And unfortunately that makes him overlook his responsibilities of a dad.He feels his pain is the biggest but probably the pain he is giving to his daughter is even bigger.The pain of loneliness at such a tender age.The pain of not being able to verbalize her pain to anyone around her.Atleast Raman has his mom to talk to.He has his friend to share with.He has siblings to shower his love on.Roohi has nothing.But alas he is so drown in his own "pain" that the pain of all others look little to him which is quite a negative quality.
I really wish once ishita comes to his life, she makes him realize that in order to recover from his pain he needs to stop pitying himself.He needs to stop giving the same pain to his daughter.He needs to "accept" the fact that he is in much better place than shagun and so is his daughter. Mr Raman Kumar Bhalla is in need of a good thrashing to bring him back from his "self-pity-trip" and let go of certain things "that happen"