What problem does exactly Subu' mom have with Ishita? - Page 6

Great posti have no issue if they do show Ishu being infertile however it is an Ekta serial and who knows what is in store for us. Today It seemed as Ishu has accepted herself not experiencing pregnancy however she is broken inside and feels herself less of a women mostly from the rejection by Subbu and taunts from his mother. I would love to see a total breakdown scene of Ishu with Raman comforting...I would love a track where they show the different avenues available for women who desire children but can't have them...Ishu has Ruhi but maybe she can meet women in similar situations and help them.

A very good post!
Loved your views regarding subbu's mom. It would be an awesome twist.
It made me think too, why does she hate ishita SOo much??? She was ready to give her son in marriagge to ishita right, or was she pretending to? It could be a possibility that she is involved in something, the day ishita was declared Barren.

Or is it because, she thought Ishita is never going to have a happy, normal life now that she is barren and the fact that she didnt let her son marry her, meant noone else could. So ever since she must be feeling like she has been defeated or something?!

Anyways like you said, ekta shows bring up huge twists, wonder if there is one regarding Ishu's fertility. I hope there is one, and ishu might later get pregnant.

I can fully sympathisize with Ishita as iam in a similar situation.& meet many Subbu mom likes who come up with dont do this,eat this ,do this pooja,do this fast.so much so that i have stopped attending any major functions wherever i can see this aunty or her associates.A woman can be a murderer also,accpeted but not infertile in our society-tht's the cruel mentality.ALso people like subbumom need constant society approval that what she did was right,maybe deep down their own insecurity !

Originally posted by: Malika

Aani I honestly feel problem is not with Subu's mom but with Ishu's approach. She honestly needs to take Toshijee's advice seriously and stand up for herself. Have we ever seen subbu's mom taunting vandu?? Though there are issues in her family too like she works at a higher position than her husband and is more busy also bala always sides with his in-laws BUT vandu is shown to be very straight forward.

Ishu is quite submissive when it comes to standing up for herself. I know being unable to become a mother biologically can be unimaginably painful for a woman but Ishu shud NOT let others take benefit of that n let them hurt her again and again. Yes subbus mom is her sister's MIL but even then there are smart ways to keep someone at bay w/o disrespecting them. This can only happen when Ishu accepts that her not being able to become a mom is not her fault and thus she doesn't deserve to take shit from others abt that.

Originally posted by: Heema22

Mailka . My thoughts exactly !! Ishita needs to change .

Eleanor Roosevelt said, "no one can make you feel inferior without your permission' and she said it so right. It is us who feel inferior and if we change our thinking, every thing about us changes. Thanks for reminding me of the quote, it should be pulled out and read once a day. At the end of the day it is Ishita who has to teach others how she wants to be treated.

Ishita feels that she is infertile so she is not complete women so she feels something is missing in her life . She has developed complex which can be very painful for a women.

Being nice doesn't win you the race. Being authentic to yourself does. It's very simple. If you allow others to walk all over you - even just once - you are telling the universe that you do not deserve better and that you are ok with a given state of behavior.There's no way around it. If you roll out a doormat outside your front door, people will naturally step all over it. And why not? That's what it's there for.

Ishita must know one thing .No one is perfect, everyone has their flaws. You have flaws as well. But, your inferiority complex is magnifying your flaws in your mind. No one else sees your flaws that way that you see them. So insightful and apt. Just because you are not exactly the same or twenty times better as someone else, doesn't mean that you're not good enough. It's about believing that you are good enough and working through your negative self-talk. There are things that can be done. This is your life and you should be living it positively!

So mrs Bhalla is right . Inshita must stand up for herself. After she does , no one will bother her !!

Originally posted by: paru_rox

Toshi ji has time and again said that Bhalla's are a modern family. Have a feeling that RKB will not let something like virginity be an issue once he falls in love with Ishita.

Kekta maiyya ki toh woh hi jaane ... I have been sensible enough to never be obsessed with any of her shows earlier. Got caught up in the hot chemistry of Ishra, baad mein pata chala ki its Kekta's show ... too late was already caught up in the show by then *sigh*.

The only silver lining I see that she just might be able to give us some ""hot** Ishra scenes 😳. I don't really have any other hopes from her in terms of addressing any serious issue ... didn't she recently say she likens her audience to idiots 😲.

@Red -- I know yaar ... its been 2 months. At least sleeping on the same bed should give us "apne aap ke liye" wale scenes 😆. Hope Ruhi makes them sleep on the same bed and then leaves to sleep in her own room for some reason ... kuch toh besharmi wala scene milega 😉.

Originally posted by: pomegranate

despite the redundancy of it all, there is something refreshing about this show. most elemants are overused soap opera tropes but i think the leads bring a sense of clean air. Divyanka and karan nail their characters perfectly, and karan is incredibly compelling as RKB. in my opinion, they are one of the best actors on television right now and really makes this show worth watching.

as for ishra, it's high time CV's start developing their relationship. starting with the sleeping arrangements, for how long will ishita sleep on the couch? these two are so uptight, just sleep on the damn bed- no one said they have to do anything. also don't understand how neither feels an ounce of sexual attraction towards one another?

BTW, my name is zara :)

Originally posted by: Jay_tapori

Ekta maiyya ka nahi bhi idea hoga toh bhi tumhaarey post se woh seven eight weeks ka content create karr degi..kya achey achey absorbing tracks hain tumhaarey. Waisey this i also thought ki baanj thing may be wrong diagnosis. Maybe subbus mom did not want both daughters to be frm same household as her bahu.but then how could subbu who loved her so long overnight change his decision and drop her totally.. Well different story subbu ko toh uskey baad dikhaaya bhi nahi..sirf bechaarey baala ko dikhaatein hain...and for all u know this baala ka goody goddy image n buddiness to ishita may also be a dhong so that his mom's kaaali kartoot may never surface ever... Also i feel ..bala will take bribe in fact he has taken that dabba bribe the friend of romi bot..remember the gold chain he gave vandu... Ekta ke stories ekta hi jaaney .😛 But i liked ur analysis very very much. Tum hamesha mann mein naya doubt daal deti ho 😆

hmmm very complicated question
i think shubs mom wants to prove that by rejecting Ishita as her daughter in law she took a right decision. she wants to prove that ishita was not good for shubs at all. so ab jo bhi ishi ko apnayega agar wo log ishu se khush rehte hai tou usko jalan hogi na? this lady was totally jealous of our ishita. aur uski aag main aur bhe ghee add hua jab ishu got married with so handsome and very cool business tycoon Mr. raman kumar bhalla. :D

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

@bold - I know its sorta crazy isnt it the way the woman keeps torturing Ishita as if she was the one who dumped her son and not the other way around I feel this was always a power struggle to her. She couldnt stand having the influence of the Iyers over her home. May be with her mentality she thought she shouldnt have two sisters as her DIL's else they would take over her reign and in extension their parents would take advantage of her sons

as for Shagun yep her ticket back is Adi, but I hope by the time Raman is in love with Ishita so that he doesnt do something stupid like give into his bratty son' demands to marry his mom again or something. He has to teach Adi the difference between things as well as let his son know the truth. If he wants to behave like an adult, Adi should be treated as one. Only when the kid realizes the truth can he redeem himself.