own vs adopted childrens:Mod note PG 7 - Page 3

Originally posted by: kikyo

what responsibilty you want to her fulfill omgnitya 😕 if a person truely repents for his mistake..😕Jogi gave ichcha a new life ...ichcha destroyed her own life by her own hands by fullfilling Tappu and Nani's unnecessary demands and hiding truth from jogi ..if she would have opened her mouth earlier things would have been in control...if you guys can give Tappu so many chances ..each time forgiving her without any acceptance and steps taken to ask forgiveness from her side and repent her mistakes .and according to you guys she should be given chances ..why this rule changes for jogi who not only accepted his mistake but took steps to repent it ...😕

Responsibility i was talking is not for takur household but as daughtor to her birth father who got killed by jogis careless driving... Their r ppl who r in real world who ould not accept a penny out in compensation of a fami mem killed in accidt paap ki paise to wash away their sin n these ppl eat paap ki khana in his house! Leave bout jogi im talking of dami n ich duty to their father n husband! They act like they dont even rember him!! Yaha papa kehne mein hi busy rehti!

Damini knowingly took favors why?! N after knowing what did ich do, nothing! why do they do slavery to takurs?! Its not necessary nor needed!! Ich life changed no matter wha when her real father died! Ye bhi koi meherbaani n how stupid r they to act life the owe to jogi! When infact he should have given them freedom n life of respect to their own by financial support n edu ich,, may b dami would have married again too if they were not here!

U r replying in jogis prespective while i been talking thru her passed away or killed fathers daughtor ich duty!

Originally posted by: OMG1nitya

Responsibility i was talking is not for takur household but as daughtor to her birth father who got killed by jogis careless driving... Their r ppl who r in real world who ould not accept a penny out in compensation of a fami mem killed in accidt paap ki paise to wash away their sin n these ppl eat paap ki khana in his house! Leave bout jogi im talking of dami n ich duty to their father n husband! They act like they dont even rember him!! Yaha papa kehne mein hi busy rehti!

Damini knowingly took favors why?! N after knowing what did ich do, nothing! why do they do slavery to takurs?! Its not necessary nor needed!! Ich life changed no matter wha when her real father died! Ye bhi koi meherbaani n how stupid r they to act life the owe to jogi! When infact he should have given them freedom n life of respect to their own by financial support n edu ich,, may b dami would have married again too if they were not here!

U r replying in jogis prespective while i been talking thru her passed away or killed fathers daughtor ich duty!

you didn't get my point...i am talking in ichcha's perspective ...i only said jogi repented for his mistake ..when ichcha came to know about that Jogi was responsible for her father's death she felt hurt didn't she? she even decided to leave him.when veer made her understand ... if she would have broken all ties with Jogi or slapped him or left him,,she would have been the most shameless person in the world breaking ties with that man who gave her so much love , care like a father ...if jogi killed ichcha's father he gave her a new life too otherwise where she would be and ichcha knew this fact ..i think you missed the episode where veer made her realise that ..do you think her father would have been proud of her if she would have broken all ties with the man who if snatched her father from her that too accidently no intention involved but left no stone unturned to give her the love of the father...? and damini had to compromise with the conditions ...jogi was truely sorry for his mistake ..it's not he murdered her husband intentionally ..it was an accident ..and he wanted to honestly repent for his mistake and have you ever given one thought to the fact that damini is an uneducated woman with the circumstances she was in it would have been a lot difficult for her to raise her own daughter alone if jogi wouldn't have come forward for help ...what damini should have done if jogi was honestly asking sorry for his act even was ready for any punishment for his mistake..and those people who don't take any penny for their loved ones loss they are being offered money in place of their loss but here jogi didn't offer money but took a responsibility..there is difference in both approaches and this is also a fact many people who are poor had to burry their emotions and feelings and love and they take money from rich when they kill their loved ones in accidents ..they take money for survival in this world by putting stones on their hearts ..sad but true

Originally posted by: OMG1nitya

Responsibility i was talking is not for takur household but as daughtor to her birth father who got killed by jogis careless driving... Their r ppl who r in real world who ould not accept a penny out in compensation of a fami mem killed in accidt paap ki paise to wash away their sin n these ppl eat paap ki khana in his house! Leave bout jogi im talking of dami n ich duty to their father n husband! They act like they dont even rember him!! Yaha papa kehne mein hi busy rehti!

Damini knowingly took favors why?! N after knowing what did ich do, nothing! why do they do slavery to takurs?! Its not necessary nor needed!! Ich life changed no matter wha when her real father died! Ye bhi koi meherbaani n how stupid r they to act life the owe to jogi! When infact he should have given them freedom n life of respect to their own by financial support n edu ich,, may b dami would have married again too if they were not here!

U r replying in jogis prespective while i been talking thru her passed away or killed fathers daughtor ich duty!

So giving somebody a chance to repent is paap ka khana for you?

You think to complete her responsibilities towards her father Iccha shouldnt have studied well which was actually her father's dream and should have had vengeance against the man who though killed her father in accident and not murder but wants to do prayaschit for his mistake by bringing up Iccha and giving her father's love and a good life?

If other people in such situation do not fulfill their obligation and slip off leaving some pennies for the victim party,do u think if somebody is genuine and does fulfills his obligation it actually becomes an obligation on the victim's kin ?

So you think If Iccha's father had been alive he would have not been able to give Iccha a good life so its good that he died?I know a person who was a bus conductor but went to make his son a pilot.Now what do u have to say?Dhirubai Ambani came to Mumbai with some pennies a wife and saala to mumbai,so did he die like that only or his children got their mother,maama and few pennies in dhirubai's pocket as virasat?

Originally posted by: kikyo

you didn't get my point...i am talking in ichcha's perspective ...i only said jogi repented for his mistake ..when ichcha came to know about that Jogi was responsible for her father's death she felt hurt didn't she? she even decided to leave him.when veer made her understand ... if she would have broken all ties with Jogi or slapped him or left him,,she would have been the most shameless person in the world breaking ties with that man who gave her so much love , care like a father ...if jogi killed ichcha's father he gave her a new life too otherwise where she would be and ichcha knew this fact ..i think you missed the episode where veer made her realise that ..do you think her father would have been proud of her if she would have broken all ties with the man who if snatched her father from her that too accidently no intention involved but left no stone unturned to give her the love of the father...? and damini had to compromise with the conditions ...jogi was truely sorry for his mistake ..it's not he murdered her husband intentionally ..it was an accident ..and he wanted to honestly repent for his mistake and have you ever given one thought to the fact that damini is an uneducated woman with the circumstances she was in it would have been a lot difficult for her to raise her own daughter alone if jogi wouldn't have come forward for help ...what damini should have done if jogi was honestly asking sorry for his act even was ready for any punishment for his mistake..and those people who don't take any penny for their loved ones loss they are being offered money in place of their loss but here jogi didn't offer money but took a responsibility..there is difference in both approaches and this is also a fact many people who are poor had to burry their emotions and feelings and love and they take money from rich when they kill their loved ones in accidents ..they take money for survival in this world by putting stones on their hearts ..sad but true

Yes its accident n not purposeful also jogi truly meant prayaschit n thats good.

Dami shouldnt have heeded to majboori in exchange for her so called morals, why did she put ich in such situation that she receives fatherly favors! Never seen such type fami nor ituation in real life n to me it feels wrong! Ich doesnt even remember her real father also anymore, no reminders too! Their r many ppl who r morally n ethically strong enough to so no even if hey had to do labour they would! Self respect bhi hoti hai, anyways!

Originally posted by: payalgarg

So giving somebody a chance to repent is paap ka khana for you?

You think to complete her responsibilities towards her father Iccha shouldnt have studied well which was actually her father's dream and should have had vengeance against the man who though killed her father in accident and not murder but wants to do prayaschit for his mistake by bringing up Iccha and giving her father's love and a good life?

If other people in such situation do not fulfill their obligation and slip off leaving some pennies for the victim party,do u think if somebody is genuine and does fulfills his obligation it actually becomes an obligation on the victim's kin ?

So you think If Iccha's father had been alive he would have not been able to give Iccha a good life so its good that he died?I know a person who was a bus conductor but went to make his son a pilot.Now what do u have to say?Dhirubai Ambani came to Mumbai with some pennies a wife and saala to mumbai,so did he die like that only or his children got their mother,maama and few pennies in dhirubai's pocket as virasat?

phir se shuru!!!!

What i was saying is ich n dami could have lived even better life if they themselves didnt do slavery out of no reason! They deserved more than they got, i dont think u can understand that! Im busy today i cant reply long!

Originally posted by: OMG1nitya

Yes its accident n not purposeful also jogi truly meant prayaschit n thats good.

Dami shouldnt have heeded to majboori in exchange for her so called morals, why did she put ich in such situation that she receives fatherly favors! Never seen such type fami nor ituation in real life n to me it feels wrong! Ich doesnt even remember her real father also anymore, no reminders too! Their r many ppl who r morally n ethically strong enough to so no even if hey had to do labour they would! Self respect bhi hoti hai, anyways!

forgiving a person if he is truely repenting is not moraless at least in my opinion ...and i guess there are lot of things which neither i have seen or neither you have ..it doesnt mean they don't exist..poverty makes a person many a times compromise on such things which no one will happily do ...damini was not taking muft ki roti she was working for that ...and morally and ethically strong what is wrong in giving a person a chance to repent if truely wants ..yes self respect both ichcha and damini should not take garbage from divya , nani gang ...they should shut them up but respecting a person like jogi whats wrong in it ..if they respect he too respects them a lot ..has given them a lot ..and i think its not very much easy to raise a child for an uneductaed poor woman without the support of her husband ...damini lost her husband ..ichcha lost her father ..if any true man was coming forward to give her daughter with some of fatherly love whats moraless in it ..that man was her sinner but he wanted to correct his mistake..i don't understand whats moraless in it for accepting it ..how can you say ichcha doesn't remember her father ...i think in a serial they can't show her 24/7 remembering her father ...but many times they have shown her forexample before her marriage to vansh ..she was sitting infront of his picture .

Originally posted by: kikyo

forgiving a person if he is truely repenting is not moraless at least in my opinion ...and i guess there are lot of things which neither i have seen or neither you have ..it doesnt mean they don't exist..poverty makes a person many a times compromise on such things which no one will happily do ...damini was not taking muft ki roti she was working for that ...and morally and ethically strong what is wrong in giving a person a chance to repent if truely wants ..yes self respect both ichcha and damini should not take garbage from divya , nani gang ...they should shut them up but respecting a person like jogi whats wrong in it ..if they respect he too respects them a lot ..has given them a lot ..and i think its not very much easy to raise a child for an uneductaed poor woman without the support of her husband ...damini lost her husband ..ichcha lost her father ..if any true man was coming forward to give her daughter with some of fatherly love whats moraless in it ..that man was her sinner but he wanted to correct his mistake..i don't understand whats moraless in it for accepting it ..how can you say ichcha doesn't remember her father ...i think in a serial they can't show her 24/7 remembering her father ...but many times they have shown her forexample before her marriage to vansh ..she was sitting infront of his picture .

dont waste your time on him because you can awaken somebody who is asleep but cannot awaken somebody who pretends to be asleep

Originally posted by: payalgarg

dont waste your time on him because you can awaken somebody who is asleep but cannot awaken somebody who pretends to be asleep

😕 hey ye to maine ek baar bola tha 😆

Originally posted by: varun.tap

😕 hey ye to maine ek baar bola tha 😆

theek se yaad karo,aapne nahi bola tha balki maine aapke liye bola tha.ha ha

T forgave R who according to her fans had raped her or took advantage of her situation in the past. There can be no bigger crime against a woman than that for a woman. When T can forgive such a big mistake of R and marry him and claim to love him now. Why should Damini not forgive Jogi when it was an accident that killed her husband and whne Jogi was repentant. On the same lines when T could forgive R for raping her and marry him and love him. Why does she not find it in herself to forgive I for a much smaller mistake of "snatching her father's love". Like R, Iccha also always loved her and forgave her big mistakes and hid her mistakes.