I would Love to Hear from Damini....DT note pg63 - Page 2

Exactly. May all the people who harp on and on about the "sacred" bonds of marriage be stuck in loveless marriages. Maybe then they will appreciate the value of love. Feelings are not a joke. The lines spouted by people here simply AMAZE me. Unhappy couples getting divorced are committing a SIN? Is this the 21st century or the 19th? 🤪

I really hope that these folks don't espouse such views in their real lives, I really do. Oh dear, I just read somebody curse people for voluntarily walking out of an unhappy marriage. Scary.

am i missing something? are we watching a different show? What marriage?

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Nobody should stick in an unhappy marraige ...this is not what it is all about at all .

Whether they want to stick in it or not should be THEIR decision . Let the couple mutually file for divorce . Without outside interference .

As for Meethi and Vishnu , popularly known as the 'stupid' couple , they should have been allowed to come to their decisions , stupid or wise by THEMSELVES .

Originally posted by: Luv4games

but they did decide on their own that they can never make this marriage work. Meethi was asking for divorce the very first night. Vishnu decided on the very first night that he could never accept meethi as his wife. BUT it was the family's pressure that they couldnt come out and say it. It is not like these two were doing everything in their power to make the marriage work. They both checked out on the first night.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Nobody should stick in an unhappy marraige ...this is not what it is all about at all .

Whether they want to stick in it or not should be THEIR decision . Let the couple mutually file for divorce . Without outside interference .

Or , at the same time

if they want to stay on and try it out it should be EQUALLY respected , not made fun of , and they should be given SPACE .

THAT is what 21st century is about .

It was just 15 20 days of their marraige and they were not given any time or space since day one ...Mukta is hovering and taunting , Akash is encircling and doing tamashas after tam,ashas , Rathore is using money power in those 15 days and staying behind the scenes , what is this ? Is this a joke or tamasha theater ?

GIve them some space then let them decide , who r u guys to make decisions about what is good and what is terrible for them ?

Divorce is not evil but these bamboozling tactics definetely are .

21st century does not mean marraige is less sacred either . It does not make this tamasha named wrongly as 'love' sacred either .

Calling usool stupid , sacred bonds as stifling may seem very fashionable to Uttaran makers who believe in targeting young viewers by promoting 'pairs' . I read the posts and feel the pulse ...they click tongues at 'stifling' marraiges and root for divorces talking about 'life'

what does Mukta know about it ? She is just starting , how does she know THIS stupid usoolwaala is THE guy for her ? Infact isn't it better that she understood he lives by stifling usools and that his handsome looks r not enough ?

As i see it ...she takes rejection from guys very badly and loses mental balance . When Aman was not interested she tried evil things , when Vishnu tried to say NO she came on strong all over again ...she MUST be restrained .

As for Meethi and Vishnu , popularly known as the 'stupid' couple , they should have been allowed to come to their decisions , stupid or wise by THEMSELVES .

exactly kools.21st century is abt this only.

Tiny15: This is a request. Please retract your statement immediately. ("I wish people who break marriages for love never remain happy"). I don't care who your favourites are, I don't care who marries who in this crap show, but you said something HIGHLY offensive. You have ABSOLUTELY ZERO RIGHTS to insult real people out there because of a TV show. Do you even know what you said? Were you even thinking before spouting that regressive trash? Do you realise that you've just condemned millions of people who take the immensely difficult decision to divorce after suffering for long in unhappy marriages? Do you, do you have the SLIGHTEST idea of what staying in a loveless marriage means? I do. I've seen my cousin go through it. She eventually decided to opt for a divorce, and is now happily married to the man she loves. Likewise, thousands of people take the decision of mutual seperation after tremendous emotional drain and deprivation. Do you mean to condemn them ALL to unhappy lives? SHAME ON YOU. Its people like you who are instrumental in upholding the stigma of divorce and humiliation of divorcees in our society. Please apologise immediately and retract your highly objectionable and insensitive statement. And take care not to be so brash in future. Please.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So ?😊Maybe after a month they won't feel that way . Maybe he will move in the bedroom , is it mandatory that the decisions taken on the first night r not changeable ? They were never given any space and thats true . Just as Mukta deciding that THIS is true love is not unchangeable so are their decisions . It can start with not filing for divorce , then understanding , then liking what u see . It can happen any way . Doing gundaism under name of pyaar and calling them fools as if tthey r the oracle os Delphi on pyaar is not the answer .

u r so bang on!!

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Tiny15: This is a request. Please retract your statement immediately. I don't care who your favourites are, I don't care who marries who in this crap show, but you said something HIGHLY offensive. You have ABSOLUTELY ZERO RIGHTS to insult real people out there because of a TV show. Do you even know what you said? Were you even thinking before spouting that regressive trash? Do you realise that you've just condemned millions of people who take the immensely difficult decision to divorce after suffering for long in unhappy marriages? Do you, do you have the SLIGHTEST idea of what staying in a loveless marriage means? I do. I've seen my cousin go through it. She eventually decided to opt for a divorce, and is now happily married to the man she loves. Likewise, thousands of people take the decision of mutual seperation after tremendous emotional drain and deprivation. Do you mean to condemn them ALL to unhappy lives? SHAME ON YOU. Its people like you who are instrumental in upholding the stigma of divorce in our society. Please apologise immediately and retract your highly objectionable and insensitive statement. And take care not to be so brash in future. Please.