your post.👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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perfect post n perfect title...👏👏👏...

bt as u knw me...once am done with ramayan,too lazy to write new one again..😆😆...so i will post wht i already posted in other threads

wht an epi tonite..!! 👏..

i really wanted Pervert harassing Ishu as short as possible as its VERY VERY DISTURBING TO SEE..!!

so am glad CVs showed min n rest they will show in flashbacks..!! bt jitna dikhaaya Divz NAILED IT.. n Creepo - THE EXTREME LOW he hit ws when he bough Ishu's medical prob...gosh...he hit an ALL TIME LOW there..🤢🤢🤢🤢...!! RKB jst dnt leave this SOB when u find out truth..!!

Am sure by nw,Raman preponed his flight..😆😆...usko kuch nahi soojh raha tha..he jst wanted to see Ishita..!! His family ws bc questionin his bombay trip incidents...bt he explained evrythin in cut short n straight away askd for Ishu..!! But when Toshi said tht Ishita ka koi ata pata nahi n "MAY BE" she might hv knwn somewhere on knwin he n shagun stayin in same room for a night..!! i soo soo wanted to say to Toshi tht time ki u can be dumbo NOT Ishita..😡😡..She TRUST Raman..!!

But Raman GENUINELY BELEIVED Toshi it seems..His change of expressions DID show-he din expect Ishu wnt trust him n go away frm house lik this...!! And so typcial RKB apna disappoinment,gusse ke taur par nikaal diya..!!

i SO LOVED his scenes searchin for Ishu..he ws soo freakin concerned..But evn then he CARED ABT Ishu's parents reactions too...Also talked so lovingly with Ruhi..!! pehle waale Raman hote toh sab par chilla dete n would hv behaved INSENSITIVELY..!! bt this one...NA..!! All thnx to Ishu's affects on him..!! This man hv CHANGED FOR GOOD..👏👏...!!

Now the police station scenes..!! The moment IshRa met..!! DivAn's eyes SPEAK VOLUMES..!! If i'm nt hallucinatin, i think i DID SEE lil teary eyed RKB for a sec seein Ishu n Ishu did feel RELEIVED for a few seconds..!!

But the moment he askd hw did she end up here..she ws bought back to reality n same old shocked devastated state..n she din ans anything..!! Already her silence ws drivin him nuts since mornin as he couldn talk to her nt evn for once n here when he finally saw her-she AGAIN NOT TALKING...THIS MAN CANT STAND ISHU'S SILENCE..omggg my hopes running SKY HIGH think abt ishra scenes in the upcomin Seperation phase..!!

He started yellin at her...So obvious..bt he gave his reason tht if only she say the prob,then only he can help her na.!! But by tht time Bala also reached there..And seein bala,Raman's immediate reaction ws DISAPPOINTMENT FOR 2ND TIME.!! His expressions CLEARLY TOLD HE JUST DID NOT LIKE Ishu calling anyone BUT NOT HIM at the time of crisis..!! I guess Ishu callin Bala would be coz Raman aaj wapas aayega she wouldn hv thought either..so cant blame her either..!!

But Raman tried to cover up his disappointment n put tht fake angry mask again..!! And when police came there said the charges on her...Raman DEFENDED ISHU...He did not even bother to ask her how when why..👏👏👏...!!

N thnx to contacts,he made Ishu got bail..!!

Outside police station,when he ws finally with Ishu n no one else..he DID NOT ask her is this true..instead HE asked Y IS SARIKA PUTTING FALSE ALLEGATIONS on her?omgg i DIED there..RAMAN TRUSTS ISHU.....!!

Precap - i ws SO HAPPY RKB LETTING ISHU SPEAK..!! n Ishu am SO PROUD of her,itna sab kuch hone ke baad bhi she hv STRENGTH N GUTS TO SAY TRUTH..!!

But i knw all her strength gonna be "shattered" when she wnt get support frm Raman for the time being..n Raman he already showed today he TRUSTS her..!! But bcoz when he realize all these r involvin his sister's life too..hes LITERALLY TRAPPED..!! If this incident happend POST IshRa ws officially in love,then toh tomorrow itself v could hv seen VIOLENT RAMAN..!! But abhi still time left for their relation to fully develop,can understand Raman being silent..!! But atleast its better he himself throwin her out or sayin things against her..!! i hv high hopes for tomorrow epi seein the BUILD UP spl epi today...!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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OMG!OMG!OMG! NB, I was actually gonna tell you to post your Review here so more people can read it.😃 Hahahaha... AND of course as BGDs we can some sort read each other mind.😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post👏👏 totally agree with you. I didn't find any fault in raman's behaviour today he was totally in character today.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Mindblowing post.👏 Completely agree with ur each n every word..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ForbbidenLove

OMG!OMG!OMG! NB, I was actually gonna tell you to post your Review here so more people can read it.😃 Hahahaha... AND of course as BGDs we can some sort read each other mind.😉



i tell u v the antaryamis jst lik some1 😆😉
Edited by Nikki_Titli - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli



i tell u v the antaryamis jst lik some1 😆😉


BANG ON...😆 I think it's about time we get our own BG theme music for such EPIC..BGDs moments..😎

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