The Problem with Chakor

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Ruby7
Some more thoughts

It took chakor so long to surrender herself to suraj despite being in love with him, so suraj thinking she moved on within a month is rather silly. I am not saying he should ignore what he saw, but he never saw her happy with ranvijay. He saw her falling and ranvijay helping her. Is that showing he is her husband. Any good person on that situation will stop her from falling.
I somehow can understand that he never wanted to confront her and left because he wanted to run away from the situation. But he could have decided to confront her later. He is so much in his own pain that refuses to see the other side.

Chakor has a big responsibility growing inside her and I can feel her fear but she also needs to not forget that suraj is the same man who drank poison for her sometime back

Both sukor have trust issues

@bold

Sukor don't have trust issues...

Chakor has trust issues.

Suraj has his insecurity issues...

Suraj always emphasises on the fact that Chakor will leave him ...and for avoiding that he majes her wear the kangan and payal to keep her glued to him...whereas Chakor also in a lighter tone that she will leave him.

So Suraj believing aboard Chakor remarrying is somewhat justified.

But Chakor,...

Suraj had many opportunities to kill her,the best being the night before the mishap to kill her,but he never did that...how could she still be convinced on the fact that SURAJ WANTS CHAKOR TO DIE...(this thing is just not going well with me)

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: binivenugopal
The sindoor brings doubts on him that if you notice all the questions Imli had were valid ones there.
That she never wear sindoor after their camp wedding.
Here she wearing sindoor.
I think he had no answers for that.
For him,she try to ran away from him after seeing him and never tried to call him.
He leave her because he didn't want to ruin her new life.
I think he would have never give up on her,if he get even a slight hint that she still loves him.

Still I feel Sooraj invest so much this time in spite of having Imli's constant distractions.

Yeah that is the thing...

when tamarind questioned about Chakor's nit putting sindoor all these days,the poor guy had no answer.

And if he would have been really angry on her after learning of her remarriage,he would have just went and shouted on her,but he just didn't wanted to ruin her alleged marital life(if she was happy in it),so he walked away.

He also said that he even went to her room in ghe hospital,but stopped seeing her with another man and because of her innocent face(though this scene was not shown)

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Divya

@ndivyateja

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Rabia,

Now I understand why you admire Suraj so much..Somewhere you think like him 😆

Ok, I will become Chakor for you and explain things..

Suraj thinks chakor believes everyone else except him

Chakor is quite naive..She sees good in everyone, helps everyone despite her equation with them..But with Suraj, she sees both right and wrong, good and bad, love and hatred..because he taughter her all these..But after chakor came into his life, he was able to see only right, only good, only love..because that's what she taught him..

So, when she was angry..he thought its mistrust..

When she was away..he thought its betrayal..

When she was with someone else..he thought she married..

Which are extremely opposite to what actually happened..I will say that's how innocent his love is..Just like a kid..who thinks his mom hates him when she scolds 😳

Regarding chakor with strangers

Trust me Rabia, she lives the worst life ever..Coz 99% of her life was with strangers..Someone or the other helped her from childhood and whoever helped was none from her family..If she is adjusting to strangers..that's no big deal..

Its obvious she cooks, does the household work, mingles with the family as a token of thanks for her stay..Its not like she trusts them..

She actually trusts herself more..that she can come out of any danger..

Lastly, chakor thinking Suraj is trying to kill her..I can never ever accept it..Im disappointed too..

Suraj assuming chakor to be married to RV..its equally unacceptable 😊

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nycgal

@nycgal

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Eatifi

@bold
Sukor don't have trust issues...
Chakor has trust issues.
Suraj has his insecurity issues...

Suraj always emphasises on the fact that Chakor will leave him ...and for avoiding that he majes her wear the kangan and payal to keep her glued to him...whereas Chakor also in a lighter tone that she will leave him.
So Suraj believing aboard Chakor remarrying is somewhat justified.

But Chakor,...
Suraj had many opportunities to kill her,the best being the night before the mishap to kill her,but he never did that...how could she still be convinced on the fact that SURAJ WANTS CHAKOR TO DIE...(this thing is just not going well with me)

@Italics red ... these issues are related to each other...

Security and trust go hand in hand..

Insecurity and lack of trust go hand in hand.. lack of trust will and does give rise to insecurity..

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binivenugopal

@binivenugopal

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#25

I have that feeling that if he find out she moved on and adjusted to new life he will simply walk off,as I already written here somewhere in the discussions here few days ago.

Exactly that is what happened.

Sacrifice also one good virtue of love and it is one good quality on him that he didn't try to confront her on that time and blast on her and it also take good courage to do so.

I'm sure,if he gets a slight hint that she still loving him,he will run to her.

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#26

Sorry for joing you all this late!

Interesting discussion going on here!

I don't come back on the point that everyone said about Chakor's trust on Suraj and all.

I would like to just add that Suraj is very well aware of her preferences and her life more than herself.(That's something we all said here or there, in one post or the other)

So he will never question her about her priorities when it will come to him but when it comes to her, he wants her to make herself the first one in the priority list(Am I clear here?) and it's the same for him but with a bit of change. She will be always his priority(in some way or the other, his decision was and still is linked with her and his love for her.

Coming to Chakor, she is a person who went through a lot by trusting wrong people since childhood but she never learnt her lesson from them and I don't think it will happen any soon too!

Chakor is someone who takes things which are presented in front of her, whatever the situation is and whoever the person is, the way they are presented in front of her is what makes her to take her decision! But sometimes she tends to go with her heart or mind but mostly she decides with what she sees!

That's all I wanted to say here!

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Subi51

@Subi51

Beginner

Posted: 7 years ago

#27

The problem with Chakor is that she failed to show concern and ask whereabouts her niece/nephew to be born in the first conversation with Imli. Every female awaits her sibling's first child eagerly to hold the new born in her arms. This gesture would have reduced her suffering to great extent. It could lead her to doubt Imli's words; How can Imli behave normal after her second miscarriage,the baby for which she had suffered torture from whole village, why isn't she in a state of shock? Has she turned to be psycho? Is it worth to believe in just one source of information?

Chakor was never afraid of death.She would always go in front of the pistol everytime Suraj aimed the gun at her. Chakor's trust on Suraj can't be questioned as she consummated the marriage just in the presence of moon and stars. Imli's advice to run away never influenced Chakor's will to confront Suraj. Everytime Chakor listened to Imli is when she suggests the life of a new soul growing inside her " sign of Chakor and Suraj's love" which she is down to earth to save and not willing to risk at all. A mother fights for her child's safety even if her husband comes in her way. She is unstoppable. However, she did not give up and came looking for Suraj, not to forget she called his name "SURAJ" twice. Pregnancy is the time when a lady needs her husband the most. She tried her level best to connect with Suraj face to face. Sometimes her health prevented her; at other times the circumstances created by Imli.

We know Suraj is adamant, always needs to prove he was right. If only he had gone straight to Chakor when he saw her in wheelchair whom he had been waiting for since so long without indulging in the talk with Imli. He would have heard the happy news. Sometimes fate deceives.

But in fiction writers deceives, just to bring twist and turns and prolong the story.

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lifeisbeautiful

@Ruby7

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: binivenugopal
I have that feeling that if he find out she moved on and adjusted to new life he will simply walk off,as I already written here somewhere in the discussions here few days ago.
Exactly that is what happened.

Sacrifice also one good virtue of love and it is one good quality on him that he didn't try to confront her on that time and blast on her and it also take good courage to do so.

I'm sure,if he gets a slight hint that she still loving him,he will run to her.

I felt he was scared to confront her. Maybe because he thought she will tell him, she doesn't love him anymore. By not asking her, he left that tiny bit of hope in his heart that she is still his

His bitterness and tears prove he has not accepted her betrayal yet

Edited by Ruby7 - 7 years ago

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lifeisbeautiful

@Ruby7

Sparkler

Posted: 7 years ago

#29

One thing I would like to add is that suraj has not given up yet. A person who gives up does not behave so bitter and restless. To give up he needs to confront Chakor and get a closure. His pain is getting deeper with each episode and will continue to get worse until he does not get his answers. Suraj needs to confront Chakor otherwise they is no end to his downfall

Edited by Ruby7 - 7 years ago

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: ndivyateja
Rabia,
Now I understand why you admire Suraj so much..Somewhere you think like him 😆
Ok, I will become Chakor for you and explain things..

Suraj thinks chakor believes everyone else except him
Chakor is quite naive..She sees good in everyone, helps everyone despite her equation with them..But with Suraj, she sees both right and wrong, good and bad, love and hatred..because he taughter her all these..But after chakor came into his life, he was able to see only right, only good, only love..because that's what she taught him..

So, when she was angry..he thought its mistrust..
When she was away..he thought its betrayal..
When she was with someone else..he thought she married..

Which are extremely opposite to what actually happened..I will say that's how innocent his love is..Just like a kid..who thinks his mom hates him when she scolds 😳

Regarding chakor with strangers
Trust me Rabia, she lives the worst life ever..Coz 99% of her life was with strangers..Someone or the other helped her from childhood and whoever helped was none from her family..If she is adjusting to strangers..that's no big deal..
Its obvious she cooks, does the household work, mingles with the family as a token of thanks for her stay..Its not like she trusts them..
She actually trusts herself more..that she can come out of any danger..

Lastly, chakor thinking Suraj is trying to kill her..I can never ever accept it..Im disappointed too..
Suraj assuming chakor to be married to RV..its equally unacceptable 😊

Divya,you always explain everything beautifully.😃

But hey,why did you thought that I think like Suraj?😛

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