own vs adopted childrens:Mod note PG 7

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Posted: 13 years ago
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friends i dont thing its necessary to keep own and adopted childrens in the same house. naturally rift comes.even to our own brothers /sisters we fight.naturally it will be more in o/adop case.its a basic instinct kids want their love not to be shared.better rich bundelas can star own orphanage.others who can offord can finance the kid .why people complicate.since iccha like those child every one have to adjust. sick serialno logic.no brain.characters are asylam case.what to say...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirankesan

friends i dont thing its necessary to keep own and adopted childrens in the same house. naturally rift comes.even to our own brothers /sisters we fight.naturally it will be more in o/adop case.its a basic instinct kids want their love not to be shared.better rich bundelas can star own orphanage.others who can offord can finance the kid .why people complicate.since iccha like those child every one have to adjust. sick serialno logic.no brain.characters are asylam case.what to say...




morally i do not want to comment on what you said as I cannot dare to think of adopting a child from an orphanage,giving it a family and then snatching that family from him by keeping him away in another orphanage or hostel or somewhere else and making him such an unfortunate person who cannot even say that he is an orphan.

But before you ever go to an orphanage to do that let me tell you adoption laws are very strict in these matters.They not only check the background of the would be parents but do make a regular check post adoption for a long time to ensure that the kid is in safe hands.

The kid Rathore and Tapasya have is not reported till date.The day they go to the adoption office to adopt it saying they found it on streets they will have to follow to same procedure.

baap dada ka raaj nahi hain humare ki bacche ko utha layenge aur jaise marzi rakhenge.

Edited by payalgarg - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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both johi and iccha are fault.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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when and where rathore reported about the kid he found ?😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Atleast mukta doesnt have a basti background!
Hypocracy! Ich keliye kuch aur rules n muku keliye koi aur.. Muku came as lil months baby that attachment is diff of a grownup friend of daughtor!

Yaar even we have ppl who r winged by our fami with finacial help, support n my fami does such to many but they all know their limits.. We got their kids married n all too but help is help n thats all we dont need their debted feeling nor that we did a favor just wish well for our fami kind!

But jogis luv for ich is nothing but his guilt of killing her father n for that he ruined his own fami, otherday when he was giving lecture to rathore of own kid n adopted i was like u r not in position to give advise with with ur blunders!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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There are many people in this world who are living a peaceful life with their adopted children and biological children...ichcha's decision is being criticized here that she is stopping her own child for the sake of mukku and kanha and opening a way for her in laws going more against the poor kids ...and right now mukku has no background ..she was separated from her parents when she didn't even got her father's name with her ..and do we really need to see the background of a child before adopting them ..?and please do enlighten me where jogi did so much injustice with Tapasya .?.out of 10 things brought for her one thing if he gave to ichcha such a big mistake ?..it's not a sin to adopt children ..many people in the world do also having their own children .and jogi was guilty of this thing that he killed ichcha's father ...but where he did injustice with Tapasya?everything came for her first ..she he was careless and couldn't see one thing being given to ichcha .. every parent in the world gets angry and punish their children when they do something wrong in order to create a fear in them to never do it again...it doesn't mean they don't love them...in my view jogi's biggest fault is that he never had a firm control over Tapasya ..Tapasya outwardly fears from him but inner side she very well knows how to manipulate him and cool him down just few tears and jogi miyan beh gaye ..how many times she used this trick to get forgiveness from him...secondly he should have thrown nani out of his house he knew very well that nani is working as cheer leader to Tappu's works and jealousy against ichcha ...many people here appreciate rathore but wasn't it rathore who said to jogi about Tapasya... laad pyar day kar bigar diya ...Tapasya is only a spoilt brat...she would have the same arrogant behavior and attitude considering everything as her private property if ichcha would not been there ...such people exist in reality who thinks they are the only ones in the world...so on the whole i only want to say ichcha's decision of stopping her own child for the sake of adopted children is wrong ... and jogi's lose hand to his family resulted in the mess ...adopting children and giving them the love and care equal to one;'s biological is not wrong at all ...if parents show some sense and create a balance between their children sensibly not giving a free hand to anyone ..i am not saying keep them caged but not spoil them with extra love and sensibly raise them keeping an understanding and firm hand to their actions then no doubt all can live a happy life ..and many people are living it's a fact

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: muktha_cute

par jab jogi beggar cum servant daughter iccha ko apni ghar mein rakh ke
apni beti kehke vusi ghar mein tapasya se equally vuse pal raha tha
tab everything was ri8
even now people say that jogi was never at fault treating a beggar equally with his daughter
but now when itcame 2 iccha and her child
poora equation hin galat hon gaya
and adopted kids need 2 b brought up in orphanage
then iccha is not even a adopted kid of jogi
phir iccha kot oh vus gandhi basti mein rehna tha na
phir shamelessly how she was in jogi homea nd always thought that she is equal 2 taps

so all the values and morals changes wen it comes 2 iccha



have u started watching uttaran recently?😆then pls keep shut.read the story first

who told you iccha was an orphan?

Iccha and Damini were both Jogi's resposnibilities becuase he KILLLED Damini's husband.That is why he gave Iccha father's love.he has not done any obligation on them.

But If you can value Iccha's father's life maybe you can also estimate the price your own father's life.

You are right that Iccha can never be equal to Taps kyunki wo kabhi itna neeche gir nahi sakti.

yaar koi aisi baat kiya karo jiska justification de sako.bekar mein roze roze....phir mera moo bhi khul jaayega yaar.damini servant hain lekin aaj tak kisi ke saamne haath nahi failaya.jogi ki family se bhi wo ek paisa nahi leti thi balki apne pati ki insurance ke paiso ko bhi which was her last hope,un paiso ko bhi iccha aur tapasya mein baat kar bank mein deposit karwaya.kahi ye beggar begaar us damini ke liye to aap use nahi kar rahe?agar haan to ye bhi bata do tapasya aur uski raam hi rakhe nani Iccha Veer ki shaadi wali raat Jholi faila kar kya rahe rahe the?kisi dance step ki practice?


kya yaar mukhta...bore kar diya...har post mein ek hi baat.servant,beggar,basti...wait a minute...If I am not wrong tapasya bhi to ek gandi si basti mein reh chuki hain na😲



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: payalgarg



have u started watching uttaran recently?😆then pls keep shut.read the story first

who told you iccha was an orphan?

Iccha and Damini were both Jogi's resposnibilities becuase he KILLLED Damini's husband.That is why he gave Iccha father's love.he has not done any obligation on them.

But If you can value Iccha's father's life maybe you can also estimate the price your own father's life.

You are right that Iccha can never be equal to Taps kyunki wo kabhi itna neeche gir nahi sakti.

yaar koi aisi baat kiya karo jiska justification de sako.bekar mein roze roze....phir mera moo bhi khul jaayega yaar.damini servant hain lekin aaj tak kisi ke saamne haath nahi failaya.jogi ki family se bhi wo ek paisa nahi leti thi balki apne pati ki insurance ke paiso ko bhi which was her last hope,un paiso ko bhi iccha aur tapasya mein baat kar bank mein deposit karwaya.kahi ye beggar begaar us damini ke liye to aap use nahi kar rahe?agar haan to ye bhi bata do tapasya aur uski raam hi rakhe nani Iccha Veer ki shaadi wali raat Jholi faila kar kya rahe rahe the?kisi dance step ki practice?


kya yaar mukhta...bore kar diya...har post mein ek hi baat.servant,beggar,basti...wait a minute...If I am not wrong tapasya bhi to ek gandi si basti mein reh chuki hain na😲



bold blue 🤣dance step ki practice 🤣good one
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: OMG1nitya

Atleast mukta doesnt have a basti background!
Hypocracy! Ich keliye kuch aur rules n muku keliye koi aur.. Muku came as lil months baby that attachment is diff of a grownup friend of daughtor!

Yaar even we have ppl who r winged by our fami with finacial help, support n my fami does such to many but they all know their limits.. We got their kids married n all too but help is help n thats all we dont need their debted feeling nor that we did a favor just wish well for our fami kind!

But jogis luv for ich is nothing but his guilt of killing her father n for that he ruined his own fami, otherday when he was giving lecture to rathore of own kid n adopted i was like u r not in position to give advise with with ur blunders!



I have two questions
1.Iccha belongs to the basti but mukta is the daughter of a lady who worked in the basti to earn her living.So who has a better background?

2.How many of your friends or relatives or you killed a man in rash driving?If no,do not compare yourselves with Iccha and Damini and dont you dare hide your OBLIGATION towards them saying HELP,SUPPORT etc if u have ever committed such a sin.

I think if you find the answer with a true heart you will move at a different level where you will not value people on monetary terms like basti and haveli.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kikyo

when and where rathore reported about the kid he found ?😕



maybe uttarn telecasts special episodes for mukhta_cute in which they show Rathore reporting a lost baby to the police🤣🤣

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