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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]Nobody should stick in an unhappy marraige ...this is not what it is all about at all .[/I][/B]</font>[DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]Whether they want to stick in it or not should be THEIR decision . Let the couple mutually file for divorce . Without outside interference .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]Or , at the same time[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]if they want to stay on and try it out it should be EQUALLY respected , not made fun of , and they should be given SPACE .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]THAT is what 21st century is about .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]It was just 15 20 days of their marraige and they were not given any time or space since day one ...Mukta is hovering and taunting , Akash is encircling and doing tamashas after tam,ashas , Rathore is using money power in those 15 days and staying behind the scenes , what is this ? Is this a joke or tamasha theater ?[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]GIve them some space then let them decide , who r u guys to make decisions about what is good and what is terrible for them ?[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]Divorce is not evil but these bamboozling tactics definetely are .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]21st century does not mean marraige is less sacred either . It does not make this tamasha named wrongly as 'love' sacred either .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]Calling usool stupid , sacred bonds as stifling may seem very fashionable to Utt ran makers who believe in targeting young viewers by promoting 'pairs' . I read the posts and feel the pulse ...they click tongues at 'stifling' marraiges and root for divorces talking about 'life'[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]what does Mukta know about it ? She is just starting , how does she know THIS stupid usoolwaala is THE guy for her ? Infact isn't it better that she understood he lives by stifling usools and that his handsome looks r not enough ?[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]As i see it ...she takes rejection from guys very badly and loses mental balance . When Aman was not interested she tried evil things , when Vishnu tried to say NO she came on strong all over again ...she MUST be restrained .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000cc">[B][I]As for Meethi and Vishnu , popularly known as the 'stupid' couple , they should have been allowed to come to their decisions , stupid or wise by THEMSELVES .[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV]


I said, I am not supporter of any of these stupid Jodees of Uttaran and honestly CVs are totallly bad at making any kind of jodees... My concern is blaming Rathore, Mukta or Akash...
Mukta is no where wrong to teach lesson to Vishnu for wrong he had done..
And excuse me?? Outside interferences???? Dude.. He is father and somehow unfortunately related to monkeys inu Jogi's house... Had Meethi and Vishnu bren mature couple... Then there wouldn't have been any need for Mukta or RPR to do that... It is all upto Mukta now to understand if Vishnu deserves her or not...
Give them chance?? After breaking two hearts just to save some.old dramabaaz lady ...like damini who cannot see anything right... They deserve a chance? ? Fine... Let them have a chamce... But then why is Vishnu stopping Mukta from moving on?? He cannot have two pieces of cake... Meethi and Vishnu.
. none of these are mature as individual... Who are always confused... No gutts to speak truth.. Accept their love... Etc... And yet who is blamed??? Mukta??? RPR..?? Can you please explain me why??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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see , i see it like this .

Uttaran Makers can rectify this .

I have no problems with this divorce but

i want the fact that Rathore enable Akash to buy half of the Bundela house and defile the blessing of the Bundela oldies to come out and Meethi to be super furious , NOT to go back to Akash although divorce takes place

I want slow toroise like Vishnu to decide Mukta comes on tooo strong and is too dominating and him to voice his need for space

Both should NOT accept these specimens after divorce .

Damini should stop speaking to Rathore , so should Tapasya . So should Meethi . Meethi must not even look AT Akash . You become naukar or jump in fires THIS is definetely NOT the way .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#23
Don't try to turn the tables. I've said UMPTEEN TIMES that living in a marriage just for the heck of it is the greatest insult to the institution. What Meethi and Vishnu did was a mockery of marriage. I'll not repeat this again. What you said sounded like a gross generalisation to all the divorcees out there, which was extremely indecent to say the least. And FYI, NO. My cousin divorced because she couldn't accept her marriage to another man.
Edited by krystal_watz - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#24
So what if he is the father of the girl who is in love and related to the house , this is strictly a matter of Damini's family . His daughter needs to be told the concept of moving on by the parents not supported by going to this extent .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So what if he is the father of the girl who is in love and related to the house , this is strictly a matter of Damini's family . His daughter needs to be told the concept of moving on by the parents not supported by going to this extent .


Vishnu gave rathore his word that he is going to marry mukta and love her forever so I say rathore has every right in the world to interfere and ask questions from vishnu.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font color="#0000ff">see , i see it like this .</font>


<font color="#0000ff">Uttaran Makers can rectify this .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">I have no problems with this divorce but</font>

<font color="#0000ff">i want the fact that Rathore enabled Vishnu to buy half of the Bundela house and defile the blessing of the Bundela oldies to come out and Meethi to be super furious , NOT to go back to Akash although divorce takes place</font>

<font color="#0000ff">I want slow toroise like Vishnu to decide Mukta comes on tooo strong and is too dominating and him to voice his need for space</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Both should NOT accept these specimens after divorce .</font>

<font color="#0000ff">Damini should stop speaking to Rathore , so should Tapasya . So should Meethi . Meethi must not even look AT Akash . You become naukar or jump in fires THIS is definetely NOT the way .</font>



YOU see it that way, Kool. But other people are against the very idea of divorce, going to the extent of giving badduas to divorcees. *shudder*
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: Luv4games


Vishnu gave rathore his word that he is going to marry mukta and love her forever so I say rathore has every right in the world to interfere and ask questions from vishnu.


There r many such feelings before one ties the knot . He opted out . That too is a 21st cty option . Rathore can at the most ASK him what he meant by going back on his word etc like an irate father and then counsel his daughter to move on . He has no right to go to this extent and break Damini's grandaughter's marraige as he opines differently ...its the extents we r talking about .
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Posted: 12 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


So ?😊Maybe after a month they won't feel that way . Maybe he will move in the bedroom , is it mandatory that the decisions taken on the first night r not changeable ? They were never given any space and thats true . Just as Mukta deciding that THIS is true love is not unchangeable so are their decisions . It can start with not filing for divorce , then understanding , then liking what u see . It can happen any way . Doing gundaism under name of pyaar and calling them fools as if tthey r the oracle os Delphi on pyaar is not the answer .


Why should they suffer for a month? Marriage doesnt mean that you have to stick to it and SUFFER just to make society happy. This is the exact reason that many people stay in these kind of marriages but still love their exes and then after 30 years of marriage get a divorce when there are kids involved and everything is more complicated. That is 30 years that could not make two people love each other or forget their exes. I dont see the point of giving them space because these two never wanted to be married in the first place and that is the big issue here. They just did it because damini was going crazy and thinking about herself instead of what meethi wanted. Since when did marriage become so suffocating. no wonder more and more people are getting repulsed by the idea of marriage. there are only two things that matter in here: meethi loves akash and vishu loves mukta. That is what matters.

Marriage is not about being forced to stay with a person that you have no feelings for and out of sympathy or feeling burdened. Marriage is when two people make a commitment to love and honor each other for the rest of their lives without the pressure of family or society. But if those two people never wanted to be in this union then why make a mockery of it and stick to it.

I say good job to akash, mukta and rathore for bringing meethi and vishnu to their senses.

And damini is the biggest culprit in all of this because she never once thought about what meethi wants. It was always about her wishes. If she loves meethi so much then how could she not see that meethi wasnt happy in this marriage and that she loves her first husband.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So what if he is the father of the girl who is in love and related to the house , this is strictly a matter of Damini's family . His daughter needs to be told the concept of moving on by the parents not supported by going to this extent .



🤣 Damini's family... These are just emotional blackmailers and mere spectator...

RPR is the only MAN out there...😳😳😳😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why should they suffer for a month?

You mean that an institution like marraige must not be given even a month ? Then lets agree to disagree as even divorce courts say try it out for 6 months .

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