What problem does exactly Subu' mom have with Ishita? - Page 8

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

Hi there

first of all thank you so much for making a comment here.

I wish I could come up with the words that can even seem appropriate to make a response to you in the face of things but I cant.

and I am not being patronizing here please know that.

Also i wholeheartedly agree it is men like Subu and women like his mom who have the insecurity and a low sense of self-esteem that would treat someone who is already in so much pain in the way that they do.

In my opinion the woman here is so much more stronger than them, She lives with something that she knows she never asked for and even tries to make peace with it no matter how hard it is, But they cant, their primitive patriarchal mindset cant which cannot allow them to move beyond their narrow mindedness and primitive thinking.

I will not offer you consolations here my friend or words of apology not because I don't feel for you, but because I do and it makes me want to respect you so much that I cannot degrade you with trivial words - this strength that you have.

All I will say is it was a humbling and a honoring experience for me to read your views and post. I hope you never give up your zest for life or your courage. People will be there to take you down, knock you off for one reason or another always - life isnt meant to be fair or perfect to anyone. What matters is not their ideas or opinions but your own individuality and strength to face things - life, people and situation in general.

Regards & love,

Aani