The Problem with Chakor

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Disclaimer-First of all I am making myself clear that with this post I am not at all bashing Chakor.

She is our heroine,and we all,love,respect and admire her character.

I am just expressing a thought that I felt about her,that in my opinion is her biggest problem.

I was watching the college reunion party episode,and a scene left me thinking about this

In that episode,when Chakor leaves the party angry in Suraj,there was a scene,where Suraj was sitting and drinking and having a hearty conversation with his friends and he told about Chakor..."Chakor ki na yahi problem hai,EK HAME CHHODKAR,BAAKI HAR KISI PAR ASAANI SE BHAROSA KAR LETI HAI...!!!",and then I felt,that indeed that is where Chakor's biggest problem lies,"except for Suraj,she very easily trusts anyone".

Like she had just met and known Ajay,and was very quick in relying on him,that he will help her in closing the gun factory and freeing Azadgunj,and trusted him so much that she was all the way ready to travel with him to Lunknown,when still,he was more a kind of stranger

Even now also,she just witnessed one act of Rannvijay's bravery and him saving her,and she is all the way ready to accompany him and live along with his family,how could she so easily trust a stranger with her and her unborn life,HOW CAN SHE BELIEVE THAT WITH RANNVIJAY SHE CAN BE SAFE,WHILE SURAJ IS A THREAT TO HER LIFE.

(Actually I am still unable to come into terms with Chakor's doubt on Suraj).

Suraj believing that Chakor left him to start on a new life is still convincing somewhere,but Chakor believing that Suraj wants to kill her,is a VERY BIG DISTRUST THAT CHAKOR IS HAVING ON SURAJ

In the last episode also,Chakor was so quick in acknowledging the fact that Rannvijay respects woman so much...

When will the time come when Chakor will start acknowledging the virtues of Suraj in this way...

Chakor has somewhere VERY,VERY EASILY believed that Suraj is behind her life,and she has also very calmly made peace with the fact as well,and moved on in her life smoothly,wih new people,fully convinced of his betrayal.

While Suraj,inspite of openly claiming that 'the story of Suraj and Chakor' is just unable to move on properly.

I had always felt it-

For Suraj,Chakor is his entire LIFE.

but For Chakor,although a very important one,Suraj is a part of her life,JUST A PART.

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Edited-

And I got a proof as well to explain my point...saw a video on YouTube,but link not working here.

So writing the wu here-

In Ranvijay's house-

Chakor convinces the ladies that she will cook the food,and they hesitating agree.

Then Chakor very happily serves everyone the food,and Rannvijay gets angry on his family that Chakor is their guest and is pregnant,she was not supposed to do any work

In the haveli-

Suraj calls some kids and does the puja along with Maatarani idol,Tejasvini is tensed at his condition as its evident that Suraj is just doing everything to pacify himself,as he is forcefully smiling,while his voice clearly shows the pain he is trying to hid inside...

Its so easy for Chakor to move on,

She is adjusting herself with strangers

While Suraj is unable to adjust with his family

Edited by Eatifi - 8 years ago

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binivenugopal

@binivenugopal

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think this Ranvijay is going to make her understand a big lesson in her life that don't believe strangers very easily.

Believing Imli and doubting Sooraj is fine.

But is she really thinking the reason ??

Why he wants to kill her ???

I don't think Imli has given her proper reason but just convincing her only that she is her sister,she will not lie to her.

I think she is going to ask him the same question, when they meet,like why he wants to kill her.

Because may be she herself don't know the answer !!!

Because she blindly takes Imli's words and get manipulated by her and situations.

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lifeisbeautiful

@Ruby7

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Eatifi
And I got a proof as well to explain my point...
See this video.

https://youtu.be/_6Pb-xyW_AI

Its so easy for Chakor to move on,
She is adjusting herself with strangers
While Suraj is unable to adjust with his family

Is this video an upcoming scene?

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Ruby7

Is this video an upcoming scene?

Yup,saw it on YouTube...but the link is not working here,I guess

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lifeisbeautiful

@Ruby7

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Eatifi

Yup,saw it on YouTube...but the link is not working here,I guess

What's the title of the video? I will type it and see

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Ruby7

What's the title of the video? I will type it and see

Its perhaps today's segment on SBAS,I saw trending on YouTube on my phone and watched🤓

But I have edited my first comment,you can see wu there😳

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lifeisbeautiful

@Ruby7

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Eatifi

Its perhaps today's segment on SBAS,I saw trending on YouTube on my phone and watched🤓

But I have edited my first comment,you can see wu there😳

Yes I saw it now.lets wait for the episode. They will show chakor dream about suraj. It was shown in the btdd segment today ,

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nemo316

@nemo316

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Posted: 8 years ago

The link worked for me and amrutha posted the video on her instagram account.

Rabia, I don't agree that Chakor has moved on, people have different ways to deal with grief. Some people just shut down and cry and some get themselves busy until they're strong enough to deal with it. Frankly Suraj's breakdown isn't something to be proud of, some people never get out of this phase, and some recover after some time.

The fact that she's still acting normally doesn't mean she has moved or that she isn't heartbroken, it's that some people can compartmentalize better and that some people don't have the luxury to indulge in their grief. I think this is playing more into serial stereotypes where FL never forget their duties even when their personal life in this tatters and how ML can't survive without FL.

Edited by meshmesh - 8 years ago

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: meshmesh
The link worked for me and amrutha posted the video on her instagram account.
Rabia, I don't agree that Chakor has moved on, people have different ways to deal with grief. Some people just shut down and cry and some get themselves busy until they're strong enough to deal with it. Frankly Suraj's breakdown isn't something to be proud of, some people never get out of this phase, and some recover after some time.

Don't know why the link was not working for me after I posted it here...

Anyways,I was not talking about the "moving on" thing..

I was in actual talking about the TRUST that Chakor easily does on strangers,while she trusts the least on her love,her Suraj.

And she is looking very calm actually,as if she is not affected much by it(well for getting the full picture about this,have to see the actual episodes)

About Suraj,I never said that I am.proud of his condition,(actually I am feeling like to confront him,slap him hard,shake and shout at him to MOVE ON).

But he is just unable to cope up with his mishap.

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