What do I mean by that?
Tapasya has determination, passion and self confidence as her good characters. She has been a victim of what is called siblings rivalry. If we have to blame Tapasya for her unconventional ways of getting things then we have to blame Mr. Jogi Thakur equally for that wrong doings. He is the main reason for not identifying this defect in Tapasya early childhood. If he keeps pampering one child and constantly ignoring the other, this is what he is going to get from the other child. The biggest mistake of any parent would be to compare one child with another constantly. On top of that he was careless enough to provide a better environment for his kid. If he knew Naani was going to poison his daughter and still continued to allow her in his house, it is his biggest mistake. A parent should make sure his / her kid gets best of the best environment in early childhood. Just like Damini. Any compromise in this will lead to disaster. And this guy is not making any effort to correct his mistake or correcting Tapasya. Ignorance from Jogi will just stoke up disturbance in Tapasya.
I don't agree with the things Tapasya did neither I am endorsing her but looking at her it is clear that she has always been guided by wrong people. Her potential hasn't been properly channelized in the right direction. She is chasing a misplaced notion with a passion. (Although Tapasya loves Veer, she cannot just snatch him)
Only people who can save her is either Veer or Jogi. I wish its Veer who guides her in a right direction to make her a better person. She needs to be set up with a right goal in her life. If Veer succeeds in making her understand the true characteristics of Love, she will automatically bring Icchha to him. And I am certain he will not be able to teach these values by ignoring her but rather guiding her in right path.
This is a drama, so Tapasya will continue to behave as is for the story to continue and Veer will do all sorts of things to flame her. Some day they will just show her as a failed women.
I liked the story where Tapasya keeps trying for Veer by making all kinds of drama and Veer giving no hoot about that.