What problem does exactly Subu' mom have with Ishita?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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So I know this is a Kekta show and villains will be aplenty here - as they already are and will increase in the future too with the progression of the show naturally. But so far of all the villains the one that really confuses me the most is this woman - Subu' mom.
Ashok has some vendetta against Raman - what exactly I am not sure but its there. The guy went on to break Raman' marriage because of the grudge - even tried to take away both his kids and succeeded with one of them and has brainwashed Adi completely against his dad, If anyone of you does know their problem please let me know, and if the makers are yet to show the reason behind this animosity I hope to god it gets revealed someday,

Next is Shagun on the list - she isn't exactly a villain though in my opinion, rather she believes she is a player when in reality she is merely a pawn Ashok made her in this game of one-manupship that he has with Raman, where slowly and steadily she is losing her value due to Raman' indifference towards her. Her importance was always valid till the time she affected Raman in any way whatsoever, however I don't believe Ashok will throw her out on the streets yet because she is Adi' legal custodian and Adi still is someone who has a great influence and power over Raman, in some ways always will. In the absence of Shagun, Adi too cannot be with Ashok, since Ashok might have made Adi - Aditya Ashok Khanna, but it was by a simple legal name change procedure, there has been no formal adoption from his end that establishes his legal right over Aditya.

PervMeet - well he doesnt really need a reason he is a pervert

But this woman - Subu' mom is on some sort of mission to hurt Ishita and humiliate her till the end of her days it seems. Now if she was her DIL, one who couldnt conceive and in extension provide an heir for her family I could understand, not tolerate, but understand her hatred for Ishita. But here that is not even the case - she made faces when Toshi praised Ishita as she did when the society people did the same. And then spewed her venom.

What baffles me is what makes her hate Ishita so? Even Raman says in the precap to her Ishita is long gone from your life but you cant let her be at peace. I hope this makes him question what exactly has happened with Ishita in her past that this woman wont spare her even now.

Sometimes from the looks of it, it even seems like in a typical Balaji twist - it would be revealed that Ishita has no fertility issues and somehow this woman played her and Subu in order to separate the duo, since its mind boggling to think the fact that Ishita would develop such an acute pain in the stomach right on the eve of her engagement with Subu and that too due to a disease she had in childhood which was cured off completely. Not to mention the fact that Ishita' problem blocked Fallopian tubes due to illness though not exactly common isn't that rare - cases like these can be cured via a surgery too. So what exactly made the doctor proclaim Ishita as barren for life and why didn't the Iyers ever have Ishita checked by another doctor - a senior/ a specialist in this regard?

Ishita herself being a medical professional knows the value of a second opinion. Then why has it been shown that even she has relied on one doctor' proclamation of her infertility which could be wrong as well.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really like your post.. sorry was working so was not able to answer.
In fact all these questions are already being raised...
I like and appreciate the question you asked why never ishita went to an another doctor for a second opinion when she's a dentist herself...
Why Ishita suffered only on the engagement day, then again, she never suffered again...
Why no medical treatment was needed she cannot got cure by herself..
It looks like a plan of Subbu mom maybe something not revealed yet happened ... that's why Subbu mom is always after her with her taunting again and again calling her "barren"
The main fact Subbu stood with his mom when all these happened...
He also said a couple is tied with a child after marriage as no love remained...
Edited by ALUJNA21 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First of all, Ashok didn't have vendetta against Raman initially. He was attracted to Shagun and lured her... Now, the reason for his hatred might be that Raman struggled hard and has surpassed him becoming the CEO of the year.
Regarding Subbu's mom, she is like Shagun. Shagun has moved out of Raman's life. Infact, even their children doesn't bound them since they got full custody without any visitation rights. Still, she can't accept the fact that Raman is over her and got a better wife. She can't digest the fact that Raman is happy.

Likewise, Subbu's mom rejected Ishu. Every now and then, she wants to make it sure that her decision is right. When someone praises Ishu, she can't take the fact and wants everyone to know that Ishu's infertile proving her decision right. She finds it difficult to accept that Ishu got a nice family with Ruhi and Raman. It is her way of expressing her regret over losing Ishu.

Nice post...
Edited by krikumar.91 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont think Ishita will be barren whole series.Since they mentioned reason and it had a solution.
Raman may take her to a senior doctor for second consultancy seing her pain .There she may get solution.

But if ishita become a mother the things to watch would be
1 Raman anad Ishita's happiness as it would be second symbol of their love (Ruhi's always first)
2 Shaguns reaction
3 Bala's mom's face

If it happened Ishita barely missed anything in her life
she got a better husband(not a coward as subbu)
She got a better house and family(will not insult her before others )
She have her own and god given children.
LOve from beloved ones.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I totally agree. People call women infertile or to put it crudely, "baanj" when they try conceiving and fail. Ishita hasn't even tried once, how can they certify her as infertile?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why can't Ishu remain as she is .. What is the problem if she can't have a child..
It is ok.. she is happy mothering Ruhi and that is how it should remain ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavmuks

Why can't Ishu remain as she is .. What is the problem if she can't have a child..

It is ok.. she is happy mothering Ruhi and that is how it should remain ..

absolutely...👍🏼

even i feel the same...

bala's mom is stretching the small fact too much.. she should be happy with subbu's son and be with them.. why does she interfer in ishu's life...???😡😡

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Aani I honestly feel problem is not with Subu's mom but with Ishu's approach. She honestly needs to take Toshijee's advice seriously and stand up for herself. Have we ever seen subbu's mom taunting vandu?? Though there are issues in her family too like she works at a higher position than her husband and is more busy also bala always sides with his in-laws BUT vandu is shown to be very straight forward.

Ishu is quite submissive when it comes to standing up for herself. I know being unable to become a mother biologically can be unimaginably painful for a woman but Ishu shud NOT let others take benefit of that n let them hurt her again and again. Yes subbus mom is her sister's MIL but even then there are smart ways to keep someone at bay w/o disrespecting them. This can only happen when Ishu accepts that her not being able to become a mom is not her fault and thus she doesn't deserve to take shit from others abt that.


Edited by Malika - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Aani I honestly feel problem is not with Subu's mom but with Ishu's approach. She honestly needs to take Toshijee's advice seriously and stand up for herself. Have we ever seen subbu's mom taunting vandu?? Though there are issues in her family too like she works at a higher position than her husband and is more busy also bala always sides with his in-laws BUT vandu is shown to be very straight forward.

Ishu is quite submissive when it comes to standing up for herself. I know being unable to become a mother biologically can be unimaginably painful for a woman but Ishu shud NOT let others take benefit of that n let them hurt her again and again. Yes subbus mom is her sister's MIL but even then there are smart ways to keep someone at bay w/o disrespecting them. This can only happen when Ishu accepts that her not being able to become a mom is not her fault and thus she doesn't deserve to take shit from others abt that.


But the problem she is targetting Ishita's biggest and sole weakness.
Or else ishita could fight any thing and with anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Totally agree! I think ishu' infertility is not forever, it can be cure and i think she might not be infertile it would be subbu's mom' evil plan to separate them in which she succeeded..

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